My GF wants to date his BFF (guy)

[falin4u]

Guys/Ladies

last weekend my gf wants to go out with his bff (guy) . To cut the long story short I do not have good terms with this guy since there was a FB incident and repeatedly commenting me. I well know that this guy have something for my gf.

So I texted here that I will be sad if she will go date her bff . and she still insisted. After that I put the story what if its like me dating other girls. She didn't answer and instead.

Did not went home last Saturday and have been cold to me ever since. Now i feel bad and texted her yesterday that she can go and not to forget me (so i gave way) -- wala daw siya sa mood kaya house na lang siya.

She is cold as of today no info or what so ever. I am thinking to going to her but as of now I feel bad pa rin.
Di ko alam paano ayusin .


Ano kaya ang better kung gawin.





I guess this is where rationality and feelings collide.



Thanks in advance



BTW Last month pinayagan ko sya to go out with a group of her friends kasama dun ang bff niya. After the event I waited for her at midnight and sinundo ko po.

[Erning]

Dump your girlfriend.
Find someone not as demanding and unreasonable.
First she knows you're not in good terms with her friend and she forces you to go out with him? To prove what? To prove you're wrong not "liking" her BFF?

You shouldn't feel bad.

[Papichulo168]

Beat the shit out of her bff right in front of her. If she splits up with you then fine, move on. If she doesn't then she's yours.

[falin4u]

Dump your girlfriend.
Find someone not as demanding and unreasonable.
First she knows you're not in good terms with her friend and she forces you to go out with him? To prove what? To prove you're wrong not "liking" her BFF?

You shouldn't feel bad.

Thank you mam. Sorry I mean she and her bff will go out without me. Ayun po ang pinag paalam niya, then i texted her na i would be sad if she did this.


Edited, sorry wrong gender

[falin4u]

Beat the shit out of her bff right in front of her. If she splits up with you then fine, move on. If she doesn't then she's yours.

Sabi ko nga i'm willing to compromise to her bff after that incident eto po ang bff nya ayaw mag compromise

Tama ka sir mauuwi sa sapakan =P

[Erning]

I'm a "mam.."

[falin4u]

I'm a "mam.."

Sorry po mam

[Nils]

option 1 yung sinabi ni Papi, upakan mo na yung bff ng gf mo... Nakaka-lalaki na sya... Kung hiwalayan ka ng gf mo, at least naupakan mo yung ogag (siguraduhin mo lang na ikaw ang mananalo sa sapakan)

option 2, ikama mo ng ikama ang gf mo... miski makipag-date pa sya ng paulit ulit sa bff nya basta ikaw eh nakaka-score... pag sawa ka na, tsaka mo ihabilin sa bff nya na sa kanya na tira tira mo, 'she's not exactly fresh bro, but I trained her well, have fun!'

[falin4u]

@all

thanks sa tips

So wala palang in favor to compromise with her.


Sayang kasi ang relationship namin mag 2 years na kami

[agonysWeeper]

TS, pot@h, pag ganyan ang GF mo, hayuf, ************* ka pre, hindi mo alam, kapag hindi mo kasama ang gf mo, hindi natin alam, baka tinutusok-tusok yan ng bff niya.

[curly tops]

1. medyo nahilo ko sa post mo, halatang affected ka, ang gulo ng sentence construction mo.

2. ang tibay din ng gf mo, aminin ba naman sa'yo na gusto niya lumabas ng silang dalawa lang ng BFF niya, but at least honest siya ha. next time, mag insist ka na sasama ka, kahit scorer na lang.

3. may tantrums ang gf mo, kung ako sa'yo sasabayan ko, gusto niya umalis with BFF, fine, ang lagay siya lang, ikaw din, lumabas ka with your BFF (meron ba?), mag out of town kayo, mga tatlong linggo, tignan natin kung di maloka gf mo.

[blue_tracer]

regardless, kung actually meron o wala silang 'something' nitong BFF niya.. yung pagkaka-project niya, para niyang isampal sa iyo na may 'something' nga sila.

either break mo na siya kaagad-agad (kahit pa magmukha kang 'unreasonable' sa ibang tao) or yung sinabi ni papi: sapakin mo bigla. nasa posisyon ka para gawin yun. anyway, magtatapos na rin lang kayo ng gf mo. wala na ito patutunguhan na maganda pa.

[Lusty_chique]

option 2, ikama mo ng ikama ang gf mo... miski makipag-date pa sya ng paulit ulit sa bff nya basta ikaw eh nakaka-score... pag sawa ka na, tsaka mo ihabilin sa bff nya na sa kanya na tira tira mo, 'she's not exactly fresh bro, but I trained her well, have fun!'

Eto gawin mo TS.

She needs a lot of spanking para umayos at tumino! Kung bading yung BFF niya, pwede pa siguro, and i don't think you'd be alarmed or anything if they go out together.

Ibang babae talaga, ako mismo nahihirapan akong ispelingin ang ganun especially those who are fond of making simple things soooo complicated!

Pagsawaan mo para sulit na sulit yung 2yrs niyong dalawa At huwag mong panghinayangan just because of that 2 yrs! Napaka selfish and insensitive niya eh!

If she really cares about you and your relationship, she wont insist on that. Heck! She wont even be considering it at all since I'm sure she's aware na may conflict ka dun sa BFF niya, t@nga ba siya???

[Papichulo168]

@all

thanks sa tips

So wala palang in favor to compromise with her.


Sayang kasi ang relationship namin mag 2 years na kami

Compromise-compromise...kaya ka natataihan sa ulo dahil willing to compromise ka pala eh. Ipaglaban mo ang sa iyo pare ko. Mark your territory. This is primal. Believe me, your GF will have a totally different view of you after you knock the bff's front teeth out. Kick him in the chest or in the face if he falls down. Surprise and overwhelm him. Do not allow him to gain the benefit of adrenaline or moral justification. Walang mura-murahan, o sigaw-sigawan trying to rationalize what's gonna take place and just make it happen.

[shoelace]

what's with your girl, TS? geez. i mean, i hate controlling guys, especially those who like to be in control simply because feeling nila mas macho sila when they are in control. screw those guys, haha.

but i think ok naman pakiusap mo, reasonable naman. maybe you can try with another approach sa girl mo. try attacking her guilt. umm, na masasaktan ka if she goes out with her bff; that you will get extremely worried the whole time that she's with her bff. or, you can attack her emotional side -- that you feel overly jealous because you don't want to lose her; that you're just protecting your relationship and that's how much you love her.

or, if you are a bad *** kind of guy, just talk to that jerk and tell him to back the heck off and leave your girl alone. be prepared for possible untoward consequences, though. that jerk might fight back, haha.

so, there. they're not guaranteed to work, but you could try

[darmonx]

Good job to you ts for being rational.

Anyway you can't expect any reasonable request to a gf that will be followed.. Asawa mo ba sya? Pinapalamon mo ba sya at sayo ba nakikitira?

All I can say she is not the girl for you or your type of girl. Obviously her friends are a big deal to her. Hindi ito masunurin at mukhang hindi mo rin mababago. Look for a more submissive type who will put you above her friends or accept her and her ways. Two years is nothing.

[shobin]

hmmm.. I used to have a fubu na ang tawagan namin sa isat isa ay BFF

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I agree with most pexers here, don't compromise, di ko maisip na magagawa ng isang matinong gf yun eh.

[purpleheadd07]

so date talaga ang tawag or yan lang ang label mo?

pero bakit nga naman sa bff siya "may date", di ka ba available?

[R2D2_R3]

TS... may 10k ka ba?... gusto mo kumuha ng sparrow unit?

[agonysWeeper]

^ sobra naman yung 10K, marami naman jan tambay sa kanto,