na-experience mo na bang ma-bully at mangbully?

[melala]

I was bullied in high school. Isa kasi ako sa mga pangit sa batch namin. But I never fought back. Umiiyak lang ako then would go on the next day. Going to school everyday was a torture. Dun ko naexperience mag cut class para matakasan ang pambubully sakin. Often, I will stay inside the library kasi nararamdaman kong lagi akong pinag-uusapan at pakiramdam ko pinagtitinginan ako.


Pinapagpagan ng eraser ng blackboard yung upuan ko araw araw tsaka yung bag ko. Minsan iseset-up ako sa isang bagay tapos pagtatawanan ako. I tried talking about it sa teachers pero walang nakinig sakin. Yung teacher mismo, favorite yung mga bullies.


I never fought back. Tumingin ako sa sarili ko-- bakit ba kasi ako pinagtatawanan? I took everything as "my fault" kaya ako nabubully so I worked a lot on improving myself instead.


Pagdating ng college, nakikita ko pa yung mga highschool classmates ko and they were surprised sa transformation ko not only physically but in terms of my career. I learned to let go of it and let karma do the job... and well, ayun nga. Nabalitaan ko nalang may asawa't anak na sila as early as 18.


Naging teacher ako ng highschool for two years and I was very watchful sa mga bullies. I shared a few of my personal experiences about being bullied and I make these bullies realize na mali ang ginagawa nila. Somehow thankful din ako na naging instrument ako para pangaralan ang mga bullies sa school na nagturo ako before.

[Jameaux]

I guess most of us have experienced being on two sides. When I was younger, I had bullied those kids who are bad but I made sure that I can handle them physically and mentally. If ever I was bullied by someone bigger, I had tried to find ways to make that person stop bullying me. For example if he is bigger, a simple call to my big muscular brother will teach that kid a lesson. If someone small would try to bully me, the outcome was always being reversed. Yes, I had turned out to be the bully.

[RushID]

Yes na experience na it was HS days, everyday pinag tritripan ka, ginagawa kang subject sa katatawanan, my instances din na physically abuse you like itutulak ka nila, ipapahiya ka, im not the kind of guy who fights back. but one day i got feed up, kasi below the belt na ginagawa sakin, inis na inis ako to the point gusto ko na syang saktan at di nako makapag pigil pa, so I KICKED HIM IN THE GROIN then GROUND AND POUND the guy, hangang sa inawat kami ng classmates namin. hindi na nya inulit sakin pag tritrip nya.

Respectfully: RushID

[aling_cora]

Yes, nabully ako.

3 Years ago may crush na crush akong male officemate, napapansin ko masyado sya humaling sa isang website na palihim niya pang sinisilip silip sa office akala ko porn, nung minsan natyempuhan ko nakita ko Pinoyexchange pala anyways... dun nagstart ang pagregister ko dito kaso sobrang kabado ako nun na malaman niyang iniistalk ko sya kaya aling_cora naisip kong name, nung nagpex nako, napansin ko halos lahat magkakakilala, lage pinagkakatuwaan name ko o kaya sinasabihan akong altnick or dummy simula nun, naging lurker nalang ako... haba noh un lang ang kwento ng nabully na lurker

[sliceoftime]

Ako nambubully pero more of biruan that gets out of hand sometimes. All done out of love, and it's not to alienate people.

[balbolski]

Yes, nabully ako.

3 Years ago may crush na crush akong male officemate, napapansin ko masyado sya humaling sa isang website na palihim niya pang sinisilip silip sa office akala ko porn, nung minsan natyempuhan ko nakita ko Pinoyexchange pala anyways... dun nagstart ang pagregister ko dito kaso sobrang kabado ako nun na malaman niyang iniistalk ko sya kaya aling_cora naisip kong name, nung nagpex nako, napansin ko halos lahat magkakakilala, lage pinagkakatuwaan name ko o kaya sinasabihan akong altnick or dummy simula nun, naging lurker nalang ako... haba noh un lang ang kwento ng nabully na lurker

buti hindi naman yun crush mo yun nambully sayo noh? wapak yun pagnagkataon

[kulasa_maldita]

i experienced both... basta wala lang pikon.. ang pikon, talo... hehehe.. well, nakikiramdam naman muna ako sa tao bago ko i-bully... masaya kasing mang-bully

[marso20]

sana sa mga bully noon sa akin pag ngkaanak na tayo sarili mging mgkaklase para bullihin ng anak ko *** mga anak nyo payback time

[aling_cora]

buti hindi naman yun crush mo yun nambully sayo noh? wapak yun pagnagkataon

Onga noh haha, deh madalas mga chics nambubully sa kapwa chics eh, as in nahalukay buong buhay mo ng walang pasabe