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so what was i thinking when i created this thread?
i was hoping to find other people who have been in my position and have waded through. i'm looking for help; some tips and pieces of advice.
sorry if it came out that i just wanted to gratify myself. that wasn't my initial intention.
the fact that i do acknowledge my problem and am seeking help is, for me, a step in the right direction.
for all those who think otherwise, i cry your pardon.
classic heartless jerk.
apologetic. polite. agreeable.
mga jerks may isang amicable disposition that brings defenses down But it's all superficial.
In fairness, baka binabadmouth lang rin niya sarili niya mashado.
^ Korek. He agrees with what FA said. But then he wants to change. He just contradicted himself.
TS, may pa-good boy image ka noh?
Hmm well if you want to fix yourself, the first step is having the will to do it. People can tell you about what they did, how it worked for them, bla bla, but everyone is different. Different strokes for different folks... but what's the same is making the decision with your whole heart to change. I'm not even convinced that you really want to change.
Maybe remind yourself to practice more compassion. Concern for others, not just your own. And that for every action you do there is an equal and opposite reaction.
And sorry if I was being a little rude. I'm just telling it like it is.
yah, i know same person who feels that heartless moment. hoping for that beating moment and not a spur of moment excitement pero, alam mo, reality is, everything is a workout process. Kung may gusto kang tao at u love him/her, you just keep on working on it. a perfect person cannot make that happen to you. Ikaw lang makakapagpatibok at makakatanggal ng coldness in your heart. Yun nga lang, mahirap kasing gawin yun, dahil it became your defense mechanism..at kapag we make that happen, we open ourselves to being vulnerable. so hanapin mo lang yun pinaka worth it at ready na makipag workout sa heartless moment mo.
One more thing, beating moment is more of a choice. In which that person i know, choose to be heartless pa up to now. but in reality nasasaktan ka rin naman, you just always choose to move away from that pain. just my 2cents
Oh and it's okay for this thread to be about you. It's your thread anyway. But the truth is, you're just whining. You expect people to spoon-feed you on how to fix yourself? What are you, 12?
Ikaw naman pinaka nakakakilala sa sarili mo eh. You figure it out.
Solusyon ng iyong problema: kabilang buhay.
oo nga.. masyado akong pa-good boy effect.
a couple of the friends that i have left have officially dubbed me:
there have been plenty instances where the woman already knew from the start that i wasn't such a nice person.. and yet they tested the waters anyway. their general profile was that of the inexperienced type. eventually they got hurt. one even said to me, in anger: "you willl never, ever deserve anything good in your life" (or something like that)
hay naku... pasensya na po kayo sa self-gratification ko..
ma-delete na nga 'tong thread na 'to.
well ts.. its just a mater of time. some girl with crazy family members, some crazy girl who gets a violent bf after you.. or just a crazy girl in general who takes care of her own problems (snip, snip). well in general kung puro good girls naman ang dinadale, I don't think you'll ever find a cure. for serial players, all it takes is one bad gf to ruin your game.
just keep doing what you are doing until that day. the cure will come but lets hope she is not lethal.
have you entertained the idea that you're sociopathic?
some signs of sociopathy:
Originally Posted by perky_operator
- lack of remorse after having wronged others (either through rationalization or indifference)
Originally Posted by invi
- complete readiness to lie or manipulate others to get what one wants
Originally Posted by perky_operator
- recklessness and disregard for safety of others and/or oneself
if you have these other signs, hello bob! you're fcked in the head.
- trouble planning ahead in life or an impulsive nature
- general anxiety
- aggressiveness, perhaps exhibited in the form of violence
- run-ins with the law due to an inability to conform with social norms or common rules
^ borderline sociopath? pwede. hahaha
i do acknowledge that i am indeed badly screwed up, though.
but psych's my bread and butter, so i think i'd know naman if i'm a sociopath na.
alam naman ni TS kung bakit sya nagkakaganyan.baka nga sobra syang affected sa pang-iiwan sa kanya ng ex nya. yeah,i agree na mali ginagawa nya pero pano kung di naman talaga nya pinursue yung babae? what if yung mga babae nagpapakita ng motibo tapos si TS naman,nagbakasakali lang na magwork with this new girl,pero in the end,di naman pala.at mangyayari yan 100 times.
basta ba nag enjoy din yung mga chicks mo,perky habang karelasyon mo sila at di ka naman tipong basta basta na lang di nagpapakita at nakikipagbreak via text or tinweet mo lang., ayos lang yan. balang araw makakahanap ka rin ng babaeng katapat mo.
ang kailangan lang ni ts, mahanap yung katapat niya, na "heartless" din siguro para malaman niya yung feeling ng kabilang side.