loving a married man

[spoliarium98]

Dahil Muslim si guy so...

kung papayag ka na maging 2nd, ok rin sa iyo kahit may pang-3rd?

[prettyalgie89]

hi girl share ko din experience ko ngayon. i have an affair sa may asawa din pero relationship namin is parang father and daughter lang matanda pa sya sa mother ko nasa 50's na. sa 2 yrs na relationship namin masasabi ko na na fo fall ako sa knya pero nako control ko kasi sya din namn nagsasabi na mahal nya wife and anak nya. saken nmn wala akong intension na mang agaw mejo hirap din sitwasyon ko kasi usapan namin hndi ako pwede mag bf hangga't kami. saken ok lang kasi nasusuportahan nya ko, sa family ko sya nagpapa aral saken actually graduation ko na bukas at malaki utang na loob ko sa knya. ewan ko ba bakit ganon kahit sa mga past relationship ko lagi ako nagkakaroon ng affair sa may asawa pero ang ending nung mga past ko wala. lugi pa ko kasi nakuha nila ako ng maraming beses kaya girl tigilan muna kahibangan mo. maraming binata jan yun nga lang hndi mo alam kung my loyal pa. iba ang may asawa kasi iba sila mag alaga pero may kahati ka namn sa atensyon saka walang assurance kung hanggang kelan tatagal relationship nyo. karamihan sa may asawa magaling mambola.

[shurumi]

married guys are poisonous. their actions, their words. and how they do us in bed. super irresistable sila. pero girl, ikaw na ren yung nagsabi " ayaw mo ng second ka" so bakit ka paren andyan? get out of the relationship na. kasi kung hindi, ikaw kawawa. you will always be the second, unless ok sayo na ganyan ka nalang. i was in that relationship few months ago, kasama ko sa work, lagi ko kasama. he is so damn handsome. good in bed. pero pagweekends, wala siyang paramdam. i hated the feeling na number 2. since single ka naman, why not explore, expose yourself, lumabas ka with your barkadas and find a guy that suits your needs. maraming single guys dyan na makakapagpasaya sayo...Good luck.

[balbolski]

married guys are poisonous. their actions, their words. and how they do us in bed. super irresistable sila. pero girl, ikaw na ren yung nagsabi " ayaw mo ng second ka" so bakit ka paren andyan? get out of the relationship na. kasi kung hindi, ikaw kawawa. you will always be the second, unless ok sayo na ganyan ka nalang. i was in that relationship few months ago, kasama ko sa work, lagi ko kasama. he is so damn handsome. good in bed. pero pagweekends, wala siyang paramdam. i hated the feeling na number 2. since single ka naman, why not explore, expose yourself, lumabas ka with your barkadas and find a guy that suits your needs. maraming single guys dyan na makakapagpasaya sayo...Good luck.

Shurumi madami iba dyan hindi weekend off lalo yun mga nasa 24/7

[wildscent]

ang masasabi ko lang, mahirap talaga magmahal. lalo na pag sa ganyang sitwasyon. nangyari na rin sa akin yan pero nakaya ko naman. nasanay na rin kasi ako na laging nasasaktan kaya ok lang sa akin.

[shurumi]

Shurumi madami iba dyan hindi weekend off lalo yun mga nasa 24/7

bwahaha. pwede. basta ba hindi married eh. tsaka dapat pasok sa standards ko

[balbolski]

bwahaha. pwede. basta ba hindi married eh. tsaka dapat pasok sa standards ko

may pa standard standards ka pa! sige hintayin mo magsara yan

[shurumi]

magsara ang alin?

[WAHEEHEE]

Ayoko sanang makisawsaw sa topic na ito but I couldn't control my fingers (sa pag-type sa keyboard, ha?)

Sa umpisa pa lang ang mali agad ang ma-in love sa may asawa. Pag di ka pinansin eh sasama ang loob mo. Pag pinansin ka naman eh sasama naman ang loob ng asawa niya. Either way ay talo.

Minsan mahirap talaga ang maging guwapo na tulad ko, waheehee.

[balbolski]

magsara ang alin?

parang sugat natuyo sumara may kasama pang peklat

[mscaffeine]

Mahirap din.. and you can't complain dahil alam mo na hanggang ganon nlng kayo... hanggang private place lang kayo hahaha

[d_na]

Hi Folks..let me share my experience and I would be thankful for your opinions may it be positive or negative. I am also involve with a married man with two kids although when I met him he said they are not in good terms with his wife.they are just living in the same roof because of the children. I was myself married but separated although not legally.
We are currently living in the same house as partners but we never talk about getting our relationship legal. We are just happy being with each other. The only thing we are saying is that we are going to grow old together. Financially I am not dependent on him as he is on me. We are earning enough to support our each individual self. He is providing for his children and cared for them a lot.
The only problem I have is we are living in a very small world. We didnt let friends and family know about this relationship as we are worried about what they are going to say and that might put a strain in our relationship. Recently I felt kind of fed up and wanted this relationship too be out in the open so I would not have to worry about anything anymore.

[firefoxxx]

hi guys,
sna matulungan nyo ako thru advices. di ko na talaga alam kung anong gagawin ko.
im head over heels, super in love with this man. married man,muslim and may isang anak. we work in a same company before, same kami na bago pa sa company kaya ngkasundo kami agad. sabay kaming kumain, nagkukulitan na parang mga bata, mnsan sinusungitan ko siya pero mbait pa rin sakin. at that time di ko pa innisip kng may feelings na ba ako sa kanya kasi may boyfriend ako nun 3 years na kami. so parang big bro tingin ko sa kanya. lagi kaming inaasar ng mga kasamahan nmin kasi nga lagi kming ngkukulitan pero wala lang yun sakin. til such time na inaaya na nya akong gumimik yun time na yon parang ngka-gsto na rin ako sa kanya.
nilipat siya ng ibang department pero pumupunta parin siya samin para mangulit. ako din napunta sa ibang department pero pumupunta siya kunwari sa department ko, tumatamby sa mga frnds nya rin dun.
den one time inaya nya akong gumala, pumayag naman ako. sinama ko yung frnd kong bakla pati boyfrnd nya. pumunta kami ng beach, dun ng-umpisa hinug and kiss nya ako. right after dumerecho kami sa dorm nya. muntik ng may mangyari samin pero napigilan ko kasi naisip ko may boyfriend ako at may asawa cyang tao.
pero after a few days, bumigay din ako. hanggang sa di ko na mapigilan sarili ko na hnd mkpgkta sa kanya hanggang sa nakipag-break akwith my boyfriend and nalaman ng parents ko kasi sinumbong ng boyfriend ko. yun, ang gulo na kasi against nga parents dhl alam nlang pamilyado siya.
sobrang saya ko pagkasama ko siya, kahit magulo at nasasktan ako everytime uuwi siya sa asawa nya tinitiis ko yung sakit na yon dhl mahal ko siya at di ko na kayang iwan.
nung di na matiis ng parents ko na nakikipag-relasyon ako sa kanya pinag-resign nla ako at pinapunta akong manila para mag-apply for abroad.
kami pa rin ni married man hanggang ngayon . nag-promise siya sakin na susunod siya kung san ako pumunta. touch naman ako.
pero ngayon naguguluhan na ako, gusto ko nang tapusin tong ka-hibangan ko. pero everytime na nag-aatemp ako, ako rin yung nahihirapan.
ayoko na kasing pangalawa lang lage. gusto ko naman may magmahal sakin na ako lang isa at di yung nakikihati lang.
please help me. mababaliw na yta ako.

Suggestion ko lang, kung for you okay maging kabit or 2nd wife since muslim siya edi Go! pero kung sabi mo nga ayaw mo ng may kahati, then move on, magpakalayo layo ka na lang kesa everyday at habang buhay ka na lang masasaktan. for sure ayaw mo naman maging kabit diba! mas masakit knowing na may inuuwian pa siya ng iba, may ibang kni kiss or hug. kaya mo yan! sa umpisa at sa isip mo lang na hindi mo kaya! gawin mo ang tama!

[elysia]

simple pero mahirap gawin.
maghanap ka ng iba. kung mahal mo ang sarili mo, maghahanap ka ng ibang ikaw lang ang mamahalin at walang excess baggage.

[Nils]

Hi Folks..let me share my experience and I would be thankful for your opinions may it be positive or negative. I am also involve with a married man with two kids although when I met him he said they are not in good terms with his wife.they are just living in the same roof because of the children. I was myself married but separated although not legally.
We are currently living in the same house as partners but we never talk about getting our relationship legal. We are just happy being with each other. The only thing we are saying is that we are going to grow old together. Financially I am not dependent on him as he is on me. We are earning enough to support our each individual self. He is providing for his children and cared for them a lot.
The only problem I have is we are living in a very small world. We didnt let friends and family know about this relationship as we are worried about what they are going to say and that might put a strain in our relationship. Recently I felt kind of fed up and wanted this relationship too be out in the open so I would not have to worry about anything anymore.

Tuloy mo lang 'te para sa kulungan na kayo magkita ng married man mo. Mag out of the open ka eh di pa annulled or legally separated kinakasama mo dun ang bagsak mo pag nalaman ng misis nya. Di na bale kung di ka 'ibinahay' nung lalaki, may lusot ka pa... Pinasok mong na alam mong may sabit tapos may pa fed up fed up kang drama ngayon... Hiwalayan mo na lang kaya?

[Jameaux]

Ayoko sanang makisawsaw sa topic na ito but I couldn't control my fingers (sa pag-type sa keyboard, ha?)

Sa umpisa pa lang ang mali agad ang ma-in love sa may asawa. Pag di ka pinansin eh sasama ang loob mo. Pag pinansin ka naman eh sasama naman ang loob ng asawa niya. Either way ay talo.

Minsan mahirap talaga ang maging guwapo na tulad ko, waheehee.

'Lo ano pala address mo at napagawa ko na ang wig mo.

[TheRedRiderHood]

the solution is always to get out of the relationship... kasi sabi nga nila MALI.
kung saan ka masaya dun ka. if you decided to stay then you have to face the consequences.

[kaelizel]

ayoko na kasing pangalawa lang lage. gusto ko naman may magmahal sakin na ako lang isa at di yung nakikihati lang.

True that love really hurts, pero isipin mo rin na meron kang nasaksaktan at nasisirang pamilya, and for no matter how deep is your love to that man, still married sya, look for someone you deserve someone na irerespeto at mamahalin ka, yung maituturing mo pr syo tlg, in GOD's time darating yung taong laan pr syo.
Its not yet too late, mas masarap ang feeling na wala tyong ibang nasasaktan kpg nagmahal.
God Bless!

[kaelizel]

huwag mo ng ituloy ang alam mong MALI, once a man lie forever liar yan at **** sa iba gagawin nya ulit yan.

[calud]

hindi **** its a matter of decision if you want to be happy and wala nasasaktan na iba. : )