kabataang maagang nabubuntis

[banishedirken]

Some parents should realise that times are a-changing. As Bob Dylan puts it, Your sons and your daughters are beyond your command and your old road is rapidly aging. No matter how hard you try to impose authority on your children regarding sex or anything at all they will definitely find a way to do it (and keep it a secret, too) if they really want to - until they fall pregnant that is. You're blessed if you can honestly say that they obey your every whim.

I have been sexually active since the age of 16 and my mother was not happy about it at all. She was quite the old-fashioned lady but took control by telling me about the pitfalls of sex itself, before and after marriage, plus everything else she thought I should be aware of. I guess some would consider my mother kunsintidor and some have even criticised her for it but I'm now 23 and still without a child; not to be spiteful but some of those who looked down on her parenting are now grandparents. What do I have to thank for? Call me malibog if you will but it's human nature and at least I know what I'm doing. True, abstinence is the best way to avoid pregnancy as well as STDs and I don't condone people who get involved in sex without the slightest knowledge but the truth is we are currently facing it as a problem - not a minor one at that - and drastic measures have to be taken. Should we have to rely solely on sex education that won't happen overnight? I don't think so. Those people may be wrong and ignorant but that doesn't mean we should be indifferent to the situation. It is a societal problem after all and whatever happens to them affects the country as a whole.

Just my two cents.

[monster88]

Kung ganyan katwiran mo, eh di huwag ka na din magbayad ng buwis para bigyan ng libreng libro yung mga bata sa public schools. Huwag na din natin linisin problema. Pabayaan na lang natin yan sila na lumaking mangmang at mahirap, ng maging problema yan sila ng lipunan. At pag naholdup ka ng taga-squatter, huwag ka iiyak iyak na inutil gobyerno. Ayaw mo linisin problema di ba?

Tsaka hindi lang ikaw ang nagbabayad ng buwis. Walang utang na loob pilipinas sayo komo nagbabayad ka. Ikaw ang may obligadong magbayad ng buwis.

Go back to LAFI dude. This thread is not about politics.
Tax money should go to a better place like law enforcement if you complain about holdups and education or employment than free contraceptives for them to enjoy while i pay mine.

Like what i said, those are personal family problems that the family relatives should fix, not by the government not unless if the topic is situated in LAFI my answer would be different.

[typewriter]

Yung density kasi ng population nasa teens and mid-20's (well based sa NSO). Wala din tayong law regarding educating the youth about their health, puro pang adults (Philhealth, Family Planning na for married people only)

I agree with banishedirken, malaki yung papel ng magulang sa pagbubuntis ng maaga.

[grim_reaper1814]

There's no need for the government to pass any bill. Kailangan lang matuto ang mga kabataan ng personal responsibility tungkol sa intimate relationship. Keep it closed girls!

Ang bobo mo naman. Anong there's no need? Kaya nga ang taas-taas ng teenage pregnancy kasi walang batas na mandatory na ituro ang sex at family planning sa kabataan. Hindi mo ba alam na dito sa Pilipinas eh napakamaraming mangmang tungkol sa sex at wala talaga silang idea kung paano nabubuntis ang isang babae. Kasi ang turo sa atin ng simbahan eh taboo ang sex at di dapat pag usapan kaya ayan. Sabihin mo kailangan matuto, eh paano matuto kung walang magtuturo. Common sense please.

[grim_reaper1814]

They will learn their lessons, that is their path and trials in life.
We have our own problems, and that is theirs, and i dont plan to clean up the problem they made by me paying their free contraceptives in a form of tax money.

But you do realize that you will have to pay for that child's expenses from birth (courtesy of fabella funded by tax), to schooling (courtesy of public school from elementary to highschool) and of course the CCT (courtesy of DSWD).

Now which is more expensive? The condom or the latter?

I believe that the country should have a system of taxation according to their stance on RH Bill. Those pro would fund all the contraceptives and those anti would fund all the public needs of the urban poor.

Let's see who will suffer a lot more taxes.

[maputik]

kabobohan kasi sa pag-ibig,

puro libog ang pag-iisip,

o kaya nadale ng makating rapist!

[meili_nuren]

Ang bobo mo naman. Anong there's no need? Kaya nga ang taas-taas ng teenage pregnancy kasi walang batas na mandatory na ituro ang sex at family planning sa kabataan. Hindi mo ba alam na dito sa Pilipinas eh napakamaraming mangmang tungkol sa sex at wala talaga silang idea kung paano nabubuntis ang isang babae. Kasi ang turo sa atin ng simbahan eh taboo ang sex at di dapat pag usapan kaya ayan. Sabihin mo kailangan matuto, eh paano matuto kung walang magtuturo. Common sense please.

agree with you po...

what we need po talaga is proper education about sex,
mas maige atang sa school yan matutunan at sa tamang tao mo makuha yung info about that kesa sa mga kaibigan mo o kakilala mo lang na mediocre yung kaalaman nila sa sex.
marami po kasi sa atin na naiilang makipag usap sa parents regarding sa sex...

[deeppurple]

Some parents should realise that times are a-changing. As Bob Dylan puts it, Your sons and your daughters are beyond your command and your old road is rapidly aging. No matter how hard you try to impose authority on your children regarding sex or anything at all they will definitely find a way to do it (and keep it a secret, too) if they really want to - until they fall pregnant that is. You're blessed if you can honestly say that they obey your every whim.

I have been sexually active since the age of 16 and my mother was not happy about it at all. She was quite the old-fashioned lady but took control by telling me about the pitfalls of sex itself, before and after marriage, plus everything else she thought I should be aware of. I guess some would consider my mother kunsintidor and some have even criticised her for it but I'm now 23 and still without a child; not to be spiteful but some of those who looked down on her parenting are now grandparents. What do I have to thank for? Call me malibog if you will but it's human nature and at least I know what I'm doing. True, abstinence is the best way to avoid pregnancy as well as STDs and I don't condone people who get involved in sex without the slightest knowledge but the truth is we are currently facing it as a problem - not a minor one at that - and drastic measures have to be taken. Should we have to rely solely on sex education that won't happen overnight? I don't think so. Those people may be wrong and ignorant but that doesn't mean we should be indifferent to the situation. It is a societal problem after all and whatever happens to them affects the country as a whole.

Just my two cents.

Out of topic:
Magkakaintindihan tayo kay Bob Dylan!!!

[deeppurple]

Girls they wanna have fun!!!

[elmerpot]

Hindi mo ba alam na dito sa Pilipinas eh napakamaraming mangmang tungkol sa sex at wala talaga silang idea kung paano nabubuntis ang isang babae. Kasi ang turo sa atin ng simbahan eh taboo ang sex at di dapat pag usapan kaya ayan. Sabihin mo kailangan matuto, eh paano matuto kung walang magtuturo. Common sense please.

SEX po ang pinaka hot topic. lahat active pag sex ang usapan. wala pong mang mang tungkol sa sex at lalong hindi totoo na hindi nila alam kung paanu mabuntis. Sadya lang na mas umiiral ang libog at sarap na bahala na muna kung mabuntis or hinde.

position lang ang pinag aaralan. natural ang sex. palaka nga hindi mang mang sa sex, tao pa kaya.