11yrs age gap

[agonysWeeper]

Adjustment sa kung anung pag-uugali meron ang bawat isa. Yan ang nagiging problema sa mga malalayo ang agwat ng edad. Kaya madalas ang pag-aaway.

[Meanie!!]

Chances are, iiwanan ka din niya. In 10 years almost 30 na siya, baka maghanap na ng mas bata at sexy tapos ikaw 40 na and palosyang na, if not losyang already.

lol

[Vit@min_C]

TS, yaan mo na muna siyang magtampisaw sa kiddie pool, maglaro ng computer games, magpapawis sa pisikal na laro, mag puyat kasama ang kanyang mga barkada,mag aral,magkaroon ng maraming textmate,etc.

maganda ka naman(avy?),hanap kana lang ng guy na sa tingin mo ay tama para sa edad mo(hindi mo naman dadalhin dito yang issue mo kung hindi ka nagdadalawang isip). if ever mang nagkaron siya ng relasyon sa gay,mahirap yan, baka pera lang habol niyan sa'yo.

anu bang meron yung bubot na yun na wala kami?

[agonysWeeper]

^ Pakitaan mo din siya ng avy..

[ava_]

TS, yaan mo na muna siyang magtampisaw sa kiddie pool, maglaro ng computer games, magpapawis sa pisikal na laro, mag puyat kasama ang kanyang mga barkada,mag aral,magkaroon ng maraming textmate,etc.

maganda ka naman(avy?),hanap kana lang ng guy na sa tingin mo ay tama para sa edad mo(hindi mo naman dadalhin dito yang issue mo kung hindi ka nagdadalawang isip). if ever mang nagkaron siya ng relasyon sa gay,mahirap yan, baka pera lang habol niyan sa'yo.

anu bang meron yung bubot na yun na wala kami?

pwede makisagot hehe

endurance :P

[Romanticure]

i agree with you not because you are saying go for it, i agree na hindi naging age problema namin ng ex ko its because of his immaturity, he's 33 and he still acts like we were in highschool.. no sense of responsibilty.. and have a HUUUGE financial problem because he thinks the RIMS of his car is more important than his credits.

Then this 19 y.o. guy came along, from a well known family in his town, has his own pawnshop and embroidery boutique, know more about business strategies than me because he has his own since he was 16, i mean why not?

Financially stable na pala si guy eh. Pwede naman kung ts can keep up sa make love sabi nga nung other guy, alamin mo rin muna yung history ng bf mo sa gay humor iclear mo muna bago kayo pakasal.

may lahing chinese ba si Ts at yung 19yo guy?
16yo usually binibigyan ng negosyo sa chinese tradition dahil yan ang start ng maturity nila unlike sa pilipino na 21 b o 18?

wala silang beauty products na ginagamit, nasa genes lang nila yan. kaya yung mga half pinoy half chinese, japanese, thai, singaporean, taiwanese, vietnamese makikinis pa rin maski nasa 50s na itsurang 40s pa rin.

[juanito5354]

parents may pawnshop at embroidery pa na eventually magiging kanya rin.

nasa kama ka na babalik ka pa ba sa banig.

[Jameaux]

TS, if you take good care of yourself sa lahat ng aspects, physical, emotional, spiritual, mental etc., your age won't matter or finding someone to spend your life with is not going to be a big issue. There are a lot of women who are still beautiful even at the age of 40+. An example is Tweetie de Leon who's in her mid-40s. Nakita ko siya sa isang sports event na dinaluhan ko and she looks like late she's in her late 20s lang.

[iamlester]

Si pinkified di na nagreply

[Zeitgeist699]

ang tanong mahal ka ba niya? kung oo, eh di wag mo nang pansinin kung anong sasabihin ng iba, sabi mo naman mukha ka ring 19 yrs old at mature rin siyang mag-isip. gumagawa ka lang ng problema.

[petixmode]

hindi yan pang long term TS.. pili ka na lang ng husband material na.. na same page as yours.. at your age dapat ang hanapin mo na yung somebody to spend your life with..

ang magiging problema nyo nga dyan is sa level ng maturity, ang babae mabilis magmature while ang lalake hindi..

wag mo ng hintayin na nakapginvest ka ng emotions sa relationship, kasi ikaw ang masasaktan dyan...

[Megle]

shhhh... buntis na si pinkified . hehe

[Arc_6]

Im 30y.o. Im falling for a 19y.o. Guy.. We we're introduced by a friend in a bar, akala nya magka-age kami, modesty aside yes i do look that young no exageration.

Lahat ng karelationship ko ka-age ko, nakakadiri ba if maging kami, does age really matter? He's quite mature for his age because his freinda are older.

I like him A LOT! Please some advice .. Panget ba tingnan? Or ok na sa society?

NO. I have a 33yo friend (guy), his wife is now 48yo. Age doesn't matter. Life is too short to deal with what people would say about you and your bf's age gap. Tanggap na yan ng society.

[PiNkiFiEd]

still here

we are still together.. we are happy.. we are enjoying each other's company.. we are getting along really well.. so far.. its only a little over 2mos since we started seeing each other..

he gets along with my family and friends really well.. and ako din sa family and friends niya..

so yun so far so good...

no negative comments na he's too young for you, we're not going to work out, cos maybe people can see that we are really.. genuinely happy.

even my parents doesn't have to seem anything bad to say when they started to get to know him.. wag lang daw ako papaiyakin sabi ng tatay ko.

we have been really supportive of each other, he's interested to know the things that i love.. so am i with his.

so yeah.. so far, so good.

read all the comments and some really made me laugh. haha!

it all boils down to if we can understand the gap, the differences, the personality, the mood swings, if we have the patience for each other.. and if we can compromise and be consistent. like any other relationship... any other "normal" relationship.

tempted to post another pic.. wag na lang hahaha!

[popsky]

^Agree ako sa sinabi ni meamie, hahanap yan ng kaedad niya o mas bata sa kanya pagdating ng oras. Imagine, ang lalaki at 40 ay kaya kumuha ng babaeng 20 or 25 at ikaw na 50 na nun.

Pero dahil gusto mo siya, iju-justify mo lahat para huwag tingnan ang totoong nangyayari at mangyayari. Ang pinakamasakit sa buhay ay ang sinasabi ng marami na imposible at mapatunayan mo sa bandang huli na tama sila.

[iamlester]

still here

we are still together.. We are happy.. We are enjoying each other's company.. We are getting along really well.. So far.. Its only a little over 2mos since we started seeing each other..

He gets along with my family and friends really well.. And ako din sa family and friends niya..

So yun so far so good...

No negative comments na he's too young for you, we're not going to work out, cos maybe people can see that we are really.. Genuinely happy.

Even my parents doesn't have to seem anything bad to say when they started to get to know him.. Wag lang daw ako papaiyakin sabi ng tatay ko.

We have been really supportive of each other, he's interested to know the things that i love.. So am i with his.

So yeah.. So far, so good.

Read all the comments and some really made me laugh. Haha!

It all boils down to if we can understand the gap, the differences, the personality, the mood swings, if we have the patience for each other.. And if we can compromise and be consistent. Like any other relationship... Any other "normal" relationship.

Tempted to post another pic.. Wag na lang hahaha!

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[jnyarop]

Wag kang iiyak iyak kapag nagbreak kayo ah. Do us a favor and iprint mo lahat ng post namin, tapos tago mo. Basahin mo ulit kapag nawala kayo. Challenge ko lang naman sayo yan.

[kleenexlambot]

Difficult to judge on the basis of age alone. What matters is his level of maturity -- he is basically a teen-ager TS. Based on your posts, you found him more matured than others. However, you also mentioned youre only his 2nd gf. This speaks in itself, who knows if a third, fourth, and so on are yet to come, as i've mentioned he's just a teener starting to explore the world of relationship/s.

My advice is just for you to enjoy the time of you together and know him more, who knows you could be in a better position to decide a year from now.

As for sasabihin ng ibang tao, who the hall cares? At the end of the day, it's up to you how you'd want to live your life - the rest are mere spectators..

[f004damsel]

haha TS ! actually we are almost the same issue kaso sakin naman ay bf ko ang older..

he's a bit conscious about what will other people say kasi nga he thinks his age is too old for me.. well ako nga ndi naiilang sa age namen eh haha

but i just want to ask, matagal ba ang process ng annulment ? just want to know because he's separated with her wife and we are planning to get married .. hope sagutin mo ko miss PINKIFIED

[kimrod16]

hi TS, pa update naman kami kung ano nang lagay. i mean, ano anong qualities/traits so far ang nakikita mong ayaw mo sa kanya? anong mga kulang sa kanya na hinahanap mo sa isang lalaki?

reason why im asking is because i might be faced with the same scenario. hehe. tia!