11yrs age gap

[jengineer]

i agree follow your heart. minsan lang tayo mabuhay at hindi sa lahat ng pagkakataon tayo ay umiibig. if both of you love each other, bakit mo pipigilan di ba?

ts ikaw ba yung sa avatar mo? parang kakilala kita pero hindi pa sya 30.

[jnyarop]

It won't last because a thirty-year old woman has different outlook and priorities to a 19 year old man.

--
my_2_cents

Amen.



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[kimrod16]

sarap naman at swerte ni 19 year old! sana ako si 19 year old...may teacher na...may honey loves pa hihii

if she earns more then may sugarmomma pa.

[arvyt**]

Im 30y.o. Im falling for a 19y.o. Guy.. We we're introduced by a friend in a bar, akala nya magka-age kami, modesty aside yes i do look that young no exageration.

Lahat ng karelationship ko ka-age ko, nakakadiri ba if maging kami, does age really matter? He's quite mature for his age because his freinda are older.

I like him A LOT! Please some advice .. Panget ba tingnan? Or ok na sa society?

enjoy the moment. but don't think about it for twice, think about it for a gazillion times

[darmonx]

@ts... magugunaw ba mundo kung naging kayo at natapos din ang relasyon niyo?

hindi... you live, move on, and do what you need to do when it's over.

over analysis at over sigurista. hindi pa kayo nag uumpisa kinakatakutan mo na yung katapusan. NEWSFLASH: All relationships will end. Either by death or loss of interests.

You are playing it safe and will never be happy with this approach. You are 30 for goodness sake... live it up. Kung gusto mo gawin mo.

[blue_tracer]

parang dra. belo at hayden lang ah.

parang sugal naman 'yan.. wala minsan kasiguraduhan.

puwede mag work, puwede rin hindi. one problem i can see is your generation gap

baka hindi kayo magkaintindihan.. buti na lang laganap ang internet + multimedia, perhaps you can show him the things that he 'missed' during your time.

mas mature ka.. so mag a-adjust ka pababa, mag a-adjust naman siya pataas para maging narrow ang gap ninyo. hmm.. 'sakto, salap 'yan.

just give it a try. huwag mo na lang unahan ng fear na baka ma-hurt ka lang sa huli.

[jazzmine22]

Pagdating niya ng 30, you'd be 41, not bad diba?

Wala sa edad yan, may mga lalaking kahit 75 years old na eh irresponsable pa din, at walang kwenta.

Kung sa tingin mo, mahal ka niya, sabi mo nga, mature naman mag isip, ano ang dapat mong ikatakot o ikahiya sa ibang tao?

Fact: Kahit anong gawin mo, may sasabihin at sasabing masama ang ibang tao, kasi you can't please everybody, and why try pleasing them? You don't live to please them, you don't wake up everyday to please them, so fckk them off!

[lady_joelle]

Hindi ka naman kabit, pareho kayong single and you said that you look younger than your age. Anong problem? Your real age? Does it matter to him that you are older than him?

Kung tanggap ka ng fam niya and tanggap siya ng fam mo, may problem pa ba?

Uso na ngayon yan TS.

I might end up dating young guys also, naubos na yung mga ka-age ko.

Pa-share nga pala ng beauty secrets. *.*

[agonysWeeper]

1. Kung gusto ninyo ang isa't isa at medyo alanganin sa mga taong nakapaligid sa inyo, pakialam nila diba? so ang importante, you love each other and honest kayo sa isa't isa.

2. 11yrs gap. sobrang layo nga, minsan kasi, sa una lang ang "kilig" kapag tumagal, nawawala din. May mga bagay na dapat mag-adjust ang isa't isa since hindi rin magkasing edad ang pag-iisip ninyo.

3. Darating ang panahon, maghahanap rin si Boy ng mas bata sa kanya. at Ikaw naman, sa una lang ang feelings mo na yan, at lilipas din.

[iamlester]

Di sya mahilig mag bar, ayaw nya kase ng maingay, madami syang friends na naging friends ko and most of them are common friend namin.. And sObrang health buff nya.

Prob ko siguro di ko pa alam kung sobrang babaero.. Haha! Pero sabi ng friend namin hindi daw, pang 2nd girl
Pa lang daw ako na nagustuhan nya.

Maybe yung ibang girl binanatan nya lang.


May trabaho na sya? Baka ikaw pa nagbibigay ng pera nya pangload huh.
TS ok mainlove pero wag itodo. Marami pang mangyayari sa buhay nya marami pa yan maeexprience bata pa kasi yan. Di pa sawa yan sa buhay bata. Pero masarap talag feeling na ang isang may idad nakakabingwit ng bata bata.

[4Wheeler]

Im 30y.o. Im falling for a 19y.o. Guy.. We we're introduced by a friend in a bar, akala nya magka-age kami, modesty aside yes i do look that young no exageration.

Lahat ng karelationship ko ka-age ko, nakakadiri ba if maging kami, does age really matter? He's quite mature for his age because his freinda are older.

I like him A LOT! Please some advice .. Panget ba tingnan? Or ok na sa society?

The 11 year gap isn't the problem. The problem is he's only 19 years old. He's just a kid. At 19, he will change a lot. He's still figuring things out in life. You might just be a phase to him. He'll meet a lot of young girls. Magaaral pa siya sa college. Unlike a 30 year old adult male, his future is yet to be determined. You might not be part of his future once he matures. That's assuming he matures. What if he ends up a college dropout who relies on his mother for allowance?

You're in your 30s. Can you gamble your future on him? Let's say you got together for 5 years. Then at 24, he left you for a 20 year old girl. You'll be 35 by then. At that age, your chance of starting over yet again will be too late. You might not look your age but your body sure knows how old you really are. At 35, don't be so sure you can pull off the "I look younger than my age" routine.

[ladyrevolver]

my mother is 10 years older than my father. honestly, they don't get along with each other eversince my brothers and i were kids. nung nag menopause ang nanay ko, madali syang nag-age, while ang tatay ko eh hindi na tumanda..kaya very apparent ang age disparity nila at the present time. then syempre, nanjan na ang pambababae ng tatay ko, worse, sa mas bata pa sa'kin. aside sa physical, magkalayo din ang maturity level ng parents. mas matured pang mag-isip ang kuya ko kesa sa tatay ko.

so TS, goodluck to you..i just hope mag mature ng mabilis ang guy mo para mag work out ang relationship nyo

[ai#3]

Age ain't nothing but a number..

















well, jail is just a room..
it won't work, TS.

[infinite_trial]

i personally cannot do it if i am looking for a serious relationship. it's important for me that we're on the same page. but if you are in it for fun and experience, you should go for it. tama nga, huwag ka lang masyadong umasa. well, love is like that anyways. kung ang pumipigil lang sa iyo ay iisipin ng ibang tao, then you are looking at it the wrong way. hindi mo mapipigil ang sasabihin ng ibang tao sa iyo pero magagawan mo nang paraan kung paano ka liligaya. nasa sa iyo yun kung idedeprive mo ang sarili mo.

[honey4evr]

for fun, this setup could work. but definitely, 1 in a million yung may december love affair (reverse mode) na nagiging successful. dami nang inputs dito na nagsabing oo, ngayon, ok kayo. but when he's in his 30s and you're already in your 40s, iba na utak nyo pareho. jan na magsisimulang maging prominent ang age at maturity disparity nyong dalawa. so TS, don't gamble with your heart. kung libog lang yan, then go. pero kung itataya mo future mo, ingat kasi baka ma-ashton kutcher ka lang. or worse, ma-hayden kho ka tas ikaw si belo.

[jnyarop]

Don't get me wrong, pero diba dapat ang mga babae na nasa 30's ay naghahanap ng lalaking magsesecure ng future nila, mga guy na around 30's din or 40's. Eh kung 19 lang yan, ikaw pa magpapalamon dyan at hindi mo pa alam kung secure ang future mo dyan. Tapos ang mga 30's na guy naman ang naghahanap ng 18's, 20's na girl. Baliktad ata situation mo.

[hooven]

Gusto ko sanang umokay kaya lang - come to think of it - 19 lang siya.. Puwedeng bf-gf kayo pero I don't really see you and him as husband and wife...

[4Wheeler]

You're 30 years old. You could be planning to start a family soon. Is the 19 year old ready to become a father? It means getting a job, supporting the family, saving money for the future, staying at home more to help take care of the baby, spending less time with barkadas, and swear off other girls? You're betting a lot on his maturity level. At 19, he could be mature for his age but not THAT mature. He'll be in way over his head. After reality hits him, he'll walk out.

You haven't really thought this through. The 11 year age gap isn't the problem, it's the fact that he's only 19.

[sonyled]

Im 30y.o. Im falling for a 19y.o. Guy.. We we're introduced by a friend in a bar, akala nya magka-age kami, modesty aside yes i do look that young no exageration.

Lahat ng karelationship ko ka-age ko, nakakadiri ba if maging kami, does age really matter? He's quite mature for his age because his freinda are older.

I like him A LOT! Please some advice .. Panget ba tingnan? Or ok na sa society?

30 is not old. It's hot. Don't let society dictate on what you want to do with your life. Tell them, they can take a hike. Just go ahead and do it.

Listen, a successful relationship is not based on age at all. Its all about happiness.

I'm sure the people who gave advices here have in some point in their lives, got a failed relationship. Was the failure based on age? I don't think so.

Have fun!

[blue_tracer]

malaking sugal din ito sa part mo.. hindi mo alam kung biglang may mabago within 2-3 years na kayo.

siyempre, it will take some time.. para makita mo kung accelerated nga ang pagiging responsible/mature niya para mag narrow yung gap ninyo.

as what one poster has pointed out, baka ikaw pa ang magdala sa kanya imbes na siya.

tingnan mo lang baka naman capable siya.