Happiness or righteousness.

[kreuk]

Uy, may nagpapatibong kay Adi.

Tadyakan na yan!

baka si zeccoboy lang yan

[dragon_reborn]

Do what is right, and BE HAPPY about it.

[jazzmine22]

baka si zeccoboy lang yan

uu nga pala, ingats ingat

[christian5327]

baka si zeccoboy lang yan

What is a zeccoboy?

[adiposethoughts]

I had to use Google translator. We are simply going to discuss existentialism off this board because it would be a lenghty discussion.

By all means you could open up a new thread. Could be in realm of thought or somewhere there are big minds around. =]

[christian5327]

By all means you could open up a new thread. Could be in realm of thought or somewhere there are big minds around. =]

Okay, I added you on Yahoo! messenger.

[ellehcimoka]

ayos lang yan okram .. tuloy mo *** happiness mo pero make sure ayusin mo muna lahat ng prob. mo regards dun sa marriage nyo.. at dapat sigurado kana sa nextstep mo.. wag mo na saktan *** "the one" mo ngayon .. tingin ko happy kayo ee.. at dun sa iba wag kayo masyado mag judge ..kundi nyo tanggap ok .. kung *** "the one" nya nga natanggap ee .. tayo pa kaya .. di naman lahat ng tao perfect actually no ones perfect.. kung kayo kaya nasa situation nya tingin nyo kaya nyo sabihin sa sarili nyo mga sinasabi nya.. sabihin natin nag kamali sya pero aayusin naman nya ee.. pero dapat dis tym wala na syang gusot na gagawin.. let pray nlang para sakanila .. hindi *** nanenermon peaceout guyzz.. muappzz

[ellehcimoka]

ayos lang yan okram .. tuloy mo iyon happiness mo pero make sure ayusin mo muna lahat ng prob. mo regards dun sa marriage nyo.. at dapat sigurado kana sa nextstep mo.. wag mo na saktan si "the one" mo ngayon .. tingin ko happy kayo ee.. at dun sa iba wag kayo masyado mag judge ..kundi nyo tanggap ok .. kung si "the one" nya nga natanggap ee .. tayo pa kaya .. di naman lahat ng tao perfect actually no ones perfect.. kung kayo kaya nasa situation nya tingin nyo kaya nyo sabihin sa sarili nyo mga sinasabi nya.. sabihin natin nag kamali sya pero aayusin naman nya ee.. pero dapat dis tym wala na syang gusot na gagawin.. let pray nlang para sakanila .. hindi nanenermon peaceout guyzz.. muappzz

[f004damsel]

Misery loves company. That is what you and your wife have. At least hindi rin siya masaya; ang naging tema niyo.

Someone has to initiate the cut off. Mahirap na posisyon yan pero common naman ang hiwalayan sa mga batang nag asawa.

Just keep your responsibilities in order and anything else you do will be forgivable.

-- good thinking sir good thing may mga taong hindi judgmental at may nakakaisip ng good idea para makatuling sa taong to, hindi porque nagkamali na eh hindi na pde sumaya.. my god people msyado nyong hinusgahan sya .

well i think that he only felt love with this girl . that's why he's a bit confuse with his status.. he knows **** what he did . what 's making him more confused is that he don't know where to start.

mr TS... if what happened in the past is past, so try to live your life now with full of chariness . one day you will find happiness.. just dont try to look for others opinion, most of them are judgmental, they will just let you feel worthless . try to pray 0

[f004damsel]

Dear TS,

Let me put your situation and emotions in a nutshell.

First, may I say that you will never, ever be happy if you keep on allowing yourself to be attached to somebody, or to your past, or to your failures.

Your attachment to your current girlfriend, your past, your concern with your current situation, and your attachment to the things you failed to do are the reasons of your suffering.

Your past is just an illusion. Your future is also just an illusion. The reasons why you don't feel happy with your current life is a result of an illusion you made in your mind ---> Your Illusion: Past sucks. Present became sucky because of the past. Future looks bright with the new girl.

Those are all just illusions.

Remember: Changing your partner won't change the current you. It's like you want a change in atmosphere you decided to change your hairstyle.

If you think that highly of yourself, if you think that you deserve to be with someone you love, then, first and foremost... Show to the people in your current situation that no matter how you feel and no matter how unlovable they are... you will still love them and take care of them. You will also consider how they feel. That they're also human just like you... They also have their own problems.

And you not adding to the burden they carry in their hearts and minds would show the quality of person you really are.

They say that people who are truly successful are the people who look into their situations in so many different angles. They don't limit themselves to just one reason. They look at it from their angle, then the angle of their partner, then the angle of the people who are affected with the situation... like your kid's perspective.

However, they look at these angles because they really want to do so. They act accordingly bec they are happy to do it, not bec of what other people told them so nor only bec napipilitan lang sila. Inaayos nila ang buhay nila kasi doon sila may peace.

Peace, TS? Peace of mind? Meron ka ba niyan ngayon?

Kasi kung sa palagay mo sa lahat ng moment mo ngayon feeling mo lagi kang may iniisip, lagi kang may inaalala, lagi kang may iniisip na gustong mangyari at gawin... then wala sayo ang peace of mind mo.

At para ka makapag desisyon ng tama. Para di ka makasakit ng ibang nilalang sa paligid mo, kelangan mo muna huminto. Itigil mo ang kaaligagaan sa utak mo. Kontrolin mo ang bumubuhos na emosyon, galit, panghihinayang, paninisi, at lungkot.

Lahat yan kaya mong kontrolin. Kasi ikaw ang may lalang sa lahat ng nararamdaman mo ngayon.

Huminto ka muna.


At huminga ng malalim.


Itigil mo muna ang pag-iisip. Huminga ka ulet ng malalim.


Kontrolin mo ang utak mo. Huminga ka ulet ng malalim.



Marami kang gustong mangyari sa buhay mo. Lahat ng yon naka-dikit ang mga katagang namumukod sa utak at puso mo na, "Gusto kong maging masaya. Gusto ko ako naman ang lumigaya."

Pero ang kaligayahan ba ay makikita mo lang kung kelan ideal ang sitwasyon para sayo?

Again. The precept of ideal situations will cause happiness is just an illusion.

Ilusyon mo lang ang mga yan kasi yan ang pinaniwalaan mo. Pero hindi ibig sabihin na dahil pinaniwalaan mo ang isang bagay, totoo na ito.

Thoughts become things, ika nga ni Buddha. IKAW ang gumawa ng reyalidad mo ngayon.

At kung gusto mong sumaya, kelangan magdesisyon ka na maging masaya kahit nasaan ka pa.

Kasi kung ngayon pa lang di ka na masaya, wag ka nang umasa na sasaya ka sa mga tinatamasa mong bagay. Kasi pagbalibaligtarin mo man ang mundo. Wala sa sitwasyon o ibang tao ang kasiyahan o ang kaligayahan o ang kakuntetuhan sa buhay.

Nasa paniniwala mo yan. Lahat nanggagaling sa utak mo.



Tignan mo na lang ang mga pambabae mo. Sa likod ng isip mo ngayon gusto mo ring sumaya.

Pero may napala ka ba? Sumaya ka nga ba?


Umupo ka. Huminga ka ng malalim. At umpisahan mong wag mag isip. Tignan mo lang ang ginagawa mo ngayon. Ang paghinga mo.

Sa pamamaraan na yan makikita mo ang totoong reyalidad ng sitwasyon mo.

-- mr TS try to read and analyze what is written in here, well i think the whole point is in her post so try to read this okay