Flirted with someone while in a relationship

[kreuk]

^ di naman porket sex object ang topic it's a matter of morals. baka akala kasi ng ts may feelings din sa kanya yung engaged guy.

[Nils]

@TS

PM me, turuan pa kita ng ways to improve your SOP-skills...

[zgmf_x20A]

Okay lang na maging s3x object basta nag-eenjoy ka rin at the same time. Whats wrong with fully utilizing what our bodies are capable of. Masyado lang moralista ang lipunan to judge those people who practice the kind of lifestye.

correct although hindi natin masisi yung mga taong nagpractice ng ganyang morals. i.e. yun ang gusto nila at iba naman ang gusto mong moral.

to TS:

ang tanong phone sex lang talaga ba ang inabot nito? hehe anyways kung attracted ka sa ibang guy might as well as consider your relationship with your current one.. hmm hindi ba kayo open sa ganitong bagay ng current mo?

[litr15]

I just wonder what would happen if you get stds in SOPs. hehehhe..

BF: Honey, how did you get your STD? Had you been unfaithful to me?
TS: Oh, honey it was an innocent act of lust. I just had an SOP with some random stranger I congratulated online cos he's getting married na. I was bored with our relationship and I was lonely I didn't know what else to do. I just liked the crazy feeling of doing something behind closed doors and the thrill of being caught and all that. I'm sorry you also now have an STD. Please forgive me. I don't love him. I love you. Let's make a family. It's you I wanna marry.
BF: Tngina mo. You wanna marry me after all this sht? Ulul. You think irerespeto pa kita? Respeto my ass.

dami kong tawa dito

[agonysWeeper]

another case of temptation.
Minsan kasi may mga simpleng bagay at sobrang daling unawain pero ginagawa natin mahirap.

[mpug]

you have just opened a door.. you can either enter it or close it..



sometimes, you don't feel the guilt right away.. sometimes, the excitement is so overwhelming you wouldn't hear the guilt already nagging at you.. but it's also because of girls like you that guys find an excuse to cheat and not feel guilty about it..



you can let it out of your system.. you are only excited because you allow yourself to feel the excitement.. probably because being banged by someone 12 years older is a fantasy waiting to happen..



actually, this is just so YOU.. people don't change.. we are what we are, but some things about us just need to be awakened.. and some are better kept in eternal hibernation..



then stop acting single.. you know this is wrong.. act on it..



there are plenty of ways and there are plenty of sources.. just try new things.. i would like to believe you are not suffering from a lack of imagination.. you are already creative enough to imagine yourself being banged over the phone by an engaged man..

This was enlightening. Thank you! I'm actually realizing, THIS IS JUST SO ME. And I think it's time for hibernation. Haha

excited ka lang sa lolo na yan kasi syempre lahat ng bawal masarap. masyado mo kasing pinagagana ang mga primal instincts mo eh. di ka na nag iisip. nagpapadala ka sa emosyon mo. syempre, mas gusto mo yung mga bagay na hindi mo naeencounter sa current relationship mo.

kung ako sayo, magsimula kang gumawa ng mga bagay na bawal kasama jowa mo. magnakaw kayo. tumakas kayo. mag absent bigla kayo sa trabaho katapos sumakay lang kayo ng bus going to baguio.

pumunta kayo ng casino. limasin mo ang pera niya. basta. gumawa ka ng mga bagay na hindi niyo madalas gawin kasi feeling mo mali. PERO DAPAT MAGKASAMA KAYO. WALANG IWANAN.

Thank you for this! I think this is exactly why I did that thing with the engaged friend.

One word to describe you TS - HITAD!

Googled the word. Haha! Thank you for adding another word to my vocabulary.

you're a sex object for the engaged guy and maybe for your bf too to begin with.

To the engaged guy, yes, I may be a sex object (if you wanna call it that). But to my bf, I don't think so. I'm pretty sure, for him, I'm little miss prim and proper. Sometimes I feel like I'm much more hornier than him. A lot of times I would kiss him and he just wouldn't reciprocate. I'd dirty talk to him and he'd laugh it off. I guess the engaged guy was just a "sweet escape" from all these.

correct although hindi natin masisi yung mga taong nagpractice ng ganyang morals. i.e. yun ang gusto nila at iba naman ang gusto mong moral.

to TS:

ang tanong phone sex lang talaga ba ang inabot nito? hehe anyways kung attracted ka sa ibang guy might as well as consider your relationship with your current one.. hmm hindi ba kayo open sa ganitong bagay ng current mo?

No. We're not open to "open relatinships".

^ di naman porket sex object ang topic it's a matter of morals. baka akala kasi ng ts may feelings din sa kanya yung engaged guy.

No. He's ENGAGED.

[mpug]

Para namang mabubuntis si TS sa phone s3x kung makahusga iba rito. Okay lang yan te , pero learn your boundaries. Tama na yung sa fantasies lang and thru phone. Wag nang mag-dare ng eyeball.

Yung sa BF mo, maging open ka sa kanya on what you really like. Wag ka matakot. Kung di ka niya maiintindihan now na GF ka pa lang niya eh mamumrublema ka diyan pag naging asawa mo na.

Thank you. I'll try talking to him.

[blue_tracer]

sige, tuloy lang.

[mpug]

ts... get over it... phone sex with a friend doesn't lead into anything.

so ano.. sa tingin mo yayain ka niya na gawing totohanan... don't hold your breath, he just told you he was getting engaged... do you think he will call that off just to have sex with you?

and sabihin na natin na bigla ka nga niyang yinaya na totohanin na yung landian niyo? will you be that eager to say Yes let's meet up and screw each others brains out? or will your guilt kick in because you are thinking:
1. He is ENGAGED to be married!
2. You are still in a relationship.
3. You have common friends and they will find out.

Pupusta ako... hihindi ka rin o sasagot ka lang ng.. pag-iisipan mo... tapos pag kinulit ka niya... matu turn off kana at di mo na bigla siyang papansinin.

That type of flirting you did with your friend is just natural and hardly follows through because the consequences just processes through your brain like a train wreck waiting to happen.

don't sweat it. marami akong kalandiang dila lang at kadalasan... hindi ko sila balak seryosohin. Just that thought alone should make you think where you will stand when all is said and done.

Actually it's not about this thing with engaged friend "following through". Just the thought of hooking up with an engaged man just excites me. My dilemma, really, is how I can feel that same excitement again in my current relationship. It's in a rut.

[Vit@min_C]

Galing siguro nung guy sa phone s3x.

baka naman may nangyari na sa inyong dalawa dati?parang ang kakapal niyo naman kasi para mapunta agad kayo sa ganon,samantalang ang tagal niyong hindi nag usap.

try mo,phone s3x din kayo ng bf mo.

[curly tops]

^hindi naman kailangang may nangyari na dati para makapag phone s3x, minsan wala ngang ganap irl kaya hanggang ps lang!

charge it to experience na lang, ganun naman lagi. feeling ko nga madami pang darating na ganyan, na makaka phone s3x mo, makaka sot at cybers3x mo, ons at baka maging fubu mo pa. ngayon mo pa lang kase nagawa kaya feeling mo malaking kasalanan na, i'm not saying na go, sige lang, enjoy, pero the fact is may needs ka, na nagkataong nakukuha mo sa iba.

communication is the key, talk to the bf, mag open up ka, it's a good thing actually na ps pa lang nagagawa mo, bothered ka na, alam mo kase sa sarili mong committed ka.

kung hindi ba engaged yun guy, sa tingin mo sop lang magagawa niyo?

[mpug]

I guess SOP pa din lang and nothing further. I think.. Like I've said, I don't usually do that. Ewan ko ba. Sana nga pag makausap ko si bf, maging ok na. My boyfriend is too "soft". Di ko nga alam baka ang dilemma ko na pala talaga ay gay pala siya. Ewan. Haven't proven it yet. Basta. I don't feel like he treats me the way my ex boyfriends treated me in the past.

[mpug]

I guess SOP pa din lang and nothing further. I think.. Like I've said, I don't usually do that. Ewan ko ba. Sana nga pag makausap ko si bf, maging ok na. My boyfriend is too "soft". Di ko nga alam baka ang dilemma ko na pala talaga ay gay pala siya. Ewan. Haven't proven it yet. Basta. I don't feel like he treats me the way my ex boyfriends treated me in the past.

[chizmojo]

Mukhang malupit ang phone sexual prowess nitong kalandian mo ah.

[mpug]

He's such a tease. That's all. Haha!

[Vit@min_C]

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I messaged this guy friend, whom I met years ago and have not spoken to in a long while. I congratulated him as he recently proposed to his girlfriend.

This is just so not me. I don't indulge myself to sexual acts, especially with people other than my boyfriend

curly

hindi naman kailangang may nangyari na dati para makapag phone s3x

ok curly, pero parang ang tigas naman nun,tagal nila hindi nag usap, tapos biglang ganon kagad. sabi nga rin niya,hindi niya gawain yun. o dala lang siguro ng panahon? tag lamig na kasi?kaya gustong kumerengkeng?

TS, baka pwede mong i-share yung phone sex nyo? sino kaya nauna? si ts o si loyal guy?

[mpug]

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curly

ok curly, pero parang ang tigas naman nun,tagal nila hindi nag usap, tapos biglang ganon kagad. sabi nga rin niya,hindi niya gawain yun. o dala lang siguro ng panahon? tag lamig na kasi?kaya gustong kumerengkeng?

TS, baka pwede mong i-share yung phone sex nyo? sino kaya nauna? si ts o si loyal guy?

I know. Ang tagal na nga namin hindi nagusap. I don't know why he (and I) had the nerve to do that.

I won't go into details. Basta he was teasing me. I don't know, maybe I was just particularly horny that time or I was just really bored. Basta things got out of hand. And poof. Yun na.

[Vit@min_C]

^ parang ang hirap namang paniwalaan na

mpug

I don't know why he (and I) had the nerve to do that.

horny ka lang that time?hmmm, anu ba number mo?

[mpug]

Okay. Sige. Maybe it had something to do with our last talk, years ago. He was teasing me then but I did not give in. I guess he just wanted to push his luck this time. And well...

[blue_tracer]

please allow me your honor to post what ms. ts likes to hear:

you love your bf, you said. right? so you dont want to hurt him by telling him what you and your S.O.P. mate are doing. as the saying goes, what he doesnt know wont hurt him, so you are actually doing him a favor, are you not? he should be thankful.

so bloat your S.O.P.'s ego and enjoy it whilst it lasts.