LDR (long distance relationship)

[jacba]

naniniwala ba kayo sa LDR? tingin niyo ba nag wowork out to? yung tipo ng LDR na di **** kayo makakapagkta ng ilang bwan..

[my_2_cents]

LDR isa sa mga PINAKA-GASGAS nang paksa sa LCM....

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[lovejones]

i believe in long distance relationships.

i also believe that children are our future.

[enaej426]

Check this Thread

[burburry]

One down side of it is someone (or both people) in the relationship could turn into a psycho. It's usually girls. If the other one is tolerant of it, things go back to normal once the long distance issue has been dealt with.

[simplelangako82]

for me it depends, if you really love her then make it work but you need to see each other more and communicate. its difficult but if you periodically visit each other or you have a timeline as to when you will permanently reunite but if you do not, its likely to fail

[Jys0204]

One down side of it is someone (or both people) in the relationship could turn into a psycho. It's usually girls. If the other one is tolerant of it, things go back to normal once the long distance issue has been dealt with.

On the contrary, in my case, my husband turned into the psycho. He became possessive and doubtful kahit nasa bahay lang ako with the kids.

[10619488]

It doesnt really work. Iba parin yung kasama mo talaga.

[jnyarop]

Depende kung ilan taon na kayo bago maging LDR. kung bago lang kayo at biglang naging LDR, mahirap. kung nag umpisa naman kayo sa LDR, mahirap din.

[karenr99]

LDR is so overrated.

[cryinoutloud]

will never work... IMO..

[beyda_bada]

it does work,honey.pero nakaka praning nga lang talaga..dapat bumawi sa call,text,chat..keep yourself busy para hindi niyo masyado mamis isat isa goodluck

[elhy]

it's BS unless you have MLTR

[kleenexlambot]

it could work, just like a normal relationship. but the thing is, you have to make a solid plan on how the two of you would level up to be eventually together.

[MoaningMyrtle]

I'm in one. With it comes a lot of sacrifices you have to be willing to make. As for logistics you should be willing to spend more money on communications. You have to make plans and save up for travel to see each other as well. And your relationship needs to have been built on a strong foundation of trust and friendship and not just on sexual gratification, physical affection and good date nights -- coz these are things that you will not have for the time being. Although with some creativity and imagination, sometimes you can still do fun things together.

Thing is, whether you're geographically close or in an LDR, there is no guarantee for your relationship to work. Bottomline, as long as you're still happy being together, and you still try to become better people because of each other - LDR or not, you try to make things work.

[donnie_darko21]

^ Wow, just what I needed to hear right now. I'll soon be in one for about a year. Although I know we'll work things out any possible way we can, I sometimes just can't help but feel scared. :S

[adik07]

base on my experience, mahirap mag-work ang LDR kapag hindi kayo parehong strong. Katulad ng sa amin, kaya ko pang lumaban pero siya ayaw na. i don't know the reason siguro madami siyang problema. walang third party involve. dumating yung isang araw na ayaw na niya na gusto daw niya mgkaroon na mag move on kami.ang sakit sobra kasi kaya mo pang lumaban pero siaya ayaw na niya. kung tatanungin niyo kun di n niya ako mahal well hindi niya masabi un. pero halata naman na di n niya ako mahal kasi nga iniwan na niya ako di ba? iniwan ako sa ere. hindi ko alam kun paano ulit magsisimula. kaya ko pang hawakan *** LDR kasi nakaya nga namin ng more than a year. inamin naman niya na weak siya ( o di ba kalalaking tao weak). well ngayon inaayos ko buhay ko. im starting a new life. good thing malayo kami sa isa't isa kaya di ko siya makikita at ayaw ko na talaga siyang makita. would you believe pati *** family niya parang kamipi pa sakin. well i'm thankful at supportive sila sa akin. i guess LDR is not for me. meron na yata akong phobia hahahah.

sa mga may gustong mag try ng LDR, suggest dapat strong kayo, may patience, trust , acceptance and love kayo sa isa't isa.

if you need help or advice just PM me maybe i can help you

[adik07]

buwan lang ba? magwowork yun. pero mas maganda kung may communication pa rin. hindi naman mahirap ngayon dahil sa technology. pero advice ko lang dapat ready ka sa LDR dapat strong yung foundation niyo. at higit sa lahat may trust. kung buwan lang naman madali lang lumipas un.

[siathens]

I am yet to see, but my hopes are high!

[tameyoung]

in less than 20 days, myembro na din ako nito.. haaay.. feeling ko walang nakakaintindi sa sakit na nararamdaman ko. Kahit nagpapakatatag ako, para akong durog sa luob. Sobrang sakit.. I hope makayanan kong malayo sa kanya. This might change our lives forever pro for now, I cant figure yet where this road heading..