cheating denial husband..help!!!

[sandradelacruz82]

Hello TS and everybody here. Before I give comments, let me tell you that I have undergone the traumatic experience of being cheated on. I will not elaborate here, in respect to TS. I will create my own thread soon. I just can't help but comment. I hope you won't mind.

@nils - madali lang sabihin ng mga nagpopost dito na makipaghiwalay, hindi naman sila yung makikipaghiwalay, di rin sila yung nasasaktan o masasaktan, hindi rin pamilya nila yung mabubuwag...

I completely agree. I used to say na isang beses ko lang mahuli nagloloko ang asawa ko I will leave him...LESSON LEARNED - wag ka magsasalita ng tapos

@TS - hindi..hindi lang makakawala kasi hindi din ako makakamove on kasi wala ako magiging ebidesnya.. at baka lumabas pa niyan sakanila ako pa ang masama kasi santo ang tingin nag ina niya sakanya..

I also think the same. Kailangan mahuli, yung tamang di na makakapag deny. Catch them redhanded. Kaya lang nagsesecond thought ako. Nakakatakot din kasi yung pwede kong gawin if I catch my husband and whoever he's with.

@TS - he saw me crying earlier.. i cannot control myself, but to cry so hard. then he got mad at me he told me that he was pissed because he didnt like to see me crying..and that issue was already closed, and everyday i brought it up to him.. i told him that "did you hear me telling that issue again?" i was just crying becasue i cant forget it and its not that easy to let go.. and he said he's doing the things that i want him to do, like he's going home early and he didnt bring his car last night becasue he's coding today... then he hugged me and told me that "please dont be like that becasue it will affect our child in your womb. then he initiated sex then i gave in..

Di ko alam kung bakit halos lahat yata ng nangaliwa ganito reaction, whenever na nakikita nila ang spouse nila na affected sa mga nangyayari. yun bang parang kasalanan mo pa kung bakit ka umiiyak. kasalanan mo kung bakit di mo makalimutan yung mga nangyari. at pag nagkaroon kayo ng arguments and binanggit mo yung mga ginawa nyang kalokohan sya pa ang galit at sisisihin ka pa na di ka makamove on. feeling ata nila para tayong computer na idelete mo lang yung file eh tanggal na sa memory or pag navirus eh irereformat lang ok na ulit.

di ba parang unfair na mabuti pa sila kahit papano e nag-enjoy habang nagpaparaos samantalang tayong tinorotot nila simula sa umpisa hanggang sa huli nasaktan ng sobra and the pain remains with us until God knows when. everytime na maalala mo, the intensity is the same dun sa pain na naramdaman mo when you first found out about their affair. bakit nga ba ganon? di naman ikaw ang nagkasala pero parang ikaw ang pinaparusahan?

@TS - hindi din siya umaamin..na kesho me bf din siya at sa ginagawa ko naninira daw ako ng relasyon..

TS, ganyan talaga yang mga kumakabit sa may asawa. ganyan kakapal ang mga mukha nila. at kayang kaya nila maginarte ng ganyan, na magmamalinis pa. kayang kaya nilang magsinungaling at mag deny ng walang kakilakilabot sa katawan. walang moral values, walang takot sa Diyos, walang kahihiyan at walang delikadesa. kung meron sila nung mga values na yan, do you think papatol sila sa may asawa?

[lady_joelle]

TS,
I know how you feel dahil napagdaanan ko din yan. To be honest with you, your thread made me cry again kasi pareho pala tayo ng reaction. (masakit pa rin.) Ayaw ko na magmahal. I hope you are ok. Prepare yourself, wag kang masyadong umasa lang sa income ng asawa mo, start earning and saving for yourself and your child. If you need someone who will just listen to you, pm me. If you want to stay with your husband, I hope ready ka pa rin sa mga unexpected possibilities.
Stay strong and pray to God always.

LJ