heartless

[perky_operator]

i'm sure some of you have come across someone like this before.
someone who has a block of ice for a heart.
devoid of any true feelings.. devoid of any emotions.
someone who just doesn't really care about anything.
numb.
with no purpose to serve but his/her own.

he/she may have been a past lover, or maybe someone you know, or someone else in your life.

he/she moves on from relationship to relationship, person to person, like nothing happened.

hearts to scar, eyes that they make people shed, feelings that they take for granted...

sure, it may sound quite awesome at first. but after awhile, all he/she wishes for is for his/her heart to beat again.

is there any cure for being heartless?

[purpleheadd07]

bakit ano ginawa sa iyo?

[summerseth08]

ouchness....

[malisyosa]

oo... forgive himself /herself, and try to be less heartless each day... unti-unti, they would learn to trust again...

[malisyosa]

kailangan managagaling sa heartless na person na iyon *** unang hakbang... they needed to be with people who would not judge them on what they did, but who would just allow them to open up and bare their souls...

[perky_operator]

what if i'm the heartless one?
moving from woman to woman, breaking their hearts and making them cry just because i'm bored of them... just because they can't keep up with me.
i don't even feel and guilt nor remorse for what i've done anymore. it's all become a matter of rationalizing my actions.

yeah. it's a sad life.

but all i'm really looking for is that one person to make my heart beat again. to melt the ice in my heart and awaken it.
that's one reason why i keep moving from woman to woman.

i've hurt so many people.. sa totoo nga, pwede nang gumawa ng federation ang lahat ng galit sa'kin.

[malisyosa]

what if i'm the heartless one?
moving from woman to woman, breaking their hearts and making them cry just because i'm bored of them... just because they can't keep up with me.
i don't even feel and guilt nor remorse for what i've done anymore. it's all become a matter of rationalizing my actions.

yeah. it's a sad life.

but all i'm really looking for is that one person to make my heart beat again. to melt the ice in my heart and awaken it.
that's one reason why i keep moving from woman to woman.

i've hurt so many people.. sa totoo nga, pwede nang gumawa ng federation ang lahat ng galit sa'kin.

may i ask what happened to you before that made you that heartless? Were you got left behind by someone because you cant keep up with them? (if there's any) you dont wanna be called as heartless, why dont you have a break from relationships for a while and try waiting for the 'one' for you... baka kaya hindi mo makita kase you keep on looking at wrong places, naisip mo na ba na the 'one' might just be right under your nose, na napakalayo ng tingin mo meron pala sa tabi mo? under your radar lang...

[perky_operator]

it must have stemmed from way back... about 5 years ago, when my ex to whom i was together with for about 4 years left me for another guy. i think it's safe to say that i'm over her. but the adjustments i did to get over her effectively made me lose my capacity for emotions.

i've tried staying away from relationships naman.. but nothing really changed.

sooner or later, there comes along a person that sparks something in me, and i begin to hope that that person would be the one to awaken my heart, and i go for it. only, after a couple of months (or weeks, god forbid), i find myself tired of that person.

[kreuk]

Just don't make promises. Your past should have made you think twice about hurting women.

I just think you have low standards then realize only later you didn't like the woman enough.

You're lonely and need frequent company. Or malibog ka lang talaga.

[malisyosa]

it must have stemmed from way back... about 5 years ago, when my ex to whom i was together with for about 4 years left me for another guy. i think it's safe to say that i'm over her. but the adjustments i did to get over her effectively made me lose my capacity for emotions.

i've tried staying away from relationships naman.. but nothing really changed.

sooner or later, there comes along a person that sparks something in me, and i begin to hope that that person would be the one to awaken my heart, and i go for it. only, after a couple of months (or weeks, god forbid), i find myself tired of that person.

bingo! you are over her but you cant let go of the thought of her... it's either your looking for her clone and make her love you once again, or you are looking for someone far more better than her na you can show to the world na you are over her... you did not go through your closure stage properly. hanggang denial ka lang pero you never allowed your self with acceptance, lalu na baka you have regular news about their relationship na if in case man na magfail you will try and picked up where you left off, or naman saka mo lang mararamdaman na me feelings ka na uli kung magfail sila. it is painful pero kelangan mo yun eh... if you really wanted not to be heartless you had to feel the hurt, wag mo takasan... mali ba ko?

parang ganito lang yan eh, i dont wanna get married, i dont believe in marriage, and the thought of me being married makes my skin crawl, pero i am scared that i might end up alone and i am hoping that i would not be alone...kase i came from a broken family, and i've never gotten over it... i am surviving pero merong void part sa kin na hindi mapunan ng kahit sinong pontio pilato... i am happy pero i never felt fulfillment which i constantly search for... parang ganito pero it;s not the same ah...

[AccIdPEx]

Yung avatar ba ni thread starter ay si thread starter o yan yung lalakeng umagaw sa girlfriend niya from 5 years ago?

[analystgirl]

[QUOTE=AccIdPEx;62023434]Yung avatar ba ni thread starter ay si thread starter o yan yung lalakeng umagaw sa girlfriend niya from 5 years ago? [/QUOTE

si TS!

[Papichulo168]

Stick a knife deep in your chest. If you're still alive to post after then you are indeed...heartless.

[aicute12]

[QUOTE=analystgirl;62026461]

Yung avatar ba ni thread starter ay si thread starter o yan yung lalakeng umagaw sa girlfriend niya from 5 years ago? [/QUOTE

si TS!

siya yan! gwaping yan si perky!

ano nangyare? wala na kayo ni ____? totoo ba yan? beach na tayo!

[perky_operator]

any other heartless people out there?

[perky_operator]

Just don't make promises. Your past should have made you think twice about hurting women.

I just think you have low standards then realize only later you didn't like the woman enough.

You're lonely and need frequent company. Or malibog ka lang talaga.

for one, i was always hopeful that the relationship i was getting in to would be work. second, it's not that my standards are low.. in fact, i'm quite picky pa nga.
third, i have tons of friends, and i don't really need frequent company. fourth, medyo lang po.

one of the more important points is; i don't really have a stable set of close friends. and my ego is quite... inflated.

bingo! you are over her but you cant let go of the thought of her... it's either your looking for her clone and make her love you once again, or you are looking for someone far more better than her na you can show to the world na you are over her... you did not go through your closure stage properly. hanggang denial ka lang pero you never allowed your self with acceptance, lalu na baka you have regular news about their relationship na if in case man na magfail you will try and picked up where you left off, or naman saka mo lang mararamdaman na me feelings ka na uli kung magfail sila. it is painful pero kelangan mo yun eh... if you really wanted not to be heartless you had to feel the hurt, wag mo takasan... mali ba ko?

parang ganito lang yan eh, i dont wanna get married, i dont believe in marriage, and the thought of me being married makes my skin crawl, pero i am scared that i might end up alone and i am hoping that i would not be alone...kase i came from a broken family, and i've never gotten over it... i am surviving pero merong void part sa kin na hindi mapunan ng kahit sinong pontio pilato... i am happy pero i never felt fulfillment which i constantly search for... parang ganito pero it;s not the same ah...

i'm not really looking for her clone.. consciously, that is. i think naman that i went through the whole DABDA with her. i just realize that i'm incredibly screwed.
i don't really care much about her anymore. seriously. siguro i'd show up at her funeral or some other important life event or something. but i don't really care anymore.

Yung avatar ba ni thread starter ay si thread starter o yan yung lalakeng umagaw sa girlfriend niya from 5 years ago?

yep, that's my photo from last last december. i need to update it na pala. wahahahaha

Stick a knife deep in your chest. If you're still alive to post after then you are indeed...heartless.

'wag naman pong masyadong literal, ah?

[QUOTE=aicute12;62029670]

siya yan! gwaping yan si perky!

ano nangyare? wala na kayo ni ____? totoo ba yan? beach na tayo!

tagal na kaya.
may poland trip nanaman daw sa 5, 6, 7, and 8!

[kreuk]

Mukha ka pa naman santo

I'd trust a face like that

Maybe you need to look for friends of the opposite gender muna. Malibog ka. alam na.

[F-A Soldier]

Stop with the self gratification. I hardly believe they cried for you once. And if they did it's not like they couldn't move on post haste. Nigga unless you've got the looks of Brad Pitt and the sexual prowess of Wilt Chamberlain, I hardly doubt it. So you snatch a couple of panties, great. Here's your coupon for Dairy Queen, grab yourself a blizzard, so you'd have a cold heart and a brain freeze.

That's on the house.

[invi]

Sorry but I think you have a bloated ego.

Alam mo naman pala ikaw may problema, so what is this thread all about? Are you whining about problems that you yourself created? Lol. Do you really even feel that what you're doing is wrong? Do you want to change or you're contented with being this way? Your being broken because of your past, it happens. Dude just remember, you're not the only one who's broken. There are others who have been through worse, but they don't become 'heartless'.

I don't really know the exact answer to your problem. In fact, I think I'm your exact opposite. A lot of people say I'm too sensitive about other people's feelings... some tell me it's wrong, but I never apologize for it. It's who I am, I don't want to change it, and I have learned to accept it.

If you want to change who you are then stop whining and change; if you don't want to change who you are, then stop whining and accept the consequences. Simple as that.

Sabi din ni Albert Einstein: 'Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.'

[kreuk]

^ buti hindi ka magkakaproblema kay tungkol diyan