why do some girls choose their BOYFRiENDS over their BeSTFrieNDs?

[an]

i really find this funny and stupid of some girls who give up their barkada when she finally finds Mr. Love. why do SOME girls choose to be with their boyfriends when their boyfriends choose to bbe with their own barkada most of the time?

[raven23]

Some guys choose their girlfriends over their barkadas, too.

I daresay, maybe you'll understand when you get a boyfriend?

[twisted1982]

Eh kasi nga........ Ano....... Yung mga girls kasi........

[cissy]

girls do that? haven't heard any stories about that yet. but those girls who do that, maybe they knew their boyfriend well. baka mas matagal yung pinagsamahan nila.

[prettylady]

excuse me, cissa. mali ka yata diyan. hindi ibg sabhin na mas pinli pa ng ibang girls ang mutual realtionships kaysa frienship eh mas deserving pa *** boyfrend nya sa kanya. bakit *** bestfrend ko, i mean, former bestfrend eh ipinagpalit ako sa boyfrend nya. they started going out last July 2001 eh ako bestfrend na kami nung girl since grade 5. *** ex bestfrend ko kai patay na patay sa lalaking yun kay nung na realize nya na di *** nagkakasundo nung boyfrend niya she rejected me as her bestfrend and instead pinili pa *** boyfrend nya.

girls do that? haven't heard any stories about that yet. but those girls who do that, maybe they knew their boyfriend well. baka mas matagal yung pinagsamahan nila.

[cissy]

Originally posted by prettylady
excuse me, cissa. mali ka yata diyan. hindi ibg sabhin na mas pinli pa ng ibang girls ang mutual realtionships kaysa frienship eh mas deserving pa *** boyfrend nya sa kanya. bakit *** bestfrend ko, i mean, former bestfrend eh ipinagpalit ako sa boyfrend nya. they started going out last July 2001 eh ako bestfrend na kami nung girl since grade 5. *** ex bestfrend ko kai patay na patay sa lalaking yun kay nung na realize nya na di *** nagkakasundo nung boyfrend niya she rejected me as her bestfrend and instead pinili pa *** boyfrend nya.

excuse me my dear, it's cissy. not cissa. ok, then let's say maybe your ex-bestfriend was not mature enough when she made the decision. dun sya nagkamali. ngayon ko lang narinig yang ganyan. la na mo ga turya sa imong ex bestfriend?

[j&g]

Originally posted by prettylady
excuse me, cissa. mali ka yata diyan. hindi ibg sabhin na mas pinli pa ng ibang girls ang mutual realtionships kaysa frienship eh mas deserving pa *** boyfrend nya sa kanya. bakit *** bestfrend ko, i mean, former bestfrend eh ipinagpalit ako sa boyfrend nya. they started going out last July 2001 eh ako bestfrend na kami nung girl since grade 5. *** ex bestfrend ko kai patay na patay sa lalaking yun kay nung na realize nya na di *** nagkakasundo nung boyfrend niya she rejected me as her bestfrend and instead pinili pa *** boyfrend nya.

hmmm...

[j&g]

hmm... *** can i say?!

normal ba talaga na boyfriend yung pinipili?!

coz for me... usually, pinipili nung bestfriend mo yung boyfriend niya over you kapag di mo lang makasundo yung boyfriend niya... feeling ko talaga eh ganun... *****, it's just a matter of setting one's priorities!

[an]

raven23:
for your info, i've had a number of serous relationships already and i know that some guys do choose to be with their girlfriend in many occasions, but they don't give up their barkada...which SOME girls do.



j&g
i guess you're right--it's just a matter of setting one's priorities pero sana girls like me (or even guys) should learn how to balance their relationships para walang nasasagasaan, and no regrets in the end

[TiNgIRL]

ako nangyari saken yan before na maspinipili ko na magkasama kme ng bf ko kesa sa kada ko.. minsan ginagamit ko pa silang excuse so that me and my bf can go out... actually nagtampo **** mga barkada ko saken but in the end they understood.. sabi ko sa kanila balang araw maiintindihan din nila..

ganto kze yan eh.. ang barkada or bestfriend khet anong mangyari nandyan sila kze kilala mo na sila inside out.. and if time comes na nagbreak up sila ng bf nya, knino sya lalapit? sayo.. sasabihin nya tama ka he's a loser blahblah... sa ngayon syempre masyado syang involve sa relationship nila never realizing na iba pa ren yung may bestfriend.. kze feeling nya yung bf nya parang bestfriend na nya... parang all around.. let her realize your value.. tingnan mo balang araw sayo ren balik nyan...

pero sana naman eh open mo pa ren ang door mo para sa kanya.. welcome arms and a crying shoulder.. diba? mahirap yun.. pero that's what bestfriends are for.. you accpet eachother despite of their shortcomings.. and this is just a test for your friendship.. good luck

[j&g]

Originally posted by an
j&g
i guess you're right--it's just a matter of setting one's priorities pero sana girls like me (or even guys) should learn how to balance their relationships para walang nasasagasaan, and no regrets in the end

korek ka din jan!

tingirl
i'm sorry but i dont agree with you... kase kung binabalewala mo yung barkada kapag may boyfriend ka na... you're taking them for granted... tapos pag break na kayo... tsaka ka lang lalapit sa kanila?! that's unfair!

[raven23]

Originally posted by an
raven23:
for your info, i've had a number of serous relationships already and i know that some guys do choose to be with their girlfriend in many occasions, but they don't give up their barkada...which SOME girls do.

Which is why I said "I daresay"...

Anyway, there you go. Some guys do give up their barkadas. I know I do. Most of my friends know that when I get a girlfriend I go 'out of circulation'. It's not a girl thing or a guy thing.

In my case, it's just that I want to be with my girlfriend more, and get to know her friends more. She'll eventually meet my friends and get to know them, too. But I guess I just make it my priority to get along with her friends first. 'Sides, my friends are mostly maladjusted neurotics, which is why we get along.

In the end, it's a matter of priorities and time management. I think. I dunno.

It's just me.

[an]

Originally posted by TiNgiRL
pero sana naman eh open mo pa ren ang door mo para sa kanya.. welcome arms and a crying shoulder.. diba? mahirap yun.. pero that's what bestfriends are for.. you accept each other despite of their shortcomings.. and this is just a test for your friendship.. good luck

maybe you're right about that test thingie pero bakit hindi pwede maging equal? yung walang nineneglect na relationship? ako kc i don't neglect my best friend when i have a boyfriend..pero sha nahihirapan. i'm not really pissed with my best firend and other friends who do that. hindi lang kc nakakatuwa MINSAN na after a weeks and weeks of not being together bigla na lang silang susulpot, like what you said crying, dahil iniwan na sha ng GUY na..tsk! tsk! i just hope my friends would really learn from such experiences...

raven23:
you did daresay...and you were wrong...so never do that again.
nywayz, hindi pa rin ako agree sa'yo in some things...but like what you said..maybe it's just YOU>>>

[mhai]

it must be true love

[Mygz]

this is shockingly new... usually girls pick their best friends over their boyfriends... if forced to make a choice that is...

but isn't it unfair for someone to have to choose between two people one really cares about and loves?

[Edi_BOL]

i totally agree with u Mygz

[an]

Mygz! believe it or not...there are some girls out there who give up their friends to be with their boy friend...

i strongly agree with you about choosing between two people who are both important to a person. sna nga every person would be sensitive enough to other people's feelings

[sm00th]

Originally posted by mhai
it must be true love

alam mo ba kung anong ibig sabihin ng true love?

[j&g]

Originally posted by mhai
it must be true love

true love ba talaga kapag you gave up something or someone for your boyfriend? i dont think so!!!

[DELISYUS]

their boyfriends are friends in waiting.......people seldom consider friends as sweethearts in waiting

and i'm so tired and down to elaborate...sigh