Bakit Ba Ganyan??! Anong ibig sabihin nito?!!

[kreuk]

libog lang yan po ser!

gusto niya sumunod sa yapak ni dolphy

[Dren888]

Oh I know there are touchy women. I've known some. I used to have another filipina friend who was touchy...I know what a normal touchy girl is like. The only people na tinouch yung crush ko is me and our other pinay friend. And she normally does it when laughing or is talking excitedly...but normally ano lang yun...quick slap or quick touch on arm. What got me confused wondering is the touching that does not seem "normal" for her. Once she put one hand on my arm, and then put her other hand on top there and pressed...this was while laughing. But it was the last touch she did that got me to post here and tell my story in the first place. It was err..."electric". She put her palm on my back for a full 2 seconds while saying "bye...una na ako alis" pagkatapos ng lunch. To make it seem "normal" she touched our other pinay friend first before me. But she's never done that before...never ever touched nobody before just to say "bye".

At ewan ko bakit gusto ko eventually to tell her kung ano man yong tinatago ko. I suppose I feel that if I do, the "burden" of hiding it will be gone and I might then be better able to control my feelings. And gusto ko minsan makasabay kami pauwi kasi I just want to talk to her again. Natutuwa talaga ako pag nakausap sya. Sa trabaho kasi, sa lunch lang kami nagusap (pag nakasabay mag lunch). Tapos pag sabay kami uwi, lalakad lang kami papunta sa estasyon ng bus at magkwentohan and she takes her bus and I take my bus. Yun lang.

And to those who think this is just my "little guy" down there doing the thinking for me, mali kayo. Ang libog isang sagot lang. It's crass to say it, but libog = jakol....tapos! Or libog = fantasize about that girl and then wild times with misis at night...tapos. At kung bumalik man ang libog...repeat above. Easy to "handle".

If any part of me is doing the thinking in this situation, it's the heart. That's the "treacherous" organ.

At never ko nag consider mag-iwan ng pamilya. That's not me. I'm just trying to deal with an unexpected situation, unexpected feelings. Trying to deal with something I have not dealt with in 7-8 years. And now with the added challenge of dealing with her touching me.

I hope I can keep my feelings in control. And try not to react if she does touch me again.

[purpleheadd07]

parang delayed ata ang pagbibinata ni sir.

baka naman kulang lang kayo sa romance ni misis kaya ka nagkakaganyan with this other girl? o kaya, what if meron nga, what now? kaya mo naman sana i process, mas intindihin ang sarili mong feelings.

[invi]

You're overanalyzing, pati ba naman yung duration ng time gaano katagal ka niya hinawak eh big deal pa sayo? Brush it off. You're married for pete's sake.

Leave the girl alone.

[Dren888]

some people here are truly unhelpful. "quit it" ....easier said than done (harder to do so if she IS flirting). it's not a light bulb with a switch. if you are trying to convince me to do as you suggest, perhaps not posting with an attitude or in a condescending fashion will help. But hey, this is a public forum right, seems it's more for entertainment and baliwan here than a place to get real helpful advice...should have considered that before posting my story. I really just needed to let it out of my chest.

I already know what's the "correct path" (which is me and her just staying friends, nothing more), I just need help getting there, sorting out kung ano man yung nararamdaman ko.

I no longer believe I can obtain that help here. I hereby end my participation in this thread.

[TTJ]

tingin ko dyan,gimik ng babae para makauto.palalabasin kahit vaguely,na may something sa yo,enough para lituhin ka hanggang sa sya na lang lagi iniisip mo. di pa ba nag-a-ask ng favor? style din yan para kapag nagkaisyu sa opisina,automatic na kampi ka sa kanya.

[infinite_trial]

lol sige go lang TS. pagpatuloy mo na. tapos ano? ano gagawin mo sa pamilya mo?

[purpleheadd07]

pakinggan at kantahan mo yung kanta ni Sheryl Cruz, yung Mr. Dream Boy.

[kensamor]

Eh ipagpalagay ng "mahal" mo nga sya at hindi libog lang, eh ano naman ngayon? So gusto ka rin nya, eh ano ngayon? Ang gusto mo kasing gawin i-justify ang pangagaliwang pinaplano mo. Bottomline: me mga asawa kayo so sorry na lang dahil ganyan talaga ang buhay. Adultery is adultery no matter how you say it.

[F-A Soldier]

Broham...just because women are nice and touchy doesn't meant they want you.

And really brah, just because you don't hear what you want to hear doesn't mean it's not a good advice.

[Krissys]

Malandi ka rin TS e. May asawa ka na at anak. Dapat lumayo ka na from the start. Sa susunod pustahan tayo ang next dilemma mo mahal mo na yung babae. Tse!

[popsky]

Huwag mo silang pakinggan TS, ako pakinggan mo. Tirahin mo na yan.

[IwantTObreathe]

Kahit anong sabihin ng mga tao dito, desisdido ka na makipaglampunchingan dyan.

Bahala ka, pag sinabi naman kasi nila/namin na libog lang yan, i-jjustify mo lang din eh.

pag ang baso puno na, tatapon lang yung ilalagay mo

Share ka na lang ng share, outlet din to.

[Impenneteri]

The TS ask for help and advice but obviously ang gusto lang nya is a confirmation from the PEXers that it's good, go ahead and do it. Kaso hindi sya makakuha ng kakampi dito kaya hahanap sa ibang forum ng "advice".

Anyways kung may panahon ka pang bumalik dito, concerning yung advice of how to get there just friends and nothing more, umpisahan mong wag i-over analyze ang bagay2x. Think about her family as well, siguro naman matatauhan ka na.

[invi]

Huwag mo silang pakinggan TS, ako pakinggan mo. Tirahin mo na yan.

Congrats, TS may kakampi ka na. Mag-condom ka ha, pretty please?

[3arci]

haiz.another one

well, first things first..kahit physical or whatsoever attraction pa yan., UTANG NA LOOB hangga't kaya mo pigilan mo sir. why do most men experiencing this? dahil marurupok kayo, dahil di ganun kalakas ang faith nila sa kung ano man ang pinaniniwalaan nilang tama. Yes, it is indeed temptation. pero please lang don't complicate things. Think a million times. lalo pa may pamilya ka at anak. i always tell this (to my friends who have kids who are being unfaithful, to my hubby who are sometimes being "pasaway", to my acquiatances who are unloyal) don't get involve think of your kids, di man kayo karmahin pero yung mga anak niyo ang magsasuffer. Let me tell a question i always ask, what if someday, dumating yung time na mangyari yan sa anak niyo? Na niloloko yung anak niyo ng napangasawa nila? ano kaya mararamdaman niyo? sometimes impulsive things comes, but most of the time our desicions are impulsive too. Please lang, balik uli ako, THINK A MILLION, BILLION TIMES. May nanay kayo, may anak kayo babae, may kapatid kayo, may asawa kayong babae, kaya please lang be considerate. I hate this conversation with my hubby (though hate is a strong word but i have a strong stand on this). I believe in karma. kaya hangga't kaya ng powers niyo, ng sino man, lubayan, tigilan, supilin at manalig ng mabuti. Just focus on the things you know what is right, and it will all follow, right things will come too. yun lang stand ko sir. sana lang makapag-isip ka na ng maayos sa naaayon hangga't di pa lumalala.

[balbolski]

makipag sabayan ka lang TS... may asawa ka may asawa din sya saktong FUBU lang gawin nyo kung matalino ka brad papatusin mo yan at tamang barurot lang dapat.

[uzumaki_naruto]

Kahit anong sabihin ng mga tao dito, desisdido ka na makipaglampunchingan dyan.

Bahala ka, pag sinabi naman kasi nila/namin na libog lang yan, i-jjustify mo lang din eh.

oo nga TS..
gusto mo lang yata kampihan ka namin sa kalibugan..
idadamay mo pa kami..

o baka gusto mo lang sabihin namin na napakapogi mo dahil kahit may asawa ka na ay may naglalandi pa rin sa 'yo..


pero sige tirahin mo na.. ikaw naman ang may asawa eh.. wag ka nga lang magagalit kung may tumira din sa asawa mo..

[blue_tracer]

go ahead.

tutal doon din ang tumbok nito. papano magiging friendship ang tumbok nito eh disturbed ka na sa 'touch' pa lang?

[purpleheadd07]

grabe naman kayo, kilig at touchy touchy lang gusto ni TS eh. di ata nakaranas ng kindatan and kiskisan nung kabataan niya kaya ngayon parang tuwang-tuwa. pers taym?