Marriage before sex

[~gIrLnXtDoOr~]

I did. And my then-bf, now-husband accepted and embraced my decision, and I believe he was pleased with it. Maybe some of u will say im a prude, maybe i am in that area at that time. Pero hndi rin ako magmamalinis na sabihin na malinis ako buong buhay ko. I just changed, learned about God, my moral values changed with it. I was given a second chance to do things right this time around, especially during the time that I am about to get married to the guy of my dreams.

If ur gf said that to u, accepting that depends if u share the same values and principles. Kung ngayon lang may conflict na kayo sa ganyan, paano kaya pag nag-asawa? One pt to also remember is what kind of woman u consider her to be, pang booty call lang gf? Or wife material? If u look at her as wife material, think of her decision as her values that she will pass down to your daughters. Wouldnt any guy want that?

Btw, we also had our first ever kiss in front of the altar. Sounds like a fairy tale but May i tell u that we are very compatible in every way in bed and out. I consider that God's blessings to us because he heeded His call to obedience.

ang galing naman...bilib ako sanyong dalawa

[mayonnaise]

ANG sakit sa yagbols basahin nung story ni bluesatin na asawa ni johnny blueballs.

JUST messin' bluesatin. peace on earth sa lahat.

[manangvi]

I did. And my then-bf, now-husband accepted and embraced my decision, and I believe he was pleased with it. Maybe some of u will say im a prude, maybe i am in that area at that time. Pero hndi rin ako magmamalinis na sabihin na malinis ako buong buhay ko. I just changed, learned about God, my moral values changed with it. I was given a second chance to do things right this time around, especially during the time that I am about to get married to the guy of my dreams.

If ur gf said that to u, accepting that depends if u share the same values and principles. Kung ngayon lang may conflict na kayo sa ganyan, paano kaya pag nag-asawa? One pt to also remember is what kind of woman u consider her to be, pang booty call lang gf? Or wife material? If u look at her as wife material, think of her decision as her values that she will pass down to your daughters. Wouldnt any guy want that?

Btw, we also had our first ever kiss in front of the altar. Sounds like a fairy tale but May i tell u that we are very compatible in every way in bed and out. I consider that God's blessings to us because he heeded His call to obedience.

WOW !!!!

Can't believe that relationship like this still do exist.
- Saludo ako sa inyo !!

May i ask , What is your religion ?

[Uinen]

I did. And my then-bf, now-husband accepted and embraced my decision, and I believe he was pleased with it. Maybe some of u will say im a prude, maybe i am in that area at that time. Pero hndi rin ako magmamalinis na sabihin na malinis ako buong buhay ko. I just changed, learned about God, my moral values changed with it. I was given a second chance to do things right this time around, especially during the time that I am about to get married to the guy of my dreams.

If ur gf said that to u, accepting that depends if u share the same values and principles. Kung ngayon lang may conflict na kayo sa ganyan, paano kaya pag nag-asawa? One pt to also remember is what kind of woman u consider her to be, pang booty call lang gf? Or wife material? If u look at her as wife material, think of her decision as her values that she will pass down to your daughters. Wouldnt any guy want that?

Btw, we also had our first ever kiss in front of the altar. Sounds like a fairy tale but May i tell u that we are very compatible in every way in bed and out. I consider that God's blessings to us because he heeded His call to obedience.

teh, pagpasensyahan nyo na po ang ibang posters dito di talaga nila kaya sobrang kalibugan nila.
Yung mga Pilipino noon nung panahon ni Rizal nagagawa ng babae at lalaki yan. Iba na kasi ang generation ngayon.

[mrs.tezuka]

I did. And my then-bf, now-husband accepted and embraced my decision, and I believe he was pleased with it. Maybe some of u will say im a prude, maybe i am in that area at that time. Pero hndi rin ako magmamalinis na sabihin na malinis ako buong buhay ko. I just changed, learned about God, my moral values changed with it. I was given a second chance to do things right this time around, especially during the time that I am about to get married to the guy of my dreams.

If ur gf said that to u, accepting that depends if u share the same values and principles. Kung ngayon lang may conflict na kayo sa ganyan, paano kaya pag nag-asawa? One pt to also remember is what kind of woman u consider her to be, pang booty call lang gf? Or wife material? If u look at her as wife material, think of her decision as her values that she will pass down to your daughters. Wouldnt any guy want that?

Btw, we also had our first ever kiss in front of the altar. Sounds like a fairy tale but May i tell u that we are very compatible in every way in bed and out. I consider that God's blessings to us because he heeded His call to obedience.

Baka po may kapatid na lalaki yung husband niyo. Baka lang naman.

[BlueSatin]

Paano ko malalaman kung sexually compatible kami bago kami ikasal? Kapag ganyan ang hirit ng gf ... BYE BYE ... maghanap siya ng ibang LOLOKOHING lalaki ...

--sent from my Windows

Would u still hold the same views if you have daughters instead of sons? Daughters who are being banged at, instead of sons banging others?

*pardon the bold term i used*

[BlueSatin]

WOW !!!!

Can't believe that relationship like this still do exist.
- Saludo ako sa inyo !!

May i ask , What is your religion ?

Haha thanks! we are Bible believing Christians di naman namin kakayanin yun kung hindi sa strength na kaya lamang ibigay ng Panginoon natin.

[BlueSatin]

very nice. must take two strong people to uphold that.

me kasi, i am weak, so, so weak.

We are no different. We are weak creatures too. It took 2 weak people and 1 strong God to uphold that

[revhard]

I am veeeeerrryyy weak though

[almightyge]

Most of you don't know me or even recognize my nick anymore.. but i used to be very active here in PEX, even in eb's.. you guys here call me Kuya Ge. =)

and.. i am proud to intro to everyone... my wife.

Bluesatin. =)

[purpleheadd07]

kinilabutan ako, how nice!

yes, i've heard about you before, nice, nice.

[enaej426]

I think si Juday and Ryan did the same based sa kwento ni Juday last time sa isang talk show , I remember this was her promise to her mom .

I know a friend also , they're both virgins when they got married , now no holds barred na si friendship ko kung magkwento about their sexual escapades ..

[wazdog]

I don't understand why there's much cynicism and condescension against BlueSatin. I happen to know other couples who saved themselves until the wedding day and now enjoy very healthy, happy and fruitful marriages.

[sami_toka]

wow almightyge and bluesatin like ko yan


this thread only shows kung gaano na kababa ang morality ng mga pinoy...

pinoy din ako kaya wag kayong magagalit sa kin hahaha!



sana ako rin magawa ko siya sa magiging asawa ko, to resist temptation until we get married

[saweverything]

si freshbabe kung maka react affected na affected

[djaynitor]

Would u still hold the same views if you have daughters instead of sons? Daughters who are being banged at, instead of sons banging others?

*pardon the bold term i used*

I do not hold double standards - what is good for the gander is as good for the goose.

I will just advice my grown-up children to practice SAFE and RESPONSIBLE SEX and take full responsibility for their own actions. This is a NO BRAINER.

--sent from my Windows

[djaynitor]

this thread only shows kung gaano na kababa ang morality ng mga pinoy...

What are you implying : pre-marital sex = low morality?

--sent from my Windows

[AprilovesU]

I did. And my then-bf, now-husband accepted and embraced my decision, and I believe he was pleased with it. Maybe some of u will say im a prude, maybe i am in that area at that time. Pero hndi rin ako magmamalinis na sabihin na malinis ako buong buhay ko. I just changed, learned about God, my moral values changed with it. I was given a second chance to do things right this time around, especially during the time that I am about to get married to the guy of my dreams.

If ur gf said that to u, accepting that depends if u share the same values and principles. Kung ngayon lang may conflict na kayo sa ganyan, paano kaya pag nag-asawa? One pt to also remember is what kind of woman u consider her to be, pang booty call lang gf? Or wife material? If u look at her as wife material, think of her decision as her values that she will pass down to your daughters. Wouldnt any guy want that?

Btw, we also had our first ever kiss in front of the altar. Sounds like a fairy tale but May i tell u that we are very compatible in every way in bed and out. I consider that God's blessings to us because he heeded His call to obedience.

awWw! idol

[Nils]

Oh i/we never claimed to be super virginal. Like i said, we both have our pasts. Hindi naman kami nagmamalinis. We also were very honest with one another before we got married. When we met, we were at the stage in our lives that we both gave ourselves to Jesus, realized we need to change our past behaviour, and change we did. I also trust that my then-bf wasnt doing any hanky panky during our courtship. Some of u may not believe this, but i think that's between him and God, but I do trust him in that area.

I was just simply sharing what truly happened to us, during our relationship, our wedding and our marriage.

Ahhh... Now I understand. You've had your fun, and both of you found religion. You've been there and done that, the only question in your mind is 'how different would it be with him?' and knowing the ropes already, you already know the answer. That's totally different from totally not ever having experienced sex prior to marriage. Jaded people can easily restrain themselves compared to the completely curious ones and that's on top of recently finding religion, converts are practically zealots when they embrace their newfound faiths.

[freshbabe]

Would u still hold the same views if you have daughters instead of sons? Daughters who are being banged at, instead of sons banging others?

*pardon the bold term i used*

^^ You are lucky I might say. Coz it's RARE TO REALLY MEET A GUY WHO CAN TAKE THOSE SACRIFICIAL STEPS AND LIMITATIONS you had in a relationship. And it's RARE that a GUY can uphold a religious commitment & give up HIS PHYSICAL NEEDS. Guys are inherently "physical" w/ someone they are attracted or inlove with. A girl can take and curb her urge(i believe)- but guys can't - unless he's gay.

-I felt you both had a "PAST", so I still believe that yes maybe the "FAITH" you seriously embraced made you act and take those LIMITATIONS SERIOUSLY..

-I mean "super rare" na lang yan talaga. Well you can't blame me if I was a bit sarcastic about a story like this. Coz "kissing intimately on the lips" is a big element for couples to feel connected "physically."
Remove the s#x part and all the s#xual things leading to the deed. It is the "basic" act of connecting physically.

-PLAIN Friends don't kiss intimately. Opposite sexes whose extremely attracted to each other does. And yes the 3rd sex too. But PLAIN FRIENDS DON'T. And you both are a COUPLE. So ...

-What you both did in the relationship (physically) was like being brotherly or sisterly or fatherly w/ each other.

-That's the mere reason why I can't believe a story like this.

-YOU'RE ONE LUCKY GIRL -I MIGHT SAY. Kasi BS din sa kin yung porke't "christian" ka eh feeling mo banal ka na at santo.
Sila pa mismo yung may@yabang at self-righteous. Well sorry to offend anyone on this post. It's how I perceive them to be.