na-experience mo na bang ma-bully at mangbully?

[obesepornstar]

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BULLIES ARE INSECURE. THEY TRY TO PUT PEOPLE DOWN TO MAKE THEMSELVES FEEL BETTER.

[juanito5354]

naranasan ko na mabully madalas lalo pagsweldo na (kay kumander), allowance lang ibibigay minsan nga kinukupitan ko na lang sarili ko.

[victoryliner]

ako rin ibubully ako ng mga kasama ko ang ginawa ko nanahimik nalang ako sa isang tabi

[babsky]

when i was 16 or 17 nabully ako. members ng frat sa school. yung isa nakainom. nung dumaan kami sa harap nila bigla ako sinuntok nung isa sa braso. lalaban sana ako kaya lang lumapit yung isang kasama nung nanuntok pagpasensyahan ko na lang daw kasi nakainom. tsaka madami sila

[PACORAVAN]

TS, mukha ngang talagang nambubully yan hahaha... bawian mo na lang din... di naman pala kagandahan...

[namelessgurl]

I would not name her but my friend is bullied for almost two years in school. The weird thing is, she never got angry. Actually, the persons who bullies her are also her friends. I am one of them. Sometimes we call her "panget", or we just indirectly say it to her.

[xanGe]

Naranasan ko na. 'Pag sa barkada, natural lang sa amin ang pangbubuly sa isa't isa. Pero pag ang nambubully, hindi ko naman kaclose, ang sarap lang sapakin..haha Minsan, hinahayaan ko lang. Minsan, binabara ko, binabalik ko sa kanila. Minsan, 'pag tapos na siya mambully, pag kinakausap ako, iniignore ko lang. Ayun, pahiya.. :P

[Arc_6]

Ma-bully: YES. I was bullied in school from 9yo to 12yo. Natigil lang when we were highschool na dahil sa ibang section sya napunta. He did it again when I was 16yo at ang masaklap pa sinampal ako at hinamon ng away (before graduation) pero hindi ko pa rin pinatulan kahit na nasa martial arts club na ako at that time at football player, pero takot pa rin ako makipag-away sa kanya (he was a trained amateur boxer and a football player) dahil mas malaki talaga sakin at leader sya ng street gang. Kahit pilit akong umiiwas sa kanya lagi pa rin kami nagkikita. Itinago ko ang nararanasan ko sa kanya dahil ayoko madamay ang mga kapatid ko na maliliit pa that time.
When we were 18yo, may fraternity na ako (I was the President at that time), pinatulan ko na sya nakipagbasagan na ako ng mukha sa kanya (inunahan ko lang) at nakabawi din ako sa kanya. Simula nun nag-iwasan na kami dahil andami na pumagitna sa amin.
I heard gangster na sya ngayon, at ako naman malapit na magtapos sa law school. Naiisip ko ngayon, I hope magkita uli kami someday.....

[xPhilBrooksx]

Ako naman di ako nabubully pero di rin ako bully, katropa ko kasi yung mga bully eh, naaawa nga ako minsan sa mga binubully nila eh, pero di ko na lang pinakikialaman. Apathy, the 8th deadly sin.

[egeboy099]

na bully rin ako nung highschool ako..pero *** mga bully binu bully rin nila *** kapwa nilang barkada na bully..actually mga barkada ko *** nag bubully.. minsan nakikisakay rin ako..pero meron *** time na halos lahat na sila eh..napa iyak nga ako nun...tapos nun parang lumakas yung loob ko...at kahit binubully na ako sabay sa agos na lang ...minsan bumabawi rin ako..pero verbal fight eh...pero barkada ko rin naman sila.at nung mga 3rd - 4th year na kami kaybigan na tingin namin sa isat isa.....hindi naman pala ganun *** mga bully eh..kala ko masasama mabubuti rin pala sila..nasa ugali lang **** nila na mag trigger *** bully eh...nag bully rin ako dati *** nag bubuly rin sakin kakampi ko *** mga bully sama sama kame...hahahahahahaha na mimiss ko *** mga old memories...

[cynshia]

Hahaha... I'm a bully khet mom na ako... I used to be bullied when I was in elementary and high school, but I learned the process na... just go with the flow... the more na nagpapakita kasi na naiinis tau pg inaasar the more tau aasarin ng mga yan... Try finding his/her mistake na di mkakasakit or mpapahiya MASYADO yung tao.. para naman di mo mfeel na kawawa u ^_^

[officeboy24]

ako rin na bully ako nung elementary at high school ako. yung nangbubully sakin ay varsity player samin lagi ako inaasar na bading kasi mahinhin ako kumilos at mahiyain. e sino naman hindi magiging mahiyain kung lagi akong binubully kaya outcast ako noon at wala ni isang friend sa school at lagi ako nakaupo sa sulok ng room tapos walang katabi at hindi rin ako napapansin or nabibigyan ng chance sumali sa extra curricular acitivity ang tingin ng mga classmate ko at teachers ko sakin ay weird kaya parang invisible ako sa school. Then here comes 4th year high school, hahahaha nagulat ang madlang classmates/batchmates ko even my teachers dahil out of 206 n nagtake ng USTET samin ay 48 lang ang nakapasa ant kasama ako sa pumasa sa entrance exam ng UST kaya after nun nagiba na pakikitungo nila sakin bigla silang bumait lahat at tuwing makaksalubong ko sila lagi ako nginingitian at iniinvite pako maki jamming sa kanila. Syempre go with the flow lang pero itong varsity player na ito hanggang college nabubully pa rin ako kasi sa FEU siya nagaral pero di ko pinapansin kasi UST ako (duh!) hehehe...After college graduation, nagwowork ako sa bank while si varsity player sa IT company naman. Kahapon nasa Glorietta akoaround 6pm galing office ay nagtagpo ang aming landas after 4 - 5 years. Dapat hindi ko siya papansinin pero siay yung nagapproach sakin at niyaya ako kumain at siya nagbayad, hnatid pako sa house namin at until panay ang text simula kagabi until now... hehehe

[barelythere]

back in grade school, well grade 3 to be precise may classmate akong lalake na "pastime" na namin ang asarin ang isa't isa. super kulit din and parang babae sa sobrang maputak. me being a bully by nature lol siyempre it was hard to resist not to fight back. never kaming umabot sa point na talagang nagkapikunan na at nagkakumprontahan or pisikalan lol. pag nasa classroom pag may pumasok nang teacher, quiet na kami pareho as if parang walang nangyari. pag nasa campus naman, ganun din pag dumating na mga sundo namin, automatic hinto rin kami na parang wala lang din. pero ang totoo, sa part ko I was sooo close to crying at paghahampasin siya. until till this very memorable day came na hanggang ngayon pag naalala ko sobrang natatawa pa rin ako. what happened was we were bashing each other, typical na asaran ng mga bata lol. yung tipong "ikaw nga ganito ganun...." then I'd answer back (ofcourse! haha) "eh bakit bakit ikaw nga jan eh blah blah blah"...then after a few minutes nagtaka ako kasi salita ako ng salita siya di na pumapatol tahimik na bigla. yun pala impit ng naiyak dun sa upuan niya.

my gaaad! nakaramdam naman ako ng awa and takot at the same time. sobrang nakakatawa lang kasi sobrang laking bulas nito. pag pinagtabi kami hanggang kilikili lang ako LOL. pati built namin sobrang laki ng difference. pero sumuko saken?! haha katawa lang talaga. nasaan na kaya yun ngayon?

oh well those were the days na I was that maldita. mabait na ako ngayon.
nag mellow na, lumulugar na ngayon. atleast!

[4Wheeler]

I played both roles. I was a bully and I've been bullied. Now, I don't bully anyone anymore not even on the internet. I just give my cheap shots comments.

My advice on handling bullies is to stand your ground the moment you realize you're being bullied. It's like dealing with street dogs. The first few seconds will determine if you're a pushover or not. I'm not saying you should physically confront every bully because that wouldn't be safe, but you shouldn't immediately back down either. Bullies usually have loud mouths. Most of them have loud bark but they don't bite. Fortunately, these days you can sue anyone who lay a hand on you and you can tie them up in court for as long as you want.

Back in highschool, a friend of mine had a problem with a bully almost twice his size. He's very vicious. He physically beat my friend and stare him down on almost a daily basis. I convinced him to pay a pedicab driver in my neighborhood, to wait for my friend outside of school and protect him. After school, when my friend got out of school, he stayed outside and waited for the bully to come out. When the bully saw my friend, he began to bully him. My friend didn't back down this time. After the initial push by the bully, the pedicab driver (dressed in nice clothes) jumped out of nowhere and layed a beatdown on the bully. When he's down on the ground crying, he warned him not to bully his "cousin" ever again or he will wait for him outside everyday after school. That was the last time he got bullied by him, or anyone in that school.

[leitwinkle]

in my younger years, i have been bullied alot, and it did not help my self-esteem. what it did was ruin my social life. instead of having lots a friends, i got a few. but as i grow up, i leaned to stand alone and fight for myself that they can't bully me anymore.

[oneanother]

na bully na ako, simula elementary hanggang high school, grabe experience ko na yun, and sadly nagawa ko din mam bully sa mga kalaro ko nun dahil nga sa mga experiences ko na ako yung binu bully noon.
wala akong magawa nung panahon na yun, lagi akong takot lumaban, kahit napapahiya na nila ako, meron pa nga nung minsa, pinagtali nya ako ng sintas sa harap ng klase. hays

[Vit@min_C]

^ anak, ituro mo! tutulian ko,grabe yun ah

[kuting_kitten]

I was bullied for a long time. It really took a toll in my self-esteem. I was even bullied by some teachers, which is so wrong. That stopped only when I was in senior high, when I became "cool." Ka-FB ko yung mga nambully sa kin dati, I even see them in some reunions.

People get surprised to know that I was bullied, kasi ako na yata yung mukhang bully ngayon.

[oneanother]

na bully na ako, simula elementary hanggang high school, grabe experience ko na yun, and sadly nagawa ko din mam bully sa mga kalaro ko nun dahil nga sa mga experiences ko na ako yung binu bully noon.
wala akong magawa nung panahon na yun, lagi akong takot lumaban, kahit napapahiya na nila ako, meron pa nga nung minsa, pinagtali nya ako ng sintas sa harap ng klase. hays

thanks, btw that was way back 1998.

[CrewCut]

i guess everyone does...different ways...to a certain extent...