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Fluvia Lacerda! She exudes sensuality. But those hips are waaay to big.
being fat most of my life (til i was 26), size is the least of my worries.
but what i noticed is that fat/chubby chicks are almost always fun to be with. they're caring, sensitive, grounded, down to earth, with great sense of humor and being foodies, are usually very sensual people. and being sensual people, great and exciting sex is almost always, assured.
be they friends, lovers, partners, they have a lot to offer. which many guys fail to appreciate; this to their detriment. they miss the chance to enjoy the company these women provide. the endless laughter, wonderful insight (usually bullied as kids, they have developed a great sense of evaluating people and situation), sharp wit (again bullied, they developed sharp defenses) and intimidating intelligence (i guess karma gave them other assets other culturally accepted qualities considered beautiful) are the perks of being with chubby women.
so, yes. i will (used to, papatayin ako ng asawa ko kapag nabasa to) date chubby women. guys who wouldn't, don't know what they're missing.
nah, he likes round girls and when i lost weight, he was a bit sad kasi i don't have much of a tum tum na daw i guess guys from the west are not so fixated on size as much as people from the east are. i know couples that they look like a perfect 10 and guys see their gf/wife as the perfect thing ever.
hahaha one poster said here that intimacy is better with bigger girls
Chubby = Impending or Delayed Obesitychubby is sexy
Just a thought:
I'm a girl and i find it quite disgusting for other guys who have something against chubby girl. I know for a fact that attraction starts from the physical looks but then what matters is the person's inside. You gotta get to know someone before you judge them because of how they look. =P
As for myself, i find chubby guys quite qt. =P
^ To be quite honest, we cant blame some men who think ill of chubby ladies. In this society where we all grew up with the definition of being sexy and being attractive translates to being thin, most of them would really be choosing thin girls over the chubby ones.
Come to think of it, when did you see a chubby FHM model? Rarely, or never even! This is because of what we grew up believing. If youre a size 4 then youre accepted, if youre a size 10, expect to be criticized, and if youre a size 16, then expect your ego to be crushed.
We all start to be attracted with someone physically. Its is indeed a big factor and I know all of us, thin or fat, rich or poor, choosy or not (hehe) have standards. Let men choose whoever they want to choose. If certain men find plus sized ladies repulsive then let them be. Not everybody has the same preference. Some men prefer the model thin girls, some men fancy chubby ladies, but there are men, and believe me I know a lot, who chooses someone with a good personality, great sense of style and witty, regardless of her body size, weather she be fat or thin. And that ladies, is someone we ought to chose and we deserve to have. Not some d!ck head who base a woman's worth according to her size.
ahhh kaya pala medyo malusog ka na lately hehehe
huwag kang mag alala at tanggap ko pa rin ang pata mo hahaha
Reality Bites kase.
That's why FAT will never be "IN". FAT is not the new Size 2, FAT is not the new look, FAT is not healthy, and let's be realistic with that. If you're 20 pounds heavier, then you should do something about it. It's only CUTE for babies!!! Even fat kids need to diet. May magandang mataba, I'll say yes to that, coz their face is really beautiful, BUT, the body is having a hard time adjusting to all those excess weight. I say, all ladies should be healthy, NOT fat. Even guys should be healthy, NOT fat!
Natatawa lang ako sa mga beauty is skin deep excuses ng iba. Ayaw niyo ba na you're beautiful inside and out?
Eh ako nga na medium sized I have to diet to keep the toxins out. All girls owe it to themselves to look beautiful and healthy! It's not for the men's benefit, secondary nalang yun. Marami ding sexy jan with a dynamite personality. Usually nga pag sobrang taba, lagi depressed, lousy looking, insecure...that's not healthy.
And I'm saying this to CHUBBY ladies who are on the road to being FAT in the future. Chubby means sarap lang pisilin, FAT, masarap ihawin. Don't let go of the discipline to eat right. Para hindi na lumaki mashado.
Syempre all of us wants someone whose beautiful inside and out. In this instance kasi we tend to see being chubby/fat as a defect, it is indeed a defect, yun nga lang nadidiin masyado dahil sa itsura. Pero ang mga tao ba in general walang defect with them?
Baka sa personality, way of thinking, baka slow, baka judgemental, baka kirat, tatlo b0obs, tatlo balls, etc etc.
To sum it all up, lets just admit that people really have prejudices towards chubby people. Anu mang reason na yan, anu mang explanation. Yun lang yun. No, not just sa chubby pero sa mahihirap, sa may kapansanan, sa mababa pinag aralan, sa probinsyano, etc etc.
Ive been in a relationship or dated thin guys, fat guys, buff guys, tall or short, lahat na yata ng klase. But I never made the looks as the sole basis why ive liked them. Maybe im weird, pero nasa personalidad lahat. Iba iba kasi talaga tayo.
^True lahat naman may defect! Hahahaha. We can never please other people no matter what we do.
Mine is just focused on one issue, denying the truth that FAT is ugly. Not the person ha...the adipose tissues, that flubber under the skin. Hehehehe.
I agree with the unattractiveness of 'fat'. I myself am no chubby chaser. Those pictures I posted are samples of what my limits to BMI/shape.
IMHO, I just totally dislike skinny chics. I think a bit of womanly extra on the plate. It's just disgusting making love to a skinny girl; it'd be like fcking a little boy.
And the fact that 1. whether you are a man and esp. woman you were have been most likely than not have been overweight or fluctuated weight---so to judge another simply on her current weight is like to say you've never gained or never been unfit 2. you can't judge a woman on her fatness alone.
Also it's in my little experience that super fit/hot women are 60/100 more likely to be full of the themselves, vain and have bad attitude compare to normal/middle weight chics.
I also think that weight is workable. You can always lose it. If you just put your a$$ into it. Attitude, class and face however, are harder or irreversible factors altogether.
It's always workable.
Those being said, I also think that people who think that 'fat' is good is wrong. I think advertising fatness to be totally okay is not only bad but misleading. Science proves that per extra body fat/mass in one's body, the likelihood of diseases, mental and physical maladies, etc. goes up proportionally.
So I defer to the middle: I think it's okay and REALISTIC to accept that a woman may gain SOME weight. But that leeway shouldn't be a couch, where she can stay for the rest of her life...she should strive to be relatively healthy and look good for her partner/future partner's sake...but most of all for herself.
PS and that she and maybe the rest of society should have 'realistic' goals for her to look forward to.
Realistic goals IMHO as someone who works out, think is one of the most important goal in achieving success, whether they be losing weight and being health and anything else in life.
It comes down to this. If both girls are equal except one of them is fat, guys will always choose the one who isn't fat.
This discussion has turned into two extremes, the subject is either fat or "too skinny". How about we talk about girls who are just at normal weight?
Fat is not attractive no matter how you slice it. Yes they look okay if you have a professional photographer dress them up, put makeup on, pose them in an angle where the flab doesn't show, and look seductively, but in real life they look..... well, they're disgustingly fat. A photographer can make a pig look cute too but you wouldn't want to f*ck one in real life.
Nobody is saying girls/guys have to be skinny or have to be muscular hollywood shape, you just have to be at normal healthy weight. Stop eating snacks in-between meals and stop drinking sugary drinks. Eat three square meals a day and stop doing nothing. Your weight will go down to normal level. You don't have to workout everyday or eat cardboard tasting food. You just have to eat like a normal person. Stop stuffing sh!t into your mouth just to have something to do.
Fat acceptance group is just disgusting. That's fat people who have given up and have accepted gluttony as a way of life. If you look fat on the outside, then imagine how your inside must look like. Imagine how much plaque have built inside your arteries.
Another reason to stay away from fatties is, abusive self-indulgent behavior stems from deep psychological problem. It's like those who can't stop drinking, or can't stop smoking, or can't stop hitting drugs. It's the same dependencies.
I'm sorry if this hurt a lot of fatties. I'm just tired of hearing some of you tip-toeing on this issue. It's not helping them.