Breaking up with her

[neospy]

I am a guy that isn't good with breaking up with a girl. Paano ba ako makikipaghiwalay sa nang hindi s'ya masasaktang maigi? I need to consider na pwede ko siyang ma-encounter ulit sa future and need kong mag-iwan ng maayos na impression dahil sa connection n'ya sa business namin.

[Erning]

Hi, cliche man pero I don't think there is an easy way to break somebody's heart. Pag pinatagal mo pa or dinahan dahan mo sya, mas masakit yun.

Do it quick. Parang waxing lang. Kasi she gets hurt either way. BE HONEST. It's bad enough you break up with her, the least you could do is tell her the truth why you're doing this, hindi yung magbibigay ka na ng mga used up lines like its not you its me, ang dami kong problema right now, im confused, and all other crap.

So in short, make it quick and be honest about it. She'll appreciate it later on.

[neospy]

I think honesty won't do anything good. It is better to lie this time, rather to let her know the truth, kasi mahirap ipaliwanag eh; basta one day ay ayaw ko na sa kanya.

[Erning]

O alam mo naman na pala gagawin mo eh. Nagtanong ka pa dito.

[noitanigami]

^boom!

breaking up na hindi masyadong makakasakit? doesn't make sense to me.

[darmonx]

Kung ayaw mo na ayaw mo na. Bakit mo binibigyan ng problema ang sarili dahil concern ka pa kuno. Wala silang choice kungdi tanggapin yung kagustuhan mo.

gaya ng nasabi na ng iba, ang importante ay magpaka totoo at wag magsinungaling para walang lumalabas na traydor.

[neospy]

Just asking how to do it exactly. That's my issue.

Anyway, thanks sa mga sagot.

[darmonx]

Just asking how to do it exactly. That's my issue.

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this is really up to you. you know her better than we do. lahat ng nag ka relasyon dumaan dyan. like all virgins, you must break yourself. promise.. iikot pa rin ang mundo bukas kahit anong style ang gamitin mo.

[blue_tracer]

yayain mo ng dinner.

bigyan mo ng rose, titigan mo sa mata tapos sabay announce break na tayo, sorry.

easier said than done.

[uzumaki_naruto]

Paano ba ako makikipaghiwalay sa nang hindi s'ya masasaktang maigi?

mags3x muna kayo..
tapos habang nagka-climax na siya, dun ka makipagbreak..
at least sarap na sarap siya sa break-up niyo..

[mpug]

Maybe you're just going through a phase? I don't see how a person would just fall out of love like that.

Pero kung desidido ka na talaga makipag-break, I think before breaking up with her, let her know how you feel and try to work things out between you two. Kahit pakitang tao nalang. At least she'll know that you cared enough to try. Tapos pag nakita mong mukhang ayaw na din niya, doon mo na hiritan ng matinding breakup line.

Or hintayin mo nalang na siya na makipagbreak para ikaw ang magmumukhang kawawa. Gawa ka ng paraan para siya na ang makipag-break. Skip your trips to the barber shop. Don't use deodorant. Make her feel that she's better than you. Make her feel that she has the license to look for greener pastures. Chos. Para ang lumabas eh she owes you dahil siya ang nakipagbreak.

P.S. May thread ata dito regarding breakup lines, try to visit that.

[F-A Soldier]

Why the fck do you care if she's gonna get hurt or not? Isn't that the whole point of leaving her a$$? Either way she's gonna get hurt and will find out the truth. It's just you being a goddamned poosy.

[m_anne]

the best thing that you can do is to be honest...yan ang gusto naming mga babae.the truth hurts but she should accept the fact that you fall out of love..anyway ts ilang yr/months kayo ni gf?kasi pag matagal na kayo masakit talaga yan.do it now not later....

[neospy]

this is really up to you. you know her better than we do. lahat ng nag ka relasyon dumaan dyan. like all virgins, you must break yourself. promise.. iikot pa rin ang mundo bukas kahit anong style ang gamitin mo.

Yeah, true.

yayain mo ng dinner.

bigyan mo ng rose, titigan mo sa mata tapos sabay announce break na tayo, sorry.

easier said than done.

Mahirap talaga, nakokonsensya ako kapag nasa ganitong tagpo, ginagawan kong 'yung babae ang makipaghiwalay sa pamamagitan ng unti-unting paglayo, kaso hindi effective sa kanya.

mags3x muna kayo..
tapos habang nagka-climax na siya, dun ka makipagbreak..
at least sarap na sarap siya sa break-up niyo..

LOL! Bored na ako d'yan.

Maybe you're just going through a phase? I don't see how a person would just fall out of love like that.

Pero kung desidido ka na talaga makipag-break, I think before breaking up with her, let her know how you feel and try to work things out between you two. Kahit pakitang tao nalang. At least she'll know that you cared enough to try. Tapos pag nakita mong mukhang ayaw na din niya, doon mo na hiritan ng matinding breakup line.

Or hintayin mo nalang na siya na makipagbreak para ikaw ang magmumukhang kawawa. Gawa ka ng paraan para siya na ang makipag-break. Skip your trips to the barber shop. Don't use deodorant. Make her feel that she's better than you. Make her feel that she has the license to look for greener pastures. Chos. Para ang lumabas eh she owes you dahil siya ang nakipagbreak.

P.S. May thread ata dito regarding breakup lines, try to visit that.

I tried na lumayo at h'wag magparamdam, pero hindi effective.

Why the fck do you care if she's gonna get hurt or not? Isn't that the whole point of leaving her a$$? Either way she's gonna get hurt and will find out the truth. It's just you being a goddamned poosy.

The issue is, she's a connection for our business, channel kumbaga. It will be a loss to our business kapag pinersonal n'ya 'yun. Sales namin ay around 23% sa kanya dumadaan.

the best thing that you can do is to be honest...yan ang gusto naming mga babae.the truth hurts but she should accept the fact that you fall out of love..anyway ts ilang yr/months kayo ni gf?kasi pag matagal na kayo masakit talaga yan.do it now not later....

If sabihin kong na-fall-out-of-love ako sa kanya ay hindi maniniwala 'yun, tulad ng ibang babae. Laging iisipin na may iba, gan'un ang kadalasan kasi na reason daw ng mga lalake.

[may2]

there is no other way to do it, than to tell her that you want to break up with her in person.

Real Guys, don't disappear and cut ties with all the communication lines, and imply, that you and her are officially break.

I think, when you had a relationship and you want to end it soon, you better tell the person. So that both of you and her can move into separate lives.

[m_anne]

If sabihin kong na-fall-out-of-love ako sa kanya ay hindi maniniwala 'yun, tulad ng ibang babae. Laging iisipin na may iba, gan'un ang kadalasan kasi na reason daw ng mga lalake. [/QUOTE]
alam mo ts if you really like to end your relationship wag mo nang patagalin wag munang antayin na maging complikado ang lahat...mas lalo mo lang pinahihirapan sarili mo at that way din pinapaasa mo lang yung girl..be honest kung ano man yung reason mo bat ayaw mo na sabihin mo at least alam niya wag mong pangunahan yung girl kung anong magiging reaksyon niya..hmmmp

[barelythere]

sabi nga ni James Ingram There's no easy way to break somebody's heart.

[hooven]

Makipag-break ka na pero expect mo rin na maaapektuhan ang business ninyo (baka lang naman)... Sa susunod wag kang mag-gf na may koneksiyon sa biz... Ok?!

[carlene_613]

usap kayo over dinner, eto ginawan na kita ng lines, baka sakali makatulong

neospy : hon, something's bothering me, you see, projected sales for the coming month's down by 23% and i don't want that, no fvckin business man would want that.

gf: then think of something to address that

neospy: well, i can actually do something to prevent that projected loss.

gf: so what's the problem?

neospy: to prevent the loss, i have stay in this relationship we have. and its killing me. i don't want to lie but i just dont love you anymore.

gf: wtf?! *clueless * red faced

neospy: see, that's the problem. you're that 23%. i don't want to hurt you, but i don't want to be trapped in this relationship anymore. but 23% is just too high too sacrifice. tell me what to do? i'm so confused right now.


gf : * no reaction due to astonishment


neospy : please understand, don't mix business with our personal life. i mean, try be professional about this. our products/services won't deteriorate just because im no longer your boyfriend. that i can assure you. so, are we okay?

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i mean with those lines, ni hindi niya makukuhang isipin na may ibang babae (which is one of your concerns - kasi sabi mo nga wala naman talaga, sadyang nagising ka na lang na hindi mo na siya mahal)

but on a serious note

walang nakipagbreak na hindi nasaktan, kahit pa sa ikabubuti ng isa yun. dahil balibaligtarin mo man,
yung isipin na mawawalan ka, masakit na. nahihirapan ka magdecide kasi kahit papaano, dati mahal mo siya, nag-aalala ka pa rin. di niya ikamamatay ang breakup (literally and figuratively) well sana hindi

[jnyarop]

Tell the truth ahole.