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you have become heartless yourself mainly because of those heartless girls you've been with in the past. blame yourself for succumbing to their charms while blaming them too, for finding yourself teetering on the edge of your sanity.
now, it is payback time! let all the heartless peeps converge and spread venom.
^ Aba magcoconverge pa and spread venom? Parang mga bampira lang eh
Hay basta for me being heartless is a sign of weakness. We all have gone through heartaches, but how you emerge after your experience is the true test of your character. Keeping a big and compassionate heart is an indication of strong and solid character; and I admire people like that. I'm not saying I've never been heartless in my life, but I know that I will forever try my hardest not to be that way.
Last edited by invi; Apr 6, 2012 at 01:16 AM.
Teka bakit gusto ko pa humirit eh hindi naman ako heartless
^^^ hindi naman ganun, pare. it only means you feel for these heartless peeps, too.
all is fair in love ang linya ko dyan.
At least si ttj, aminado. No apologies and no complaints. Diba? Eh kasi yung TS sasabihin heartless siya, sabay puro reklamo naman. Aysowsss!
Eto si ttj in person
Eto si ttj, singing.
i think my ex bf (we were together for two years) is a heartless man ... sa sobrang heartless niya he broke up with me just to be with another girl ... he broke up with me over the phone .. hindi man lang personal. He did it just to satisfy his own self, he doesn't bother at all kung masasaktan niya ako sa ginawa niya. Sobrang bilis pa niya maka move on.
At that time I hated people who are so heartless, yung tipong walang pakialam kung nakakasakit na sila ng feelings ng ibang tao. These heartless people have their own problems, and they don't want other people to intervene with their own personal problems they like it keeping sa sarili lang nila that is why I think they need people who will understand them better. I cannot blame you TS kung naging heartless ka because of your past experiences na rin. Payo lang is that you need to reflect on your own, and hope that na maiwasan rin na maging tuluyan kang maging heartless na talaga.
akala ko papatahimikin na ang thread na 'to?
I think you can seriously consider yourself heartless if the girls you broke up with we're the ones you tenaciously courted and intentionally deceived right from the very beginning. Pero kung mga MU's or crotch-grabbers yan okay lang siguro.
sinyales yan ng pagiging sociopath, TS promise! kung hindi sociopath, baka narcissistic ka lang.
no need to center on me anymore guys. thanks to all your constructive thoughts, i am well on my well to getting myself back to normal.
give yourselves a big hand. you deserve it. *slow clap*
in fact, i'm currently in a relationship with a very amazing person. i do admit that i am having some trouble adjusting, but i know that i shall prevail in time.
now, let us shift the purpose of this thread to offer some point of reference to those who are having some trouble with their own heartlessness.
i'd like to think that it's become a problem in today's society, as some of you may attest to. and indeed, i have received some consoling messages from people who have/had the same problem.
let's be helpful to others.
on another note, my girlfriend's saying that i don't care about her because i don't get jealous. and in truth, it's really hard to get me jealous. i don't really know what's wrong with her, but she's giving me a hard time about it. and it's obvious that she does want to get me jealous. any remedies/suggestions to solve my little malady?
^Parang napipikon ka? Kala ko ba heartless ka?
TS, no need to be defensive. If it doesn't bother you and you have a great relationship, let it go. This is Pex, you know you're gonna get flack one way or the other. Have fun with it.
Serious answer to your thread however. It's youth and inexperience. You think you're tough.
Day will come when some girl will break your heart and you won't think your so tough anymore. Heartless? You'll cry like a little b!tch. Happened to me. After that you know you've matured. It's kinda like children thinking they're tough trying to climb a tree until they fall.
I know a girl who use to play around. She told me she didn't believe in love and that she only likes guys because they love her. She married a guy whom she cheated and taught she's got him around her grip. After two years she really fell in love with him, that time came when he was over her and divorced. I've never seen her cry. She was 21 when she got divorced. She's A LOT more mature now.
So in short, the skinny is you ain't as tough as you think you are. Not mentally, physically, emotionally. You ain't smart as you think you are either. Experiences will humble you, so don't go around thinking you're the BAMF or something.
Good for you, perky. Hmm you know it's really hard to adjust especially if you have not been in a relationship in a long time, but I guess if your girlfriend really matters to you, it wouldn't matter, you'll give it your best shot. I'm not an expert in relationships but what I do know is that it's not all magic. It's work. But the best part is if that your love for each other can both motivate you enough to do whatever it takes to make it work. Oh and I think communication is the most important tool to make your relationship work, so whenever there's a problem, talk about it, like adults. No mind games, I think we're all mature enough to know that mind games are bullsh!t.
I know you're scared of what might happen if you give in too much, but you know what? I find that regrets come when you realize you failed at something just because you didn't try hard enough. Nothing is sure in this world so if you give this all you've got and still end up heartbroken, I promise you can still move on with no regrets in your heart.
Re: jealousy. Hmm well I can't relate kasi I don't like it when a boyfriend gets jealous; I mean, petty pa-cute jealousy okay lang, pero kung serious na nakakalungkot yun, parang walang tiwala sa akin. Anyway, baka naman she's looking for that 'lambing' kind of jealousy from you. So kahit hindi ka naman talaga nagseselos, birubiruin mo lang kunwari nagseselos ka. Baka naghahanap lang ng lambing ang gf mo.