Friendzoned, It hurts

[stillfly]

Hi!, Gusto ko lang ibahagi ang nangyari sa akin.

There's this girl (Meron siyang BF), we've been friends for three months. A month ago she and her BF had a fight. She was quite sad. So I tried to comfort her, even told me na "Single" na siya. Dahil sa pag comfort (Giving her tips, Making her laugh and stuffs) sa kanya, Mediyo naging close kami. It even got to the extent na sa pagiging close namin, May nagtanong kung "Kayo na ba?" agad ko sinasagot ng "Hinde", Bigla naman niyang isisingit na "Friends lang kami". Laging ganun ang nangyayari hanggang sa social-networking sites, eh tinatanong sa amin yun.

I started to have feelings for her, pero di ko lang masabi. Lagi akong napapaisip, "Pag naging kami, tapos nag break kami, sayang lang yung pagkakaibigan na na-buo namin"(We're only in Highschool lang kasi). Matagal kaming di nakapag-usap. Hanggang, isang araw pinalitan niya ang kanyang relationship status sa facebook, from single to "In-a-Relationship". Nagkabalikan sila ng BF niya. Sabi ko na lang sa kanya; "Congrats!".

Pakitang tao lang na parang masaya ako para sa kanya, Pero deep-inside, Heartbroken ako. Oo, Masakit talaga. Lagi kong binubulong sa sarili ko; "ANG BAGAL MO KASI EH! SANA SINABI MO NA BAGO SILA MAGKA-BALIKAN, YAN TULOY NA FRIENDZONED KA". Habang nag-brobrowse sa facebook, nag-PM ang isa kong kaibigan (Mediyo nang-aasar), Sabi sa akin; "Sabi sayo eh, ma fre-friendzone ka lang". Nag-pm din sa akin yung isa kong kaibigan; "Ok lang yan".

Ganun pala ang feeling ng ma-friendzone at nang ma-heartbreak. Unang heart-breaking experience ko ito, "Charge-to-experience" na lang siguro kung tutuosin. Pero di ako susuko, aantayin ko na lang siguro na mag break-up sila ulet.


Salamat sa pag basa sa aking istorya.

[jtansanco]

High school ka palang so normal lang yan.

Ako graduate na, saktong ganyan din nangyari sa akin. I took the risk of telling her my feelings but she said friend lang talaga so now, friendship is over cuz naiilang na siya.

Oh well...

[stillfly]

Graduating HS this year.

[F-A Soldier]

My friend you think you had an opening anyway when she was 'single'? Usually if a woman readily accepts a new man or her old man back into her life, she wasn't ever 'single' to begin with. She was just biding her time. That or she's someone you oughtn't waste your time on.

Don't beat yourself over it kid; you didn't have a shot from day one. If it ain't working out, it ain't meant for ya. Regrets are waste of your time. Use it as learning experience and if you really think she was a friend, you hadn't lost anything.

[elhy]

you better learn the tricks. buti ka pa, high school ka. you still have lots of time para matuto, magkamali, at magtagumpay. I know it's difficult but get overt your ONE-ITIS

[Jameaux]

Okay lang yan high school ka pa lang. Aral ka muna ng mabuti. Pero papogi ka lang ng papogi para meron namang magka-crush sayo kahit papano.

[erzascarlet]

Its okay you're still young and you have a long way to go. Marami ka pang makikilala when you get older