Second Chances

[ChinoJacobArione]

Ive courted a girl for almost two months and I've done something wrong which made her angry. On our seat for a descent dinner I was apologetic for what I've done and told her that I was there not to argue but to request for another chance

What she told me was "it's to early for another chance.. or I don't even know if there is still.."

I told her that I know that she needs time and I will just be here. My current plan is to let a month pass by and come back to her. I am definite to my feeling that I love her.

Question: How can I make the move after one month? I don't know kung ano gagawin ko pag nagkita ulit kami. Perhaps I would tell her that I miss her badly. Hindi ko lang maisip kung ano sasabihin ko pag nag date ulit kami, baka matahimik lang ako.. I just want to bring back what we had before..

Any thoughts?

[Aizrith]

question: ano bang nagawa mo?depends on the gravity of your past act

[ardieLlauder]

Medyo mahirap nga 'to since awkward talaga pag nagkita ulit kayo after kung ano man yung nangyari sa inyo.. Pero one thing is for sure, wag mo na ungkatin yung mga nangyari

[Mustaine]

"it's too early for another chance.. or I don't even know if there is still.." means "leave me alone".

[bluenica]

if she's hurt, you can't force her. just be there for her but do not make kulit. you will just push her away. i suggest that you do not verbalize you're asking for another chance because if i were in her shoes, it'd take it as BS. you have to show her actions. consistent actions. do not make her hear your words. you have to make her "feel" your emotions. again, do not smother her or she'll push you away even further.

[baklita]

may third and fourth chances pa nga. may fifth, may sixth, etc.
try and try until you die. if you die... wala akong abuloy!

aihihihi!!!

baklis

[adiposethoughts]

What did you do wrong?

[maximm]

why wait for a month if you can do it right away? you're another classic case of an MIA guy tssss. we girls say anything as we please but it's pretty easy to sway us if you'll show how sincere you are. try to live by the maxim actions speak louder than words. mas naaappreciate namin yan kesa mga puro satsat lang.

[JobyBryant24]

Ive courted a girl for almost two months and I've done something wrong which made her angry. On our seat for a descent dinner I was apologetic for what I've done and told her that I was there not to argue but to request for another chance

What she told me was "it's to early for another chance.. or I don't even know if there is still.."

I told her that I know that she needs time and I will just be here. My current plan is to let a month pass by and come back to her. I am definite to my feeling that I love her.

Question: How can I make the move after one month? I don't know kung ano gagawin ko pag nagkita ulit kami. Perhaps I would tell her that I miss her badly. Hindi ko lang maisip kung ano sasabihin ko pag nag date ulit kami, baka matahimik lang ako.. I just want to bring back what we had before..

Any thoughts?

Nagkamali ka. Inamin mo. Ayaw kang patawarin. Nagliligawan pa lang kayo. Anu ba papahawak ka na agad sa leeg?!?!

I-NEXT mo na yan pre. Dami pang babae dyan.

[abusado23]

tama, nakagawa ka ng mali..move on..

[kreuk]

Nagkamali ka. Inamin mo. Ayaw kang patawarin. Nagliligawan pa lang kayo. Anu ba papahawak ka na agad sa leeg?!?!

I-NEXT mo na yan pre. Dami pang babae dyan.

eh kung may nagawa talaga siyang mali, masisi mo ba maghold back yun babae?

hindi naman ito same case as yung gustong gf na gustong lumabas with bf

[purpleheadd07]

wait for that one month to be over, saka ka na mag isip ano maaring gawin. baka kasi after one month ayaw mo na din pala.

[naturecrawler]

yeah..burn some more time..there's so much to explore! hayaan mo dumating iyong time na kapag nakasama mo siya in a date eh, iyong conversation ninyo will flow naturally and from there you'll know kung mahal mo pa rin siya at kung may pag-asa ka pa...

[hooven]

Nag-sorry ka na di ba? So next siguro, move on tapos pag nagkaroon ng pagkakataong magkita kayo (ndi 1 mo. Lang ha) at same feelings ka pa rin eh di manligaw ka ulit... But for now, leave her be...

[spartacvs]

What did you do son? I'd say give it a month like what u said then pag ayaw niya p rin eh maghanap ka na no iba. Dami diyan bababe.

[may2]

Talk to her in person or communicate with her through text, email or fb.

[Jameaux]

Baka nahuli si TS na may nililigawan ding iba. O di kaya na-wrong send sa isang ka-text mate.

[uzumaki_naruto]

I told her that I know that she needs time and I will just be here. My current plan is to let a month pass by and come back to her. I am definite to my feeling that I love her.

spend this month trying to increase your value.. no one wants a miserable man.. be very busy in improving yourself, not in wallowing in misery..

Question: How can I make the move after one month?

if after a month you are already a better man, a simple "hi" will be a good start..

I don't know kung ano gagawin ko pag nagkita ulit kami.

smile. say "hi."

Perhaps I would tell her that I miss her badly.

sure you can say that.. say it like it's normal to miss someone you've lost contact with for over a month.. try not to look like you've waited for a month just to tell her that..

Hindi ko lang maisip kung ano sasabihin ko pag nag date ulit kami, baka matahimik lang ako..

when you see her again, you are just catching up with old friends, not really dating right away.. so don't feel too pressured.. you're just gonna tell her how awesome your previous month was and you just wanna know if hers was just as awesome.. and how awesomely awesome it will be to be with each other's awesomeness in the coming awesome days..

I just want to bring back what we had before..

yeah you can do that.. slowly.. don't expect the flame, if there was any, to be there.. you gotta find, or start, a new spark..




what's the girl's number / ym / skype / fb? we'll keep her busy for a month.. balitaan ka na lang namin kung may pag-asa ka pa..