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    How to handle ill tempered spouse

    My husband has a very short temper. Not naman to the point of being physical. Pero konting bagay lang he'll be mad na and nag galore. Mas nagger pa nga siya than me.

    He is so used to calling me t*ng* and g*g* when mad. Ok lang sana kaso there are times na in front of my kids. My eldest once asked me if bakit daw ako lagi sinisigawan ni daddy. Really dont know how to answer her. Scary kasi nasasanay na ko with the shouting and name calling.

    Haaay just need to vent out

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    Pagusapan nyo munang dalawa. Sabihin mo kung ano nararamdaman mo. Kung hindi magbago, iwan mo muna.

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    how long kayo mag bf/gf before marrying? ganyan ata yung ibang abusive na tao... they start first and foremost with verbal abuse.

    you say, "Ok lang sana kaso there are times na in front of my kids." kahit kailan hindi naging okay ang verbal abuse (or whatever kind of abuse). think really really hard. minsan talaga masarap sigawan ang t*ng* lalu na kung gustong lumevelup at maging b0b0.

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    You must be financially dependent.

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    do what my dad does, just say oo and dont feed the fire.

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    Verbal abuse is as bad if not worse than physical abuse. Talk to your husband and tell him he has anger management issues. He needs help. If he refuses to seek help, verbal abuse is good grounds to separate.

    Bottomline: verbal abuse is not healthy for you and your children.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridg2012 View Post
    My husband has a very short temper. Not naman to the point of being physical. Pero konting bagay lang he'll be mad na and nag galore. Mas nagger pa nga siya than me.

    He is so used to calling me t*ng* and g*g* when mad. Ok lang sana kaso there are times na in front of my kids. My eldest once asked me if bakit daw ako lagi sinisigawan ni daddy. Really dont know how to answer her. Scary kasi nasasanay na ko with the shouting and name calling.

    Haaay just need to vent out
    hindi ka niyan mahal, maghanap ka na ng iba.

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    Go Celtics!!! Riddikulus's Avatar
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    Kawawa ka naman TS.

    Iwan mo na yan.

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    baka naman meron syang HIGH BLOOD.. pa bp mo.. ako ganyan din, 1 thing that contribute to me being hot headed is my elevated BP..

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    For sure he wants something. Anu yun?

    Kalokohan ba?

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    Let's stop and talk awhile. tonton's Avatar
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    Your husband may be bipolar. Leave him asap.

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    nagpacheck na ba sya?

    baka diabetic at mataas ang sugar.

    ganyan ako minsan, kaya madalas napapagbuhatan ako ng kamay ng asawa ko. minsan bigla akong napapataas ng boses, kapag di ako nakapag maintenance drugs ko. inuupakan ako ni misis.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ka_deniz View Post
    nagpacheck na ba sya?

    baka diabetic at mataas ang sugar.

    ganyan ako minsan, kaya madalas napapagbuhatan ako ng kamay ng asawa ko. minsan bigla akong napapataas ng boses, kapag di ako nakapag maintenance drugs ko. inuupakan ako ni misis.
    kaya ka ba biglang nag-cacancel sa ibang gimik? halata yung pasa mo sa mukha?

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    Thanks everyone for the concern.

    2 years kami before getting married. Didnt see that side of him. Mabait naman sya but loses temper easily.

    No im not financially dependent. I actually earn more than he does hehe.

    Meron namang yearly medical yung company where he works with. So if may problem siya sa BP hope he have it treated. He is aware naman na mainitin ulo niya kaso hanggang don na lang. I guess even if he wants to change it... bumabalik lang sa dati.

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    ^sa psychiatrist siguro sya dapat magpacheck. kausapin mo naman sya na kontrolin lalo pag nandyan mga kids nyo. hindi maganda maidudulot nyan sa kanila.

    bakit ba sya sobrang galit? is there something in the past na ginawa mo, tas di nya makalimutan kaya simpleng bagay badtrip na sya sayo? kung ang sagot ay HINDI, balik ka dun sa unang suggestion ko. If yes, usap kayo masinsinan.

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    He's probably one of those guys na pinagmamalaki he can get fresher girls any time. Opportunista din asawa mo malamang. Yung type na alam kung kanino sisipsip.

    Pero di ibig sabihin u can't work it out. Pero kung ako super unwilling for compromise in that kind of bs kung alam mo na wala kang ginagawa.

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    [QUOTE=babygirl007;65606203]He's probably one of those guys na pinagmamalaki he can get fresher girls any time. Opportunista din asawa mo malamang. Yung type na alam kung kanino sisipsip.

    sorry matanong lang, paano mo nasabi? may koneksyon ba talaga ang pagiging opportunista sa pagiging nagger ng isang lalake?

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    ^ wala. Yung trigger ng temper niya tiningnan ko: katangahan daw ni ts according to her. At hindi na niya maexplain yung temper. Money, mercy, intellect, and social status lang naman ang basehan ng mundong ginagalawan natin

    Eh mukhang di naman matalino asawa ni ts my2cents.

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    I confess, I see myself as your hot tempered husband..Anger is normal..talagang hindi maiiwasan may masabi ng hindi maganda pag galit ang isang tao..He is just a human being..
    Pag galit ang isang tao..may pinaghuhugutan yan..maraming possible factor..

    1) isa na yung sinabi ni ka deniz..baka diabetic..I encounter it with my dad..akala ko nga bipolar..pero it is something to do with his sickness..

    2) hurt people hurt people..baka may problema ang hubby mo..wala lang lakas ng loob ishare sayo because of the ego thing..and somehow..when people blamed..they are the most guilty party..

    3) maybe..intimidated sayo..kasi mas malaki ang salary mo compare sa kanya..he can't accept the fact that you earn more than he does..alam mo naman ang society dictates that a man must be a good provider..yun na nga lang ang requirement..bagsak pa siya..

    Solution:

    pag naghuhurementado asawa mo..leave him for a while..bring your kids (baka kasi paginitan ang anak mo) ..have a short roadtrip..fastfood takeout..buy also an ice cream for him..pagbalik mo..yayain mo mag ice cream ang hubby mo.. tapos sabihin mo sa mga bata maglaro muna sila ng new toys galing sa kiddie meal....then saka kayo magusap..tell him it's ok to be mad..it's ok to vent out..and cursed..but do it..alone..not infront of you..and especially not infront of your kids..if you have an issue about anything..you tell me in a nice way..willing ako makinig sayo..uunawain ko lahat..kasi mahal kita eh..(do this with patak ng luha..effective ito with added kiss and hug) it's a case of miscommunication..lambingan mo lang ang response..wag mong sabayan..kami ng fiancee ko..pagtopak ako..lalambingin lang ako.sasabihin lang niya..gutom ka noh?..halika kain tayo ice cream..and i was stunned..syempre alangan magmamataas pa ako..eh nagpakumbaba na siya..

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