how to ask forgiveness without hurting someone

[mistysadeyes]

Hi, new here. i'm currently in a relationship now(turning 4 years this month). I couldn't ask for more,(good and loving fiancé, great work, stable finances, perfect family) but there are times when i cant help but to miss this guy(he is 5 years younger than me).
I left him because i'm not sure what future he can give me, since he's younger than me. I know he loved me so much that i really hurt him when i left. I saw him recently and i asked for his forgiveness but he told me that he cant forgive me that easily. Help! what can I do for him to forgive me without hurting my fiancé.

[lovejones]

you left him and you want him to forgive you?

right.

okay, give the younger guy a blowjob that he'll never ever forgot. and in order for you not to hurt your fiance, keep it a secret.

the rationale - since you blew the young kid's love away, it's only fair you find another use for the same verb.

[hamsterson]

why ask for forgiveness to the younger guy? you should be sorry to your husband instead not to the other guy. if you really value your family and your reputation tell your husband the truth thing will not be that easy. YES! cause you should think of this in the 1st place before embarging yourself to a problem.

[hooney]

you'd already asked him for his forgiveness, kung ayaw niya eh di wag, mas madaming bagay na dapat pagtuunan ng pansin, your life does not depend on him

[chizmojo]

Doing the same mistake twice is called stupidity.

[darmonx]

why would you apologize to a guy in a failed relationship? how many guys do you think apologize to girls they make cry? call it quits... ganti mo para sa mga babaeng nasaktan ng lalake.

[blue_tracer]

there's nothing to be sorry about. what if this old flame says he can only forgive you if you kiss him and make love to him?

kung sasakyan mo pa 'yang L.T.S.B. (lumang tugtugin na style bulok), well obvious na ang intention mo. so go ahead. nothing will stop you.

[kreuk]

magsorry ka lang... bahala na siya kung tanggapin niya or hindi.

you're looking for forgiveness dahil gusto mo siya ulit makausap and maging buddy.

eh talagang magagalit yang bf mo. heller.

[kongersman]

Farewell seks. Works everytime.

[uzumaki_naruto]

I know he loved me so much that i really hurt him when i left. I saw him recently and i asked for his forgiveness but he told me that he cant forgive me that easily. Help! what can I do for him to forgive me without hurting my fiancé.

why do you need his forgiveness?
can't you go on with your life without it?

whatever your reasons for leaving him, you have already made a decision on what you think is best for you. there's nothing wrong with that..

you have already asked for forgiveness but he can't give it to you.. YET.. so i guess, for now, it's best to just go on with your life.. time heals everything.. if he wants to take a snail's pace, let him be.. you can't live your life waiting for his forgiveness..

[Nils]

tama na yung nag-apologize ka... kung ayaw tanggapin at nagpapaka-emo pa ang loko 4 years after you left him... kenginuh! tama lang na iniwan mo ang mokong... badingerz yun!

[Lusty_chique]

Napa WTF ako sa dilemma ni TS. Seriously.

It's been 4 years since you left him and I'm sure when you parted ways that time, you already said sorry for leaving him so anung drama yan ngayon at magsosorry na naman??? I'm sure for the past 4 yrs, your ex has somehow moved on and making effort saying sorry again this time will only open old wounds.. and create new ones, for your fiance that is..

Or maybe, yang drama about wanting to say sorry again is just an excuse so you can talk or see him again??? Di ka naman siguro that naive not to realize na by doing that you'll only be playing with fire!?

Anyway, since you already tried that, and dinramahan ka din ng unforgiving ex mo, nagpapadala ka naman! If you really love your fiance and value your relationship with him, you wouldn't even sweat about what you should do now.. you asking for his forgiveness after 4 long yrs is kinda stupid and irrelevant already.. i honestly don't know how to call it pa kung gagawa ka pa ulit ng move just so you can be assured of his forgiveness without hurting your fiance coz making that move, kahit anung move man yan, once your guy knows about it, sureball masasaktan yun! asa ka pa!

[kieelapot]

Show your sincerity and say what your heart is telling you.