four years gone wrong. please help im so sad.. i dont want this to end :(

[lawrence1]

try to live your own life and try to meet other people. your world has already revolved around this guy that you forgot to see the real world. you are in dreamland. move on with your life.

[Juan_1]

There are times when you show how much you loved a person the more they take it for granted.

Dahan dahan lang sis, Para kay BF maybe he feels na sakal na sakal na siya sa mga questions, text and calling him at wee hours of the morning.

May mali kay BF why he's acting that way, may mali din on your part to pester him. malamang kulang sa inyo is communication. BF - sakal na sakal na / GF - Insecure and taking for granted na ni BF

Best would be to enjoy your life. Di makakatulong the more you isolate yourself.

You have to loved yourself first before sharing love to a person. Mahirap ang kinalalagyan mo I agree pero kung talagang makahanap ng iba si BF then what, hihinto na lang ba ang buhay mo???

Try to give him that space first, baligtarin mo naman ang ginagawa mo. Pabayaan mo siya kumilos. Baka yan lang ang gusto ni BF. Ang mga lalaki ayaw ng nasasakal kung di naman pinapansin sila din ang gagawa ng paraan para mapansin sila.

Kung may iba na nga si BF kung sakali siguro mas mabuti ng malaman mo ito ng maaga kaysa sa mas matagal ka pang malagay sa situation na di mo alam ano ang gagawin mo....

Be strong, sis ano man ang mangyari kailangan ay matatag ka. Ayusin muna ang relationship niyo and I hoped na maayos kayo. Kung di naman, mahirap ding pilitin ang taong ayaw na sa relasyon niyo. On both situation, you need courage and will to overcome this dilemma of yours.

Kaya mo yan. Take it one day at a time.

[twistedstarshine]

Thanks everyone.. Im trying day by day...

[Steely_Damned]

^^ are you even aware that you're too needy and clingy as a girlfriend? be more mature and circumspect in your ways, hindi parang spoiled na bata.

[F-A Soldier]

I can't live if living is without you

Trust me, if you're thrown out to the water and you have to swim, you'll swim.

[kleenexlambot]

TS, tama naman si BF na "relax ka lang". Baka naman kasi busy siya eh tawag ka ng tawag. Take note, mag BF pa lang kayo, buti sana kung mag asawa na kayo at diyan umuuwi sa yo at hindi ka makatulog dahil naghihintay ka.

Anyway, ang magandang gawin sa ganyan, huwag ka maghintay. Tama na ang isang twag or isang text, sasagot naman yan kung gusto niya sumagot. Kalimutan muna ang cell phone and be occupied with something else.

I know its not easy and it takes some practicing to get to it, pero huwag ka masyadong clingy dahil ikaw lang ang mahihirapan. Baka mamaya ito pa ang dahilan para layuan ka nya.

Hindi porke mahal mo ang isang tao ay para ka nang linta at hindi ka mabubuhay ng hindi ka nakadikit sa bf mo. Obsession na tawag dyan TS.

[pushpop]

TS, kaya nya nagagawa sayo yun kasi hinahayaan mo sya. Pumapayag ka na gawin ka nyang doormat.

Subukan mong asikasuhin ang buhay mo at wag sya lagi isipin at pansinin. Makakahalata yun.

Kung mahal ka nya, gagawa sya ng paraan na maibalik ang atensyon mo sa kanya. Kung hindi naman, ibig sabihin eh hindi ka na nya mahal at kahit anong gawin mo eh walang mangyayari. But at least now you know at hindi na masasayang ang oras mo sa kanya. Move on ka na.

[balbolski]

bilis lang ng problema mo TS. mag trabaho ka din! para hindi puro BF mo naiicip mo. malay mo nasa office pala ang magpapaligaya sayo.

[JobyBryant24]

Iv been depressed for a month now.
Iv been in a relationship for more than 4 years now.
I knew him since 4th year high school, nanging kami din before for a year and broke up and after 4 years nagkita kami after ko grumaduate ng college. after college naging kami ulit, until now. so i knew him for almost 10 years.

heres my story:
we were super inlove, like we build our world na kami lang, masaya kami na even without going out with friends okay lang samin. He wants me to text him like every minute, he wants me to baby him. ganyan ang buhay namin for the bast four years, kuntento kami na kami lang masaya na. We got engaged, but we cant get married, because my older sister need to get married first. so its okay i know i kept him waiting, but i never changed, i loved him everyday gave him everything. then his work came first now, hes a chef and i know madalas overtime. I understan. But time came na he forgets about me, his reasons was because hes too tired, hes too busy. Still i understand. I know there comes the point na mag tatampo ako and i want him to comfort me. so it became less. Less going out, less talking to the phone, less text. almost every week we fought, my reason is "all im asking is just a text from you" malaman ko lang na nasa work na sya and nakauwi na sya. simple lang ang hinihingi ko. but he cant do it. because of work. too busy, too tired. always nasa away namin dalawa yun.
But, this past few weeks i can feel he has fallen out of love of me. we fought more, said hurtful things. I always end up nagmamakaawa for his time.
I so love him, and i cant lose him. whenever i ask him if he still love me he said yes. Many times i asked him if he wants us to move on with our lives, breakup pero ayaw nya. My love for him is so strong that all that came out in my mouth was I Cant live without him. I really cant. then theres this point he told me that i really need to love myself first because all i do is love him. Is that wrong? I never asked anything from him, all i ask is just a simple text "nasa work na ako babe" and "baby im home" 2 things lang. and hes point he doesnt know how to give it to me.

I got really desperate of this, i dont eat, i cry every night. I dont even know what to do.

we try to fix it. He told me he loves me, and he knows how much i love him. But his words i dont understand. He told me we take everything one at a time. yes i understand. I asked him what do you want me to do? and he said "i dont know." its so frustrating knowing that you wana fix things out but you dont know how to.

His overtime became more overtime. I waited kahit 4 am i wait just to know hes home. pero he doesnt care. he doesnt even text be "baby sleep ka na, i will just call you nalang when i get home" words i wana hear from him.

so i asked him, do you still want to be with me, and he said yes. he still loves me and he still wants to marry me. I love him so much. it never changed.

but my heart hurts, i feel dizzy every time he doesnt text me, every time nakakalimutan nya ako. i tried to just do whatever he wants me to do. just wait for him. wait if he will text me and wait if he will call me.

point comes, i got really mad. that i dont understand anymore, he complains about his overtime, so i told him why do it?
Sometimes i think he wants to spend his time sa work nya. sometimes i get jealous because his workmates are spending time with him. Then it comes to a point na i asked him if theres a third party. But he said "wala babe, ikaw lang ang mahal ko"

how can he say he love me but he doesnt even comforts me when im sad. I dont know what to do.

we were okay for a week then last night we had a dinner, after he told me to meet his workmates and he will be back on 12 midnight cause we will talk, he txted me "babe ill be late, ill call you nalang later" so i feel asleep. about 3:30 am i got no messages from him.
i got really worried, i thought something bad happened to him. so i called and called and called. trying to find a way to find him. hes not answering. i was about to go out and search for him. then after many calls he txt me "enough!"
i was? what? "enough? i got worried thinking something happened to you and you dont answer my call. he got mad and he said "ayan na naman ako, iniisip ko baka my iba sya" so i told him "all im worried if your okay" and his reply was "relax ka lang" the F. all i did was care, and care to the point i told myself "ur breaking my heart" so i stopped calling. and he txted me "i love you"
i did not reply, i just cried and fall asleep crying.

early today he textd me "Baby sa work na ako, sorry about last night, I love you"

i dont know what to reply,i wanted to say im sorry if im like that. sorry again if i made you feel nasasakal. but im scared.

im scared to text him..
please help me.
i dont want to lose him, i love him so much

Why do i get this feeling na ikaw ata yung GF ko at binago mo lang ng onti yung FACTS? Hihi

Hi babe. Sorry ha di po talaga ako nag-o-OT, nagpe-PEX lang po.

Seriously.