Originally posted by Crowded
everyone is assumed straight unless he/she tells that he/she is not.
there are effiminate guys who still deny if you ask them if they are homosexual. maybe they just like a girl, but deep inside, they think that they are straight or just afraid to come out to avoid humiliations.
in this generation, it is really hard to know. even a Robin Padilla-like guy can be gay. he just doesn't tell you that he is coz he doesn't have to say it to u coz u r not important to his life or he just wants to keep it from people who are narrow-minded.
the best way to know a guy if he's gay...go ask him! no offense meant. you are just askin. a secured guy won't be hurt with that question. it means he's secured with his sexuality. he doesn't care whether people think he's gay when he hangs out with gay people.
so let's stop this generalisations that a gay does this and does that. tho some of them work accurately. but le'ts always give the person a benefit of the doubt.
and besides whether gay or not, it doesn't matter. as long as this person respects ur whole being. why u have to give a flying F$%K about his sexual preference....righ?!