Meeting up with an EX

[iamlester]

^hindi ba rude masyado kung basta ko lang sasabihin na "ayoko"?

Kasi kung sasabihin ko naman na, "hindi pwede", malamang tatanungin ako kung bakit

Eto mga possible na usapan nyo:
You: Maguusap? What for? Bakit tayo maguusap?
He: Para lang malinaw lahat / to patch / to clear things up.
You: Malinaw na sa akin lahat. Mula nung iniwan mo ako / Mula nung wala na tayo communication naging malinaw na sa akin lahat. Kung may gusto kang sabihin itext mo na lang o isulat mo. Pero wala ako isasagot sa sasabihin mo at wala na rin ako gusto sabihin sayo.
He: ......(wala na nasabi)

[pushpop]

a friend summed it up in a few words :

"boys are not as sensitive to rudeness as girls are. you can tell him what you think straight up and his feelings won't get hurt"



i know what to do. thanks sa mga nag advice

[chizmojo]

^

Ano na gagawin mo push?

[purpleheadd07]

at bakit naman ayaw ni bf?

[pushpop]

^

Ano na gagawin mo push?

sabi ko busy ako, loaded sa woek. sabi nya, how about next week daw. di na ako nag reply

at bakit naman ayaw ni bf?

di na nag explain eh... pwede naman kung gusto ko, pero obvious na he's against it

[simplelangako82]

no need .may asawa na sya at anak

[chizmojo]

no need .may asawa na sya at anak

Bat lagi nasa kusina mga pics mo sa avy mo?

OnT: Makikipag-meet lang ako if gusto niyang i-fulfill ang promise nya na makipag-sex more than 5 years ago.

[beach_babe]

depende sa ex

kung yung latest ex ko ang makikipagkita sa akin okey lang harmless naman yun pero kung yung ex kong shaider ang makikipagkita sa akin wag nalang.

[pushpop]

^shaider?

[beach_babe]

^ pulis pangkalawakan

[MoaningMyrtle]

If it's business-related or legal matters (assets, etc), yes.

But if it's an "for old times sake" type, no need.

[marche1986]

ako ask lang and share po,

Friends kami ng ex ko. so anytime na i needed him andiyan **, same thing with him but di gaano kasi bz ako. minsan pumapayag lang ako punta ** house if i need something from him. but pag may boylet ako umiiwas ako sa kanya. tas tatanong ** if may bf na ako. sabi ng kapatid ko mukhang nanliligaw raw. but mahirap na wala na kasing trust. but still we're seeing each other. actually kuasng loob niya ginagawa lahat kasi may kasalanan ** sakin. hahahaha for 3 years na niya ito ginagawa, since ala naman akong bf na bf talaga, ok lang naman diba?

[hathaway]

ako ask lang and share po,

Friends kami ng ex ko. so anytime na i needed him andiyan **, same thing with him but di gaano kasi bz ako. minsan pumapayag lang ako punta ** house if i need something from him. but pag may boylet ako umiiwas ako sa kanya. tas tatanong ** if may bf na ako. sabi ng kapatid ko mukhang nanliligaw raw. but mahirap na wala na kasing trust. but still we're seeing each other. actually kuasng loob niya ginagawa lahat kasi may kasalanan ** sakin. hahahaha for 3 years na niya ito ginagawa, since ala naman akong bf na bf talaga, ok lang naman diba?

hindi ko masyadong naintindihan dear.

[marche1986]

hahahaha

[purpleheadd07]

nasa sa iyo lang naman talaga yan eh, kung ok naman at naging friends kayo ni ex, why not? pero kung ikaw mismo hindi comfortable then siyempre wag na.

di ko lang alam bakit kailangan tanungin opinion ni bf. or i guess sanay lang ako sa basta nagpa-alam instead na nagpapaalam hehe.

if your bf is secured eh di walang issue.

[Callgurl]

no need. if you're no longer interested with the person, even how long you didn't see each other, even you two are friends; then you won't make an effort to ask how they are doing..much more to meet them.

[cornelsky]

If your ex asks you for a meet-up - would you go?

If yes - what are your reasons?

If no - why not?






And what if you're in a new relationship na, issue ba ito? Do you have to mention it (the invite) to your current partner?

yes i will go, brings back old memories. and malamang we ended p in bed. for me ex are just dormant ties that live forever

[marche1986]

bakit ang notion pag nagkikita ang mag ex sa bed agad? di ba puwede na mag chika lang?..

[monster88]

So, wala sana problema on my part na makipag meet ulit, except that my current bf is somehow against it. Hindi naman nya ako pinagbawalan kasi Im free to make my own decisions, but he let me know na ayaw nya sana.

Test lang yan, alam mo na na ayaw ni bf pero gagawin mo parin, makikita ng bf mo kung sino priority mo at sigurado pag aawayan niyo yan later, o kaya naman pag imature si bf, gaganti yan, titingin sa ibang babae o kung ano man, mabuti nalang mas sinunod mo gusto ni bf dahil isang patunay yan na mahal mo siya at tatanawin niya yan na utang na loob.

[Kray0la]

Yes, sometimes best way to know you're truly over someone, is to see them again... and NOT GIVE A SH!T or feel anything any more.

Sabi nga nila, if you are affected, there is affection.