[Live-In or Married]

[Mighty_Th0r]

Hi guys,

For most of us here in PEX, what do you prefer of the two:

Live-in or Married?

Hope to hear from you soon.

Ciao!

[juanito5354]

it depends,

kung may pera why not kahit simpleng kasal lang para wala ka na marinig pa sa mga matatanda kesyo etc....

problema sa live-in madali maghiwalay simpleng problema hiwalayan unlike pagmarried malaki chances na magkaayos pa, kawawa palagi ang mga bata sa ganitong set up....broken.

[paregoric]

married of course. dapat sagrado ang inyong pagsasama. hehehe

[Romanticure]

Agree with juanito5354, depende sa pag uusap, pero mas gusto ko kasal na. dumaan nanaman kayo sa practice nung mag bf/gf palang kayo, ba't kailangan pang magbahay bahay muna?

[anthraxgal]

married pa rin....

sa bf/gf stage pa lang naman may trial and error na rin naman dun. it's only how you will deal with the error and make it right.

bottomline is, if you really love him/her and you are sure you want to spend your lifetime with your partner...you will accept whatever he/she has. no need to check on it thru living in.

[Mighty_Th0r]

I also agree with you guys...

What I will say regarding the issue are just one of my beliefs in life. It is not in my intention to change or challenge whatever you believe in. These are just my opinion:

First of all, I do believe that EVERY woman deserves a man who can make them feel happy, secure and important for at least the rest of their life.

I do not believe in the concept of "live-in". Para sa akin kasi, ang live-in ay para lamang sa mga DUWAG at MAHIHINA ANG LOOB.

Duwag lang ang mga taong pumapasok sa isang pagsasama just to test how well can they live together with their partner. Tapos kapag feeling nila OK, continue IF NOT they can easily get out of the relationship. What a douchebag.

Madami mga couples ang pumapasok sa "live-in" status. Why?
- they want sex sex sex (sex-all-you-want idealism)
- they want to check if they get along well when they're together
- takot sila makulong sa concept ng kasal
- para may escape-goat sila kapag gusto na nila umalis sa relationship
- maraming pang ibang dahilan.

Pero above all these ******** reasons is this: THEY CANNOT COMMIT.

The main reason why we have the boyfriend/girlfriend stage is to allow us to know our partner's character in a deeper perspective.

For the ladies who can read this post, agree ba kayo na sumama sa isang guy na hindi nyo pa lubusang kilala ang pagkatao?

Of course ang main reason natin is LOVE. But a love without commitment is nothing but LUST. Sa tagalog, LIBOG lang yan.

Please lang ladies, DON'T SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS. YOU DESERVE THE BEST. KAHIT SINO KA MAN. KAHIT ANO PANG KATAYUAN MO NGAYON.

I do not also believe that marriage is like a lifetime imprisonment. For me, it is my best way that I can prove to my wife that I will love her eternally. That no matter what happened in our marriage life, I will never leave her side through ups and downs. That every time our relationship is being tested, I will stand firm with my promise to her. A sworn promise to God that I will protect her from any harm, accept her in any form, join her when she's crazy, help her when she's busy, relax her when she's weary, nurse her when she's achy, cheer her when she's sad, hug her when she's mad, kiss her when she wakes up and when she bids good night. But above everything, I vow to love her every single moment of my life, untiring, undying, without end.

I am married and I love my wife. These are the things that I believe in.

[iamlester]

Live in. Praktikal lang. Pero dapat bago magkaanak magpakasal muna yung magkalive in.
Yan ang aking mumuntin paniniwala.