Para fair girls any questions??...sasagutin naming mga GUYS!! second chapter

[achmed]

uhm... di ako guy pero ako masasabi ko just be yourself... don't be someone else just because you want to impress someone kase lalabas at lalabas rin kung sino ka di ba?

kinakabahan kasi ako, baka ma-turn off yung guy friend ko sa akin, or ikahiya niya na ang ka-date niya ay boyish

[michymichymoo]

Ano yung reasons why guys gets torpe with the girl they really really like?

[ka_deniz]

first time ko makikipag date next week sa guy friend ko,
2 years ago pa noong last kami nagkita, thru facebook and texting lang kami nagkakausap, alam niya na boyish ako, and yun daw nagustuhan niya sakin, ok lang ba na boyish look ang outfit ko?
ganito na polo sport na long sleeves

or should i wear a blouse instead?
ayoko naman kasi mag pa girly masyado dahil baka isipin niya pinaghandaan ko mabuti date namin.
sa shoes ba? turn off ba kung naka sneakers ako? dapat ba pang gurl din?

off the cuff i 'd say just be yourself.

kaso, it's obvious gusto mo yung guy and you want him to be attracted to you.

so magayos ka. magpakagirl ka. pero dapat yung bagay sa pupuntahan nyo. ask him first kung saan. kasi baka naman hooters lang kayo tapos naka evening gown ka, mali naman ata yun.

at magpaka bango ka. nothing makes a date more memorable than sitting beside a great smelling date.

[crazytequilarose]

Guys, would you date the bestfriend of a girl you were inlove with?

Hinde naging maganda yung ending nyo nung girl, wala ng feelings, pero andaming unresolved issues na hinde na napag-uusapan. Somehow, may galit sa isa't-isa.

And yung mag-bestfriends ay super-close like sisters.

If you;re really starting to like the bestfriend, pano approach nyo?

Thanks.

[ka_deniz]

Ano yung reasons why guys gets torpe with the girl they really really like?

they get intimidated. they fear rejection. that the girl they like won't like them back.

[ka_deniz]

Guys, would you date the bestfriend of a girl you were inlove with?

Hinde naging maganda yung ending nyo nung girl, wala ng feelings, pero andaming unresolved issues na hinde na napag-uusapan. Somehow, may galit sa isa't-isa.

And yung mag-bestfriends ay super-close like sisters.

If you;re really starting to like the bestfriend, pano approach nyo?

Thanks.

lalasingin ko.

other than, that you have no chance in h3ll to date that chick.

malamang naikwento na sa kanya lahat ng atraso mo. and magkakampihan yun. ang sagwa pa ng dating mo, tutuhugin mo silang dalawa.

pero if you really want to may paraan pa rin. depende sa sitwasyon nyo. friends ba kayo nung girl?

try to go for the sick, pathetic puppy attack. it might work.

i dont know enough about your situation to make a good advice. try to elaborate.

[crazytequilarose]

Hahaha! Okay. So ako si gir.l Tapos si bestfriend ko ay type ni ex. Well, hinde ko alam nung una. Nalaman ko na lang ngayon, sila na. So, I felt betrayed by my bestfriend. Kze, she knew how I felt towards the guy, and how hurt I was, how I moved on. Basically, she knows everything. I'm thinking of starting a different thread on that.

Pero si guy, I just wonder kung ano iniisip nya. I mean, knowing how close kme ng girl. Parang ang **** lang kze. Kung talagang they like each other, wala naman akong magagawa. I just expected a little respect from both of them, like, asking for my opinion first and giving me time to absorb it. Losers!

[ka_deniz]

'day, matagal na may gusto yung bff mo sa ex mo.

there is no other explanation for it.

like you said, masama ang break up nyo. alam naman ng bff mo yung kwento nyo. tapos ganoon?

and the mere fact na hindi nagkwento sa iyo, ibig sabihin noon, matagal nang may namamagitan sa kanila. kahit noong kayo pa.

look at it this way, at least nakipaghiwalay sa iyo. mas masaklap kung habang kayo pa, may nangyayari na pala sa kanila.

[crazytequilarose]

haha! yeah..actually, matagal na kameng wala..early last year pa..Had 2 boyfriends then..then, ikakasala na yata ako sa current ko..Well, hinde na kame friends ni bff kze makati siya. Haha!

[blue_tracer]

i was wondering.... will guys ever realize their mistakes? like they hurt their ex girlfriends?

may mga tao na willing hanapin ang katwiran para sa kaayusan ng lahat. pero meron naman hahanap na lang lagi ng katwiran para i-depensa ang sarili 'till death. walang space para sa reason ng iba, siya lang tama lagi. this has something to do with pride.

para hindi na lumayo, havent you noticed doon sa mga nag aaway na ng personalan sa threads.. sa first few pages, maganda nakalatag ang mga argumento at katwiran.. pag lampas diyan hanggang 100th page halus puro pag tatanggol na sa sarili, hindi na sa katwiran na nasimulan.

so ilan lang ang so-sorry pag naging obvious na mali na sila? halus wala. kung meron man mag sorry, sarcastic pa.

they still hurt their ex girlfriends, you mean?

natural, pag yung guy he fails to realize his mistake pagpipilitan nito na ang kabila (ex gf) ang umamin. i dont think the type of guy you're referring to here wants to have a reconcilation with his ex.. but a closure, perhaps.

pero yung klase yata ng closure kung saan demonstrate maigi wala siyang mali.. na hindi siya ang cause ng breakup, etc.


achmed:

dress appropriately. kung saan safe ayun sa occasion/place.

basta ba implied pa rin ang curves mo kahit papano. para naman remind siya na ang ka-date niya is still a woman.

tsaka sana.. huwag ninyo itago ang cleavage ninyo sa date. i wont explain why. basta. hahaha

Ano yung reasons why guys gets torpe with the girl they really really like?

fear of rejection. meron collapse ng defenses doon sa guy. and in my opinion, in some instances women should capitalize on that.

baka naman okay siyang tao as a whole (?) pero yun lang defect niya mahina siya mag approach. huwag equate lagi sa pagkalalaki ang pagka-torpe.

if you're only after for fun.. walang use ang torpe.

pero pag relationship ang hanap mo doon sa guy, sa palagay mo ba pag confident (hindi torpe) ang isang guy dere-deretso sa paglapit sa iyo, maaskad kabisadong-kabisado ang mga linya.. eh sa iyo at sa iyo lang niya gagamitin ang precious 'talent' na 'yan? what made you think you're that special to him?

kasi baka naman hooters lang kayo tapos naka evening gown ka, mali naman ata yun.

Guys, would you date the bestfriend of a girl you were inlove with?

Hinde naging maganda yung ending nyo nung girl, wala ng feelings, pero andaming unresolved issues na hinde na napag-uusapan. Somehow, may galit sa isa't-isa.

And yung mag-bestfriends ay super-close like sisters.

If you;re really starting to like the bestfriend, pano approach nyo?

Thanks.

kung hayuk ako, oo. so what?

pero kung may consideration ako kahit kaunti sa sensitivity (though wala naman ka na siyan siguro masasagasaan) i'd think twice before dating her.

approach? maging natural lang at umiwas maging defensive. malamang marami nang na kuwento doon sa friend eh. hehehe

[bulilit2x]

Last night, I told my guy friend na ihinto na namin ang communication sa isa't-isa
because I think we're in a pseudo-relationship.
Na-fall na ako sa kanya, kaya para hindi na ako masaktan,
i-cut na lang agad.

I asked him kung ok lang ba sa kanya na stop na,
he said "you want it diba? may magagawa pa ba ako?"
>"sige goodbye"
>"ganyan ka ba talaga? you give up easily?"
>"oo para di na lumala yung pain"
nag bye na ako,
nag bye na din siya

I've deleted his number, and dinelete ko na din sya sa fb,
pero before ko siya idelete, nag post siya sa wall niya ng
song ni Brandy - Come a little closer

"I know that it's late
And maybe I shouldn't be so into you
It's just that tonight
I am so taken, I've fallen for you...
...Come a little bit closer
Let me hold you baby
I will be good to you
And we can try
To forget tomorrow
And make it last forever tonight"

^ I'm not sure, kung ako yung tinutukoy niya dun sa song.

tanong
1. may possibility ba na mag effort siya na maging maayos kami?
2. hintayin ko pa ba siya or kalimutan ko na lang at mag move-on na lang ako?

^ nagka-ayos na kami nung friend ko na guy.
Last night, siya yung napag sabihan ko ng family problem namin,
sabi niya umalis daw muna ako, sumama daw ako sa kanya,
i thought it was a joke, sabi niya seryoso daw siya.
sabi pa niya, kung girlfriend lang kita tinakas na kita diyan sa inyo.

question po:
"nasabi lang ba niya yun dahil kaibigan niya ako? or may gusto talaga siya sa akin pero hindi niya masabi na gusto niya ako maging girlfriend?"

[michymichymoo]

Guys, bakit kayo naiintimidate sa girl na gusto nyo? Ano yung factors na nakakapagintimidate senyo?

[rickym]

Guys, bakit kayo naiintimidate the girl na gusto nyo? Ano yung factors na nakakapagintimidate senyo?

sometimes it's intimidate. girls kasi minsan kunwari ang taas ng standards pala di naman. sometimes men aren't really intimidated, they just don't want the responsibilities that come with a commitment. so they don't look mayabang and unreasonable, kunwari nalang torpe kami.

[recycleBin]

Guys, bakit kayo naiintimidate the girl na gusto nyo? Ano yung factors na nakakapagintimidate senyo?

Yung feelings/attitude ng girl kung kasama na ng guy ito. Guys tend to compare themselves to the girl they like to see if they have chemistry together, or if he has a chance the chance with her. Second are her looks (for me ).

Still, the problem still lies with the guys. Dito na pumapasok ang kun anu anong problema like low self esteem, pagiging paranoid, etc...

[pushpop]

first time ko makikipag date next week sa guy friend ko,
2 years ago pa noong last kami nagkita, thru facebook and texting lang kami nagkakausap, alam niya na boyish ako, and yun daw nagustuhan niya sakin, ok lang ba na boyish look ang outfit ko?
ganito na polo sport na long sleeves

or should i wear a blouse instead?
ayoko naman kasi mag pa girly masyado dahil baka isipin niya pinaghandaan ko mabuti date namin.
sa shoes ba? turn off ba kung naka sneakers ako? dapat ba pang gurl din?

pede makisagot? hehe

the outfit in the pic doesn't look boyish naman ah... more of professional chic

but that aside, I'd say go for whatever you're comfortable with.

mahirap yung todo porma ka nga kaso you'll spend the whole date wondering about whether your dress is still in the right place, or concentrating on your low neckline in case too much cleavage is showing

[finkish]

girls who know how to drive - is it a major turn-on for guys?

[recycleBin]

girls who know how to drive - is it a major turn-on for guys?

Very. Kahit na sports car o FX pa yan.

Lalo na kung yung guy hindi pa marunong.

[orangepink]

thanks for the replies to my questions!

Guys, bakit kayo naiintimidate sa girl na gusto nyo? Ano yung factors na nakakapagintimidate senyo?

I'm not a guy and from my limited experience with men, I believe that if a guy really likes a girl, he'll make a move. Intimidation is nothing for them. I could be wrong though.

[orangepink]

Are you sure it's her bigger breast? It may be her other qualities. She might be in better shape, nicer a$$, prettier, or her personality. A girl who smiles a lot are easier to approach.

As for my friend, yeah I think it's more of her physical assets because we're completely alike. We're both shy, quiet with guys. But I do get your point. There's this Latina at our hospital and she's not pretty pero she smiles a lot. And when she smiles, parang close-up commercial so she gets to bag the resident I'll try smiling more na rin

[pink_angel65]

guys, ano gagawin niyo at magiging reaksyon niyo pag nalaman niyong gusto kayo ng isang girl?

iiwasan niyo? matutuwa kayo? lalayuan niyo? magpapapansin kayo? o parang wala lang?