Marriage before sex

[manangvi]

Guys, papayag ba kayo kung sabihin sa inyo ng inyong gf na

" I will only give myself to you on the first night of our wedding "

[TTJ]

tanong muna. payag ba syang mam-BJ o kahit handjob man lang? tapos pwede ko ba lamasin boobs nya at imanipulate digitally? pwede laplapan?

[djaynitor]

Guys, papayag ba kayo kung sabihin sa inyo ng inyong gf na

" I will only give myself to you on the first night of our wedding "

Paano ko malalaman kung sexually compatible kami bago kami ikasal? Kapag ganyan ang hirit ng gf ... BYE BYE ... maghanap siya ng ibang LOLOKOHING lalaki ...

--sent from my Windows

[JobyBryant24]

tanong muna. payag ba syang mam-BJ o kahit handjob man lang? tapos pwede ko ba lamasin boobs nya at imanipulate digitally? pwede laplapan?

how about rimming? CIM?

[softy]

oh well,she could change her mind TS...as YOU prove you're for REAL.

I don't see it as an option to jettison her for the moral values she hold that guide her decision.

I'm not here to tell you what's Right/Wrong...but i suggest you should be EMOTIONALLY intimate before Sexually Intimate.

[purpleheadd07]

hang on and wait a while, malay mo bibigay din.

[vincex]

marriage before sex? not practical. you can have surprises that you realize you can't take.

[Nils]

to add to TTJ and Joby's comments...

pwede bang ilabas ko yung init ko sa iba habang di pa kami kasal?

[blue_tracer]

on topic:

sabi lang niya 'yun.

haribasin mo kaagad yung leeg niya kung hindi magbago sa kanyang posisyon. hahaha

\i/

[BlueSatin]

Guys, papayag ba kayo kung sabihin sa inyo ng inyong gf na

" I will only give myself to you on the first night of our wedding "

I did. And my then-bf, now-husband accepted and embraced my decision, and I believe he was pleased with it. Maybe some of u will say im a prude, maybe i am in that area at that time. Pero hndi rin ako magmamalinis na sabihin na malinis ako buong buhay ko. I just changed, learned about God, my moral values changed with it. I was given a second chance to do things right this time around, especially during the time that I am about to get married to the guy of my dreams.

If ur gf said that to u, accepting that depends if u share the same values and principles. Kung ngayon lang may conflict na kayo sa ganyan, paano kaya pag nag-asawa? One pt to also remember is what kind of woman u consider her to be, pang booty call lang gf? Or wife material? If u look at her as wife material, think of her decision as her values that she will pass down to your daughters. Wouldnt any guy want that?

Btw, we also had our first ever kiss in front of the altar. Sounds like a fairy tale but May i tell u that we are very compatible in every way in bed and out. I consider that God's blessings to us because he heeded His call to obedience.

[djaynitor]

One pt to also remember is what kind of woman u consider her to be, pang booty call lang gf? Or wife material? If u look at her as wife material, think of her decision as her values that she will pass down to your daughters. Wouldnt any guy want that?

No, because not every guy is stuck in the Victorian times.

In the 21st century, SEX is part of a SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP - married or not. To deprive sex before marriage is archaic, medieval and anachronistic.

--sent from my Windows

[purpleheadd07]

I did. And my then-bf, now-husband accepted and embraced my decision, and I believe he was pleased with it. Maybe some of u will say im a prude, maybe i am in that area at that time. Pero hndi rin ako magmamalinis na sabihin na malinis ako buong buhay ko. I just changed, learned about God, my moral values changed with it. I was given a second chance to do things right this time around, especially during the time that I am about to get married to the guy of my dreams.

If ur gf said that to u, accepting that depends if u share the same values and principles. Kung ngayon lang may conflict na kayo sa ganyan, paano kaya pag nag-asawa? One pt to also remember is what kind of woman u consider her to be, pang booty call lang gf? Or wife material? If u look at her as wife material, think of her decision as her values that she will pass down to your daughters. Wouldnt any guy want that?

Btw, we also had our first ever kiss in front of the altar. Sounds like a fairy tale but May i tell u that we are very compatible in every way in bed and out. I consider that God's blessings to us because he heeded His call to obedience.

very nice. must take two strong people to uphold that.

me kasi, i am weak, so, so weak.

[spoliarium98]

I did. And my then-bf, now-husband accepted and embraced my decision, and I believe he was pleased with it. Maybe some of u will say im a prude, maybe i am in that area at that time. Pero hndi rin ako magmamalinis na sabihin na malinis ako buong buhay ko. I just changed, learned about God, my moral values changed with it. I was given a second chance to do things right this time around, especially during the time that I am about to get married to the guy of my dreams.

If ur gf said that to u, accepting that depends if u share the same values and principles. Kung ngayon lang may conflict na kayo sa ganyan, paano kaya pag nag-asawa? One pt to also remember is what kind of woman u consider her to be, pang booty call lang gf? Or wife material? If u look at her as wife material, think of her decision as her values that she will pass down to your daughters. Wouldnt any guy want that?

Btw, we also had our first ever kiss in front of the altar. Sounds like a fairy tale but May i tell u that we are very compatible in every way in bed and out. I consider that God's blessings to us because he heeded His call to obedience.

[freshbabe]

I did. And my then-bf, now-husband accepted and embraced my decision, and I believe he was pleased with it. Maybe some of u will say im a prude, maybe i am in that area at that time. Pero hndi rin ako magmamalinis na sabihin na malinis ako buong buhay ko. I just changed, learned about God, my moral values changed with it. I was given a second chance to do things right this time around, especially during the time that I am about to get married to the guy of my dreams.

If ur gf said that to u, accepting that depends if u share the same values and principles. Kung ngayon lang may conflict na kayo sa ganyan, paano kaya pag nag-asawa? One pt to also remember is what kind of woman u consider her to be, pang booty call lang gf? Or wife material? If u look at her as wife material, think of her decision as her values that she will pass down to your daughters. Wouldnt any guy want that?

Btw, we also had our first ever kiss in front of the altar. Sounds like a fairy tale but May i tell u that we are very compatible in every way in bed and out. I consider that God's blessings to us because he heeded His call to obedience.

-AS IN?? Pati first kiss sa altar??? TOTOO BA ITO?? Anung ginagawa niyo before you got married?? Magtitigan lang????

-ok lang kung walang nagawang se#ual contact eh-pero KISS???

-Or other intimate stuffs... PATI KISS WALA?? Parang pag-walang attempt man lang coming from the guy-iisipin ko pa na baka "bad*ng" or di attracted sa kin yung BF ko."

-Parang ang BS ng ganitong mga story. Parang ang hypocrite.

-I just remembered all these stories nung RICA PERALEJO nuptials and yung Pastor niyang BF. Of all people si RICA pa magmamayabang na sa ALTAR sila nag-kiss ulit nung napangasawa niya. Eh EX-BF niya si Bernard Palanca. Iisipin ko bang nakapag-tiis siyang di makipag-PHYSICAL contact sa Pastor niyang BF si RICA.

[Nils]

I did. And my then-bf, now-husband accepted and embraced my decision, and I believe he was pleased with it.

You believe wrong.

And I bet your husband was poking around a lot before you got married.

[purpleheadd07]

natawa ako sa violent reactions at judgments. di naman ata nila kailangan na maniwala kayo o hindi eh, sila lang mas nakakaalam sa totoo. i'd like to believe na may possibility na meron pa din mga taong ganyan. kanya kanyang beliefs and practices na lang.

[BlueSatin]

-AS IN?? Pati first kiss sa altar??? TOTOO BA ITO?? Anung ginagawa niyo before you got married?? Magtitigan lang????

-ok lang kung walang nagawang se#ual contact eh-pero KISS???

-Or other intimate stuffs... PATI KISS WALA?? Parang pag-walang attempt man lang coming from the guy-iisipin ko pa na baka "bad*ng" or di attracted sa kin yung BF ko."

-Parang ang BS ng ganitong mga story. Parang ang hypocrite.

-I just remembered all these stories nung RICA PERALEJO nuptials and yung Pastor niyang BF. Of all people si RICA pa magmamayabang na sa ALTAR sila nag-kiss ulit nung napangasawa niya. Eh EX-BF niya si Bernard Palanca. Iisipin ko bang nakapagtiis siyang di makipag-PHYSICAL contact sa Pastor niyang BF si RICA.

Wala na bang hope and trust ngayon ang mga tao na may nangyayaring ganito pa? The world truly has turned around. A few decades ago, 1 pms incident will cause chaos to the society, but now 1 non-pms incident causes chaos to the society na. Natatawa ako in a way (non sarcastic, just kamot ulo).

I may not fully know Rica's life story. But She and I may share the same history. Hindi naman kami parehong nagmamalinis. We only claim that we were able to stand at the altar with our husband, cleansed by God, given a second chance at a new start anew.

To answer your kiss question, yes we kissed, sa cheeks, sa noo, sa tabi ng lips. Temptation was there, oh was it ever present! But my then-bf now-husband knew my promise to self and God, and he also made the same promise too. And so, nagawa namin. Totoo, tiis yun. Matinding tiis. Pero kakayanin mo talaga if you both aim it for a higher purpose. At ngayon, Taas noo namin maipagmalaki that our first kiss was at the altar. It was announced by the pastor, caught on video and photos. Whether u believe me or not, whether u think this is being hypocritical or not, It remains a legacy we can proudly pass down to our children.

[BlueSatin]

You believe wrong.

And I bet your husband was poking around a lot before you got married.

Oh i/we never claimed to be super virginal. Like i said, we both have our pasts. Hindi naman kami nagmamalinis. We also were very honest with one another before we got married. When we met, we were at the stage in our lives that we both gave ourselves to Jesus, realized we need to change our past behaviour, and change we did. I also trust that my then-bf wasnt doing any hanky panky during our courtship. Some of u may not believe this, but i think that's between him and God, but I do trust him in that area.

I was just simply sharing what truly happened to us, during our relationship, our wedding and our marriage.

[BlueSatin]

natawa ako sa violent reactions at judgments. di naman ata nila kailangan na maniwala kayo o hindi eh, sila lang mas nakakaalam sa totoo. i'd like to believe na may possibility na meron pa din mga taong ganyan. kanya kanyang beliefs and practices na lang.

[spoliarium98]

Wala na bang hope and trust ngayon ang mga tao na may nangyayaring ganito pa? The world truly has turned around. A few decades ago, 1 pms incident will cause chaos to the society, but now 1 non-pms incident causes chaos to the society na. Natatawa ako in a way (non sarcastic, just kamot ulo).

I may not fully know Rica's life story. But She and I may share the same history. Hindi naman kami parehong nagmamalinis. We only claim that we were able to stand at the altar with our husband, cleansed by God, given a second chance at a new start anew.

To answer your kiss question, yes we kissed, sa cheeks, sa noo, sa tabi ng lips. Temptation was there, oh was it ever present! But my then-bf now-husband knew my promise to self and God, and he also made the same promise too. And so, nagawa namin. Totoo, tiis yun. Matinding tiis. Pero kakayanin mo talaga if you both aim it for a higher purpose. At ngayon, Taas noo namin maipagmalaki that our first kiss was at the altar. It was announced by the pastor, caught on video and photos. Whether u believe me or not, whether u think this is being hypocritical or not, It remains a legacy we can proudly pass down to our children.

Don't worry BlueSatin... the world may say you should do this and that, pero may mga tao pa rin na gaya rin ng paniniwala mo... maiintindihan ito ng mga couples na fully submitted themselves to God