Does it matter kung girl or boy ang gumagastos?

[cessiechu]

what do you guys think?

[cessiechu]

My boyfriend will go on board na maybe next month. I don't know. I don't wanna know. We tried it na before na magkalayo pero 2 mos lang yun and local lang. But this time, it would be international and contract is 1 year.
Oh gosh. I really don't know how to prepare myself. We got a "live-in" set up. But not so much kasi I'm with my mom. so tatlo kami sa house. We have been together for more than 3 years. He is 23 and I'm 20. I'm quite scared sa mga kwento about "seamanloloko" but I trust my boyfriend. I know how loyal he is.
So guys help.. if you have experiences, if you know stories like this.. please share. thanks!

[Burgernapper]

basta may pang gastos, yung tipong hindi ka nagnanakaw, humihiram, or savings mo ang napapakialamanan..

[juanito5354]

ano to 2 in 1 post?

Post 1:

if married couple kung sino may hawak ng budget or kung sino mas konti utang

if in a relationship or nanliligaw pa lang syempre pasikat ang lalaki sa mga babae

Post 2:

you're both still young, though it's better to establish trust at a young age, goodluck

[dimsum888]

post 1
sa panahon ngayon it does not matter kung sino gumagastos.

post 2
sureball yan kung seaman, pag dumaong ang barko..lams na.

[mondee]

kung sino yung may pang gastos, siya yung gumastos or somewhat like rotation, since magkasama kayo sa house, you make budget na lang of your money.

[jnyarop]

Didn't read, I'm just answering the topic.

Sa umpisa ng couple, tradition na manlibre ang guys, pero after ng stage na yun, at stable na kayo, usually, hati na kayo parehas. Kapag asawa naman, siguro naman may joint account kayo which is pwede nyo gastusin kapag may gusto kayong bilhin, at yung own personal account nyo ay para sa sarili nyo lang.

[Arc_6]

Does it matter kung girl or boy ang gumagastos?

what do you guys think?

It depends.

Suitor + Girl = Suitor pays
BF w/ work + GF w/ no work = BF pays
BF w/ no work + GF w/ work = GF pays
BF w/ work + GF w/ work = Gen. Rule:----> Agreement
Exception: if w/out agreement---> 50-50

BF w/ no work + GF w/ no work = PARENTS PAY

[ishylicious]

Post #1: It actually doesn't matter kung sino ang gumagastos pero dapat each of you should know what "give and take" is.

Post #2: You guys are still young. You just have to be open na kahit ano pwedeng mangyari. Set the right expectations to avoid disappointments. Goodluck!

[bluenica]

Does it matter kung girl or boy ang gumagastos?



It depends.

Suitor + Girl = Suitor pays
BF w/ work + GF w/ no work = BF pays
BF w/ no work + GF w/ work = GF pays
BF w/ work + BF w/ work = Gen. Rule:----> Agreement
Exception: if w/out agreement---> 50-50

BF w/ no work + GF w/ no work = PARENTS PAY

winner to!!!

[trooperman]

ako usually ang gumagastos pag gumagala kami ng wife ko with the family, besides, pera niya ay pera ko, at pero ko ay pera din naman niya so kung baga, budget din ng family

[kesoluvs]

for me it doesn't matter kung mag bf/gf or mag-asawa na..
pero kung nanliligaw pa lang syempre dapat yung suitor
or
agreement na share yung gastos kung di talaga kaya. lol.

[firefoxxx]

For me, suitors and BF sila gumagastos.
Married - it depends kung sino may bonus or taya for that day.
but always naman si Hubby taya! so it depends sa magka relasyon.

[kuting_kitten]

I used to say, it does not matter; I now know better. I've dated some boys who became freeloaders because I was generous. Not fun. Never encouraging it again.

Girls, wag ring magpapautang. Marami na kong narinig na hindi binayaran.

[popolokroi]

mga panget na babae lang ang kailangan gumastos para sa lalake

tohmoh..joke