ANYONE, ADVICE PLEASE. Its been three years and im still not over my ex bf

[MrKupido]

Jaded you are hurting for the reason of being guilty. You broke up with your boyfriend for a petty reason which you stated with your previous comments. Mahirap ang LDR pero thats not enough reason to break someones heart. Siguro nakikita mo syang masaya ***** kaya you feel sad and guilty at the same time, normal lang yan, its ur conscience that makes you feel that way. I know dahil naramdaman ko narin yan dati. Hoping for the best

[lualhati21]

This will be quick but effective,jadedasfock.

tutal sadista ka, sasadistahin na rin kita.

Cut him out of your system
di mo matanggap naka 1yr ka na? baligtarin mo na lang advice ni enaej426. putulin mo lahat ng communication nyo, sunugin mo yung simcard mo, burahin mo sya sa Fb mo at iblock mo, no need to give explanation to him just do it fast!

acceptance by force
pag wala na kayo communication di kana makakagawa ng anu pa mang kahibangan para sa kanya. masakit pero very effective yan, hihilumin na ng panahon ang sugat mo, matatanggap mo rin yan by force.

Tapos wag ka muna makikipag date kung kanikaninong lalaki, very vulnerable ka pa at magkakaroon lang ng comparison yan eh. lumabas kayo ng girlfriends mo, mag girls night out kayo after work/every weekends bawal magsama ng lalaki ha?

Do this for your own good, hija.

I very much agree with ur advice. Very vulnerable talaga kpg nasa ganyang kalagayan ka pa. When i broke up with the man I very much thought na magiging kasama ko habambuhay, gumuho ang mundo ko. We planned to get married then but when differences in our respective religion got in the way, nag back out siya. Until i met another guy na naging shock absorber ko. I thought i was ready for a new relationship. He got me pregnant and we got married. I love my kid so much and it turned out my husband was a verbal abuser. Magsisi man ako huli na. Altho deep in my heart, mahal na mahal ko pdn *** ex ko. *** na kami communication. Now, i only wish for the good husband that he could have been kung kami nagkatuluyan. BE STRONG AND LEARN FROM MY MISTAKE.

[dabbydabs]

ask yourself kung gusto mo talagang ganyan ka na lang palagi. kung kaya mong manatili na depressed, alone, miserable. get to terms with yourself and decide on what you really want. after you made a decision, then live with it. remember, it's us who make up our lives. what happens in your life is only based on what you decided for yourself. sa ngayon, miserable ka at hindi maka-get over ke ex mo kasi yan ang pinili mo. gusto mo yan eh. kasi kung hindi, sana hindi ganyan ang kalagayan mo ngayon.

there are many things you can do in order to ease the pain and help yourself to move on. kung hindi mo tutulungan ang sarili mo, you'll never get over him. you'll stay miserably stuck to where you are right now while the rest of the world are living their lives to the fullest, including your ex.

there's no reason to forget people who've been part of our lives. the memories will linger no matter how hard you try to take them out of your system so we got to learn to just live with the memories. the only thing left to do for you is move on and live your life out of your ex-bf's shadow. meet new people. enjoy being single. have fun with your friends. spend more time with family. join church activities. do better at work. pamper yourself. date again. if you haven't done these things yet, then start now. mopping around and living in the past won't get you anywhere but self-destruction. so live again. maiksi ang buhay para itapon lang sa isang failed relationship. learn from the past, not live in it. start working on your future coz that's how you'll find that illusive happiness you richly deserve. the right man for you will come. you'll see.

this one's effective.. Try mo TS! =)

[F-A Soldier]

This thread needs a dose of Manilow.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Bi5McHsIq0

Sincerely,

Barry White

[lans2gt]

You just have to move, i don't know kung sa panong paraan that will work for you. But you have no choice but to move on.

[Tipipay]

It's been a year since my BF and I broke up. Naaalala ko pa din siya minsan, lalo na wala pakong new BF after him. Pero ang ginagawa ko nalang ngayon is enjoy life, meet new people, travel places and try new things. Believe me, effective siya.