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of course.. i have several close girl friends.. i even invite them sometimes on pseudo dates and its no big deal really.
pero pag may alak, laging may balak, kahit gano pa kabait ang mga yan. nagsasalita mga TT naming mga lalake lalo na kapag nakainom.
Guys are usually more activity oriented than girls. You have more chances to evolve more assuming your relations with men aren't "date oriented".
Girls among girls have less activity orientation. Meaning, less evolutionary.
You have less chances to improve.
Girls put too much premium and priority on relations.
the question is why are you uncomfortable with the guy? is there a problem with him?
sometimes it is a function of group dynamics.
some do not understand that platonic relationships do happen merely because they go beyond intimacy
This shouldn't be a problem. Heck, this kind of crap happens to me as well. It just so happens I have to remind myself NOT TO CARE so I can interact more openly with some people that i like.
Don't let that stop you from making guy friends. I have girl friends who act the same way with me. But even if they get tameme as well, I make it a point to take the initiative and "break the ice" of interaction so they wont be tameme anymore.
pasingit lang ah. That depends on how you deliver it, say it with a little humor.
I agree with nils. It may get awkward but atleast nasabi mo kung ano ba talaga, what's the real score at kung hanggang saan lang ba talaga dapat.
Also aren't there any other things or activities that you can do with them apart from "inuman session". I mean seriously, may bf ka diba kahit sabihin pa nating you're just after the fun of hanging out with these guys, iba pa rin eh...Iba ang impluwensiyang nabibigay ng alak.
For the quiet guy (ayaw ko ng paulit uliting tong word na to - who
liked me- kaya quiet guy nalang) he started talking to me na with no awkwardness sa work, nagjojoke, pag lang talaga kasama namin yung ibang guys.
if there is attraction, even at the slightest level.
admiration, okey.friendship, possible.
why?because there will come a time, that you'll just pine over the person wishing you'd be liked.
or was it just me?
The fact is, I don't really care if I have friends who I am attracted to since I have tons of girl friends who are attractive. If they don't want to be more casual friends with me then its they're problem. I have many other people to drag along and bug.
Of course, some people are worried but I always assure them I can handle my alcohol. I can drink and still drive. And I even take some drinking buddies home. They say its not just the alcohol and drunk driving: Its me being the only girl in the group. Hindi nga daw magandang tignan. I said, "WTF. I even go to beerhouses with them and ako pa nga ang pumipili ng GRO nila sa aquarium!" That was how platonic I viewed my friendship with the boys. They're like my brothers, I always say.
Or so I thought. And yeah, I wished I knew this before. I'm NBSB because I think I have too much testosterone, owing to the strong male influence while growing up (til now). So I didn't realize that what I felt for a certain kabarkada was already attraction and when something happened one drunken evening that I didn't have my car, I knew that boys will always be boys and iba talaga pag nakainom and may konting feelings na nadevelop through the years. And the sad thing is, things became awkward between me and the guy and our friendship was never the same. We still talk once in awhile re: management stuff and networking connections, but I don't drink anymore with them. I wished I have known this that even if they're like my brothers, pag may feelings na nadedevlop, wag na iinom na mag-isa lang na girl na panay guys ang kasama. Dapat may kasama na other girls or f@g hags sa group.