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I wanna surprise him also, buy him gifts from my own pocket. Nakakahiya naman kung lahat na lang galing sa kanya, di ba?
I would be very much worried about "traditional" men and women. Maybe some people here may think that it insinuates higher moral standards when in reality it simply means that the individuals involved are not open to moral re-evaluations. Non-openness will also relate to other things in life. And that will be a problem.
I also agree that 'traditional' =/= moral or better. It's false assumption that following (old) cultural norms makes it the 'proper way' without evaluating it's worth. We live in an ever changing world.
I think in terms of 'morality' there are unalienable time insensitive essences that must stay in effect (ie respect) but its manifestations can and will change over time.
It's like old rituals. The process itself does not hold value, therefore it may change or may not hold form over time but the 'essence' of why the rituals are conduct/the reason for their existence is still and still be held.
-bigyan mo ng puhunan para makapag umpisa ng own business nya.
-o kaya kung may own business ka na, turuan mo magnegosyo.
-o kaya may dati ng work or mamamasukan din sya.
kasi you'll never know kung hanggang kailan lang mabubuhay hubby mo, di mo pwedeng iasa ng iasa yan, madaling maubos ang yaman kapag di mo minahal.
madami pa ring naghahanap na gustong buhayin sila ng mapapangasawa nila kasama iba pang kapatid at magulang nya
PARANG hindi ko yata masisikmura umuwi ng bahay sa gabi after putting in my time at work na madadatnan ko misis ko sa bahay amoy pawis at naka-duster ang suot.
SERIOUSLY, im the type kasi na hindi kailangang paghandaan ng damit, pagluto at paghainan, o kung ano-ano pang ginagawa ng tradisyonal na misis. i also hate being deferred to for simple, non-life threatening decisions that can be made on the spot. for instance, kailangan ba talagang dalawang tao ang magdecide kung anong kulay ng kurtina para sa kwarto ang ilalagay? or whether salmon or blue marlin ang ihahanda sa birthday party ng nanay nya? at that point, just shoot me.
^ If the traditional girl is a gold digger
The traditional man is a chauvinist.
for me din if ever na magiging wife ako ayaw ko lang ng nasa bahay,gusto ko yung may work din ako,pag asa bahay ka lang kasi parang hindi ka ng grogrow as a person eh...mas maganda yung both mag-asawa kumikita para na rin sa future ng mga anak...kawawa naman yung lalaki kung lahat sakanya iaasa...
Are there still Traditional Men?
Yes, i know a few, - endangered species. Today, both should be helping each other when it comes to finances.
Most women today wanted to be at par with their male counterparts, most of them do not want to sit and wait all day for their husbands. Sabi pa ng nila, "bakit pa ako mag aaral or sayang naman pinag aralan ko kung magiging housewife lang ako".
Traditional Filipino men:
Jose Rizal - pumapatol sa prosti with a MVP scoreboard as far as germany;
Juan Luna - wife beater .... este .... murder (wife and in-law);
Antonio Luna - globetrotting brat;
Apolinario Mabini - poster boy for syphilis STD;
Andres Bonifacio - had 2 wives;
Emilio Aguinaldo - bantay salakay to the max; and
Padre Damaso - hypocritical fucking clergyman!
sound familiar .... marami pang neo-traditional men dyan.
Last edited by gotta lick it; Feb 10, 2013 at 01:47 AM.
Chauvenistic cavemen who adopts the facade of a sensitive guy. Pinoy culture is still predominantly chauvenistic!
Chauvinist and 'sensitive guy' are false dichotomies.
Maybe blunt vs. sensitive, and chauvinist vs. progressive minded.
It's like you're automatically a Neonazi because you're loud.
You could be as quiet and delicate and still believe that a woman shouldn't have rights.
The Devil is On The Delivery
Unfortunately girls prefer a chauvinist rather than a progressive.
They aren't willing to give up the luxuries of "being bought". The treats, the treatment. et al.