i have a "tween" daughter. Not really a problem. Want some pointers, advice because im new to this stage (regarding sa may anak na tween tapos babae pa). I keep on saying to her na don't go there, don't friends with bad peer, don't do this cause you might do something silly, ...and she keep on saying "mom, naman, napakaparanoid mo" am i? or im just being overprotective. alam mo naman nowadays, like dami ng rapist kahit ano edad wala pinipili, dami na masasamang tao..hahahahah...paranoid na nga siguro ako. i settle at a young age, kaya siguro ganito na ako kaparanoid. i gave birth at the age of 17 (don't comment on this ) that's why im so obsess of her not being silly and vulnerable. i know it's my responsibility to do whats good for her and to be a role model but i admit im not a perfect mother, i do some stuffs na nakakasakit din sa kaniya. i just to hear some experiences and do's and dont's para maiwasan ang di kanais nais.