Rules after breakup

[destinyloves2]

I just want to get your opinion... Me karapatan ba akong magalit if my ex-partner start seeing someone while nasa iisang bahay pa kami? In my opinion kasi as a respect sa former partner in life mo, you should wait for the smoke to clear before you start dating again specially kung magkasama kayo sa iisang roof. Sana magantay man lang na magkiwalay kayo ng bahay, bago iparamdam sayo na me replacement kana.

[ilothtmytheat]

No rules. plain and simple.

[mars11]

ayon kay Popoy at Basha, kelangan iapply ang 3-month rule

[Gspotter69]

No rules. plain and simple.

well said..

You already decided to have no grudge by the time you both ended it for good. If he goes for a rebound because of what he/she felt then it's normal. every human being are susceptible with the same.

Go on and move on -- that's life is. Cos the only thing that never changes in our life is the phenomena of 'CHANGES' itself.

Shape up sweetie. something better is up for you.

[ppeneojy]

Also start seeing other people. Fight fire with fire.

[__Suzanne]

Hmm, there's nothing wrong with it naman. Siguro it's his/her way to show you na nakamove on na sya.

Wala naman talagang rules e. Learn to accept the fact that people move on.. and you should, too.

[cryinoutloud]

kelangan talaga may rules? wala nun...

but yeah you can ask for respect dahil magkasama pa kayo sa isang bahay but it's not a rule. because there's none. choice na yun..

[Enimouz]

TS, para saken meron kang karapatan magalit, normal naman yan, pero wala kang karapatan sabihin un galit mo.

Okay na rin yan atleast alam mong "The End" na talaga kayo, nakakabastos pero meron taong walang modo talaga, not to mention na naging kayo or meron kayong istorya dati. Yaan mo na lang po. Masasanay ka rin gang tuluyan na kayong mag-hiwalay.

[thegreatmind]

Ang hirap din minsan if there girl is not saying if it is over or not like a hanging question never knowing if you can move on or not. Ang lalaki kasi gusto sinasabihan mahirap kc silent treatment it does hurt too. I am waiting and partially moving a little bit.

[bluenica]

ultimate rule: bawal mag-balikan.

[cynshia]

First thing to do is...
lumipat ng house... if u don't want to feel the pain...
Second...
accept the fact na he/she is seeing someone... you don't have the right na over that person... but yes ok *** magalit coz it's normal, tao ka eh.
Third...
Move on!

[nakedtruth]

Walang rules eh. Nasa sa inyo iyon for delicadeza purposes only. Pero walang rules, sadly.

[balbolski]

tibay naman kasi bakit kayo magkasama pa din in 1 roof. someone should have left already after the break up.

[melala]

I feel you TS.

Mahirap but there's no other way than to bring back your pride. Accept the fact na sh*t happens, well it's part of life ganun talaga so the next time we'll be more careful in our decisions.

Smile at all costs. Kahit mahirap, always show your best self. Keep your composure and never show to your ex na desperate ka na bumalik siya kasi mas lalong tataas ang pride niya. Pakita mo na you can live happily without him.

Lastly, appreciate your blessings. Be closer to your family. Hang out with friends. Keep yourself busy. Makakalimutan mo rin siya at marerealize mo eventually na he's not worth your tears.

Another thing always pray and have faith. Have faith that God won't put you up with someone less. Believe you deserve someone better.

[carel3ss]

Wala ka ng karapatan na magalit kasi wala na kayo. Single na kayo both. Pero di maiwasang makafeel ng galit.

Baka naman ginawa nya yun para umalis ka na sa house. Yung exboyfriend ko kinausap nga ako to change my status sa FB 2 days postbreak up, single na daw dapat. He's dating other girls na rin. Mas nainis pa ako dun sa FB thing kesa dun pambabae.

[bluenica]

walk away as fast as you can...just walk away.

[blehblehbleh]

no rules. once magkahiwalay, paunahan nang umiskor. mauna panalo eehehehehhee.

edit: pero kapag makikipag date ka, siguraduhin mong nakamove on ka kasi ikaw talo pag panakip butas lang yung susunod mo hhehe. yung recent ex ko nakipag relasyon agad sa kabit nya nung kami pa. as in nung nakipaghiwalay ako, the next day sila na. obvious di ba? so ako nagalit blah blah... di ko nag entertain. then may nakilala ako (bf ko now) after 6 months naging kami. sya naman ang papampam ngayon. di nya tanggap na meron na ako bf ngayon at nagpapapansin... hiwalay na sila ngayom and sorry to say, ang basura nasa tamang kinalalagyan。

[darmonx]

yes there are rules after break up.
-move out
-no see
-no talk

you already breaking the rules since you still live together and see each other.. not sure if you talk but 2 out of 3 is already pretty bad which is why you have this dilemma.

[bk123]

the only rule. "move on"

ayun lang po. no need to cry over spilled milk, or follow that crappy 3 month rule. yun ibang tao masyado nanonood ng telenobela at movies. too much drama. you continue to your life. be happy and enjoy! date agad kung kelangan.

[~gIrLnXtDoOr~]

naka-move on & out na kaya si ts?

i agree with the posters..move on..yun ang pinaka importanteng rule