Can a guy and a girl can really be just friends

[kolamickey]

YES, just be friends

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[simply23_unique]

based on my experience haizz..nkakalungkot lang na nawawala sila dahil amost sa mga friends kong guys nadevelop saken..malay ko sakanila tama lang naman ako makisama..ni hindi nga ako sweet na tai ee hahah!! kagulat lang bigla nalang sila magsasabi..tapos ayun e ilangan factor na..ok lang sana kung mutual?? ayy hindi din pala for me kasi its not all about love..madami pang dapat iconsider..

[simply23_unique]

YES, just be friends

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kung pwede mo nga lang agad sabihin oi wag ka madedevelop ahh friends lang tayo haha!! iniiwasan ko kasi ilangan factor tapos after nun mag akak gap (( good friends pa naman sila tapos dahil lang sa ganun diba sayang friendship..lately mejo dami sila sabay sabay ...nakakbigla lang.. hehe

[recycleBin]

^ Bakit ayaw mo sila madevelop sayo? Di mo type itsura? XD

[hamsterson]

kung pwede mo nga lang agad sabihin oi wag ka madedevelop ahh friends lang tayo haha!! iniiwasan ko kasi ilangan factor tapos after nun mag akak gap (( good friends pa naman sila tapos dahil lang sa ganun diba sayang friendship..lately mejo dami sila sabay sabay ...nakakbigla lang.. hehe

ako gawin mo friend di ako madedevelop.

@Topic
yes it can.

[kolamickey]

based on my experience haizz..nkakalungkot lang na nawawala sila dahil amost sa mga friends kong guys nadevelop saken..malay ko sakanila tama lang naman ako makisama..ni hindi nga ako sweet na tai ee hahah!! kagulat lang bigla nalang sila magsasabi..tapos ayun e ilangan factor na..ok lang sana kung mutual?? ayy hindi din pala for me kasi its not all about love..madami pang dapat iconsider..

Sad but true... BUT if the guy is really a true friend, understanding, and humble he should not feel awkward and avoid the girl. I'm not saying he should suppress his feelings. He should know his place and understand the situation.

[collegestudent]

kung pwede mo nga lang agad sabihin oi wag ka madedevelop ahh friends lang tayo haha!! iniiwasan ko kasi ilangan factor tapos after nun mag akak gap (( good friends pa naman sila tapos dahil lang sa ganun diba sayang friendship..lately mejo dami sila sabay sabay ...nakakbigla lang.. hehe

I know how you feel but right now im just doing what vincex told me not to do relation activities. As for the quiet guy he still walks beside me. And kept on touching my lower back when saying goodbye. The point is im not analyzing things anymore. Vincex told me not to mind those things. Thats what im doing now. Less hassle of thinking.

[simply23_unique]

^ Bakit ayaw mo sila madevelop sayo? Di mo type itsura? XD

hahah! depende yung iba pang friends lang talaga..pero kapag gusto ko iba din naman..dba mas ok pag friend mo na lover pa..hehe kaso yun nga kapag di nag work dun na nag sstart yung ilangan, sana friends pa din haha..

ako gawin mo friend di ako madedevelop.

hahahha! talaga lang ha! LOL

@Topic
yes it can.

Sad but true... BUT if the guy is really a true friend, understanding, and humble he should not feel awkward and avoid the girl. I'm not saying he should suppress his feelings. He should know his place and understand the situation.

ewan ko sakanila tamang pakikisama lang naman..sabi ko nga d pa ko sweet niyan..hindi ko **** alam bakit..??

I know how you feel but right now im just doing what vincex told me not to do relation activities. As for the quiet guy he still walks beside me. And kept on touching my lower back when saying goodbye. The point is im not analyzing things anymore. Vincex told me not to mind those things. Thats what im doing now. Less hassle of thinking.

ah chancing?? hehe..naku pag friend ko ganyan nahaahyaan ko nalang din iniisip ko friends kasi kami..yun nga tapos bigla mag sasabi ng feeling!! ang labo aahahaha!! me motives pala..well maybe as times gone by siguro talagang na develop..kaso panu ako hindi mutual? sayang lang :P hehehe...

[tresadiktus]

Why not? It can't be hard. Because if it gets hard, there will be a problem

[collegestudent]

ah chancing?? hehe..naku pag friend ko ganyan nahaahyaan ko nalang din iniisip ko friends kasi kami..yun nga tapos bigla mag sasabi ng feeling!! ang labo aahahaha!! me motives pala..well maybe as times gone by siguro talagang na develop..kaso panu ako hindi mutual? sayang lang :P hehehe...

i dont think its chancing. Its like an akbay or half hug. Well sakin wala namang ganung sasabihin niyang feeling. I see to it that i keep my distance with him. also, i never approach him na ako ang mangunguna. Pag kinausap niya ko dun lang ako makikipagusap. usually yung guys naman sasabihin niyang feeling ang girl pag nakikita niyang kinikilig or nagrereact yung girl na different than expected lalo na with peers. I think parang in defense nila yun pag nagreact ka tapos tsaka nila sasabihing feeling mo naman

[freshbabe]

i dont think its chancing. Its like an akbay or half hug. Well sakin wala namang ganung sasabihin niyang feeling. I see to it that i keep my distance with him. also, i never approach him na ako ang mangunguna. Pag kinausap niya ko dun lang ako makikipagusap. usually yung guys naman sasabihin niyang feeling ang girl pag nakikita niyang kinikilig or nagrereact yung girl na different than expected lalo na with peers. I think parang in defense nila yun pag nagreact ka tapos tsaka nila sasabihing feeling mo naman

^^ well it's the reverse i think... mas feeling yung guy kasi feel na feel naman niya ang pagka-kilig ni girl sa kaniya.

[simply23_unique]

i dont think its chancing. Its like an akbay or half hug. Well sakin wala namang ganung sasabihin niyang feeling. I see to it that i keep my distance with him. also, i never approach him na ako ang mangunguna. Pag kinausap niya ko dun lang ako makikipagusap. usually yung guys naman sasabihin niyang feeling ang girl pag nakikita niyang kinikilig or nagrereact yung girl na different than expected lalo na with peers. I think parang in defense nila yun pag nagreact ka tapos tsaka nila sasabihing feeling mo naman

I agree with fresh babe mas kinikilig sila kesa sa girl..naku ako iba hug ka jan hahaa! unless close na close diba. iba kasi mag isip mga guys siyempre they made different from us baka mapaulit pa kapag payag lang ng payag. haha mas magandang wag na diba..hehe! kaya wala silang mapala saken. nyahahha

[collegestudent]

^^ well it's the reverse i think... mas feeling yung guy kasi feel na feel naman niya ang pagka-kilig ni girl sa kaniya.

I dont think so, If nakipgbeso ang guy sayo at kinilig ka namn for sure masasabihan kang feeling but if you make it casual. Do you think sasabihan ka nya nun? If you acted na para kang nakipagbeso ka sa brother mo? Sa tingin mo masasabihan ka nyang feeling?

to simply23_unique: i guess that would be our difference. For me it doesnt matter if a guy hugged me or make beso with me. Why would i stop them from doing those things? Diba mas feeling ka nun pag lagi mo iniisip na nananching sila? And may isip ka naman para di mo mapansin kung china chansingan ka or hindi. Also, i wouldnt say to them na "hindi pa ko sweet sa lagay na yan ah" coz i dont say things to them that would make them think na naiisip ko yung mga ganung bagay. just friends. Dedma lang, i guess namaster ko siya coz lagi akong natutukso with other guys sa office. Like what vincex said "break the ice" yun lang nakakapagod pag ganun nalang ng ganun.

[simply23_unique]

to simply23_unique: i guess that would be our difference. For me it doesnt matter if a guy hugged me or make beso with me. Why would i stop them from doing those things? Diba mas feeling ka nun pag lagi mo iniisip na nananching sila? And may isip ka naman para di mo mapansin kung china chansingan ka or hindi. Also, i wouldnt say to them na "hindi pa ko sweet sa lagay na yan ah" coz i dont say things to them that would make them think na naiisip ko yung mga ganung bagay. just friends. Dedma lang, i guess namaster ko siya coz lagi akong natutukso with other guys sa office. Like what vincex said "break the ice" yun lang nakakapagod pag ganun nalang ng ganun.[/QUOTE]

yeah we have our own differences naman..siguro di lang ako sanay na ganun saken lalake kahit pa kaibigan ko siya. unless naman **** were very close. haha! yun lang saken. I'm not used to it. sanay ako dad and relatives lang beso and kiss and hold saken. wala ng iba unless nalang gusto ko yung tao or mahal ko siya pero matgal tagal bago niya ko mahawakan. haha! hindi sa nag iisip ako lagi ng malisya parang para saken di lang siya appropriate. madami din ako guy friends and sila nga na dedevelop ng walang ganyan ganyan ee..ewan ko sa mga yun haha!

[leitwinkle]

possible but there will come a time when you'll both feel something else for that other person, you'll be attracted but then it's up to both of you if you'll be entertaining it or giving in to it. so yes, it's possible that a guy and a gurl who are friends could stay that way, depending on their preference, =P

[blue_acid]

i think they can i have guy friends whom I have known before puberty and it's been platonic all this while and it looks like it will be just that til we're old and wrinkly

[collegestudent]

yeah we have our own differences naman..siguro di lang ako sanay na ganun saken lalake kahit pa kaibigan ko siya. unless naman **** were very close. haha! yun lang saken. I'm not used to it. sanay ako dad and relatives lang beso and kiss and hold saken. wala ng iba unless nalang gusto ko yung tao or mahal ko siya pero matgal tagal bago niya ko mahawakan. haha! hindi sa nag iisip ako lagi ng malisya parang para saken di lang siya appropriate. madami din ako guy friends and sila nga na dedevelop ng walang ganyan ganyan ee..ewan ko sa mga yun haha!

Does that mean di ka pa nagkaka bf?

[simply23_unique]

Does that mean di ka pa nagkaka bf?

hahaha mahirap kasi ko mahalin walang tumatagal saken ee! right or wrong lang meron saken pag alam kong its wrong to be with him or its against my belief basta ganun ... i don't pursue even I like/love the person...I believe that God will provide naman! I'm always positive and right now I'm happy coz I'm still a student I should just study for the sake of a good future with or without partner I'm prepared! pero siyempre I prefer to have one. the ONE

[collegestudent]

possible but there will come a time when you'll both feel something else for that other person, you'll be attracted but then it's up to both of you if you'll be entertaining it or giving in to it. so yes, it's possible that a guy and a gurl who are friends could stay that way, depending on their preference, =P

Yeah this is what im doing right now. Im starting to like the quiet guy but since i do have a bf and i know its not love im not giving in to it. Yes, kinikilig ako at some point but hangang dun nalang.

To simply23_unique: hei no judgement. Just asking lang naman. Nothing wrong with not having a bf specially when you're still young.

[Lalaru]

Yeah this is what im doing right now. Im starting to like the quiet guy but since i do have a bf and i know its not love im not giving in to it. Yes, kinikilig ako at some point but hangang dun nalang *edit* MUNA *edit*.

Good luck.