Flirted with someone while in a relationship

[zgmf_x20A]

tinuruan pa si ts mag sinungaling
anyways have you asked your bf kung open siya regarding sa sekswalidad? o baka naghihintay lang siya ng right time (marriage or something)

[mpug]

minsan kasi sumigaw ka ng..

spank me! spank me! hit me!
harder! harder!

Well, I do moan. Loudly. I'll try that next time. Hahahahha

[mpug]

tinuruan pa si ts mag sinungaling
anyways have you asked your bf kung open siya regarding sa sekswalidad? o baka naghihintay lang siya ng right time (marriage or something)

What do you mean open regarding sa sekswalidad? Like doing the deed? We've done it, several times. He's just too soft. Haha

[Vit@min_C]

^ and too small?

[mpug]

That too. Pero mas prefer ko 'yon. Ayaw ko masakit. Haha

[uzumaki_naruto]

pero ok lang naman kung gusto mo talaga makipags3x sa hindi bf.. huwag lang sa engaged na.. nangyari na rin kasi sa dalawa kong kaibigan.. nung ikinasal sila, nag-attend pa yung kabit.. ayun.. nasira lang din ang marriage.. naghiwalay at nagpa-annul..

so dun ka na lang sa single din..
tulad namin..

[mpug]

pero ok lang naman kung gusto mo talaga makipags3x sa hindi bf.. huwag lang sa engaged na.. nangyari na rin kasi sa dalawa kong kaibigan.. nung ikinasal sila, nag-attend pa yung kabit.. ayun.. nasira lang din ang marriage.. naghiwalay at nagpa-annul..

so dun ka na lang sa single din..
tulad namin..

Kwento mo naman yung nangyari sa dalawa mong kaibigan. Haha. Ayaw ko na nga. Papakabait na nga ako. Leaving out the fact that my bf is such a bore in bed, everything's fine naman. So yes, I'm gonna tame myself na.

[uzumaki_naruto]

Kwento mo naman yung nangyari sa dalawa mong kaibigan.

well, sila na mula pa nung college kami.. then may nakilala si guy.. so ayun.. hehehe syempre hindi pa alam ni girl kaya tuloy tuloy pa rin ang plano at naikasal nga.. not sure kung paano nagkaalaman.. pero nauwi sa hiwalayan.. so sana.. hindi mangyari sa 'yo pag naikasal kayo ng bf mo..

Haha. Ayaw ko na nga. Papakabait na nga ako. Leaving out the fact that my bf is such a bore in bed, everything's fine naman. So yes, I'm gonna tame myself na.

sabagay.. pag kahit mag-asawa na kayo at boring pa rin, andiyan naman si hardinero, driver, etc..

[mpug]

well, sila na mula pa nung college kami.. then may nakilala si guy.. so ayun.. hehehe syempre hindi pa alam ni girl kaya tuloy tuloy pa rin ang plano at naikasal nga.. not sure kung paano nagkaalaman.. pero nauwi sa hiwalayan.. so sana.. hindi mangyari sa 'yo pag naikasal kayo ng bf mo..

Ah. Dalawang kaibigan, meaning friend mo si girl at si guy. Akala ko by dalawang kaibigan you meant dalawang instances. Di naman siguro.

sabagay.. pag kahit mag-asawa na kayo at boring pa rin, andiyan naman si hardinero, driver, etc..

Pwede. Or Mr. Hand. Or Mr. Shower Head. Hahaha

[uzumaki_naruto]

Pwede. Or Mr. Hand. Or Mr. Shower Head. Hahaha

shower head.. nice..

[zgmf_x20A]

What do you mean open regarding sa sekswalidad? Like doing the deed? We've done it, several times. He's just too soft. Haha

hehe i mean doing it with other people? (besides him i mean)

[Vit@min_C]

muka nang hindi good girl si ts sa mga huli niyang hirit.

[blue_tracer]

soft pala eh, hindi tigas

kung hindi ka na masaya sa sex life mo with your bf, baka naman kailangan mo na mag assess.. do you intend to keep him because you love him or.. just for security?

[zgmf_x20A]

soft pala eh, hindi tigas

kung hindi ka na masaya sa sex life mo with your bf, baka naman kailangan mo na mag assess.. do you intend to keep him because you love him or.. just for security?

lumalabas hindi pala yung pagkaflirt thing ang issue hahahaha

[marche1986]

hiwalayan mo na muna si bf before anything else. wawa bf..tsk akala ko mga boys lang nag fli-flirt..

[blue_tracer]

up to this point, wala ka pa naman naba-violate ah, in my opinion.

nga lang, realistically speaking.. mabibitin ka lang sa S.O.P. though, audio lang 'yan 'siya' ang bini-visualize mong ka-sex tama? dahil sino pa ba?

mabibitin lang kayo, and eventually magkikita din kayo niyan to do it. hindi kayo magkakasya sa isang beses.. mauulit at mauulit yung 'last na to'.. gulo din uuwian nito.

kumbaga kung meron enrolment, meron din gradwisun.

yan nag enrol ka na yata. oki good luck.

[kreuk]

hiwalayan mo na si bf. you're not that into him.

[Nils]

That too. Pero mas prefer ko 'yon. Ayaw ko masakit. Haha

hindi naman sinabing kumuha ka ng kasintaba ng baseball bat... yung sakto lang... pag tamang laki natikman mo eh goodbye bf yan sigurado...

[uzumaki_naruto]

hiwalayan mo na si bf. you're not that into him.

tama!
panahon na para subukan mo na ang ibang ulam baka mas patok sa panlasa mo..

[mpug]

hehe i mean doing it with other people? (besides him i mean)

No. I don't think he would agree to that.

muka nang hindi good girl si ts sa mga huli niyang hirit.

Sorry. I let my alter ego unleash itself once in a while. Haha

soft pala eh, hindi tigas

kung hindi ka na masaya sa sex life mo with your bf, baka naman kailangan mo na mag assess.. do you intend to keep him because you love him or.. just for security?

For love AND security.

hiwalayan mo na muna si bf before anything else. wawa bf..tsk akala ko mga boys lang nag fli-flirt..

I do not and will never intend to do that. That SOP was a one time thing. Will never do that again.

up to this point, wala ka pa naman naba-violate ah, in my opinion.

nga lang, realistically speaking.. mabibitin ka lang sa S.O.P. though, audio lang 'yan 'siya' ang bini-visualize mong ka-sex tama? dahil sino pa ba?

mabibitin lang kayo, and eventually magkikita din kayo niyan to do it. hindi kayo magkakasya sa isang beses.. mauulit at mauulit yung 'last na to'.. gulo din uuwian nito.

kumbaga kung meron enrolment, meron din gradwisun.

yan nag enrol ka na yata. oki good luck.

I don't think I'm a visual creature. Haha. I rely more on what the other creature does. Or in cases of self-gratification, I rely on what I do. So no, I don't really visualize anyone or anything. And no, I don't think this will go further than SOP. I've already graduated, I guess.



Again, I am regretful for what I have done. And I intend, with all my might, to fix everything I have to fix with my bf. I'll instruct him through the whole thing if I have to. (That's if he's willing). Haha! If not, then we'll see. Performance, really, shouldn't be an issue if you love someone. (Natatawa ako. After all the ranting about his performance in bed, I'm now saying that performance doesn't really matter?) Hahaha!

I guess what I'm really trying to say is, I have realized my faults (partly because of you guys. or mostly. yeah. mostly because of you guys.) and I am a changed woman now. Hahahaha! I am greatly sorry for having sex with someone else over the phone and questioning my bf's, uuuuhm, skills.

I still have a dilemma as to what to do to add more flare into the relationship, but I guess (and I didn't know better before),that's something I would have to figure out myself now. After all, I know my bf better than you guys do. So this is me, monologueing, saying thank you for all the help guys. But I have moved on. And I think this thread should too.

I know this is the "Dilemma" thread, but I think it would be interesting if you could share your experiences regarding "flirting while in a relationship", as well.