Para fair girls any questions??...sasagutin naming mga GUYS!! second chapter

[TTJ]

i got a text from him yesterday. his answer to why he became cold: "pag masaya kasi ako gusto kita text para magkwento. sayo kasi happy-happy. ngayon iba yun lungkot ko. may mga oras na wala talaga ako gana mag happy-happy. diba kasi pag malungkot minsan, gusto mo lumabas at magsaya para mawala lungkot mo? hindi ganon yun ngayon eh. ngayon gusto ko nalang itulog, parang ayun na lang relief ko"

from what he said, feeling ko kasi he was indirectly telling me na hindi na siya masaya sakin. tama ba ako?

para mo namang sinasabing umiikot ang buhay nya sa yo.marami pang aspeto ang buhay nya na di ka involved. imbes na isipin mo ang koneksyon mo sa lungkot nya,alamin mo na lang problema nya. or hayaan mo na lang sya.magti text rin yan pag okey na sya.

[huggingapillow]

i got a text from him yesterday. his answer to why he became cold: "pag masaya kasi ako gusto kita text para magkwento. sayo kasi happy-happy. ngayon iba yun lungkot ko. may mga oras na wala talaga ako gana mag happy-happy. diba kasi pag malungkot minsan, gusto mo lumabas at magsaya para mawala lungkot mo? hindi ganon yun ngayon eh. ngayon gusto ko nalang itulog, parang ayun na lang relief ko"

from what he said, feeling ko kasi he was indirectly telling me na hindi na siya masaya sakin. tama ba ako?

nope. masyado ka lang affected.

para mo namang sinasabing umiikot ang buhay nya sa yo.marami pang aspeto ang buhay nya na di ka involved. imbes na isipin mo ang koneksyon mo sa lungkot nya,alamin mo na lang problema nya. or hayaan mo na lang sya.magti text rin yan pag okey na sya.

eh ikaw ba naman... from close friends to complete strangers with just a snap of a finger, kahit sino magtataka bakit nagkaganon.

ok, let's say he's depressed and everything. pero what if sakin lang siya nagkaganon, sakin lang siya nagbago pero sa ibang mga kaibigan nya walang pinagbago yun pakikitungo nya sa kanila?

[TTJ]

masyado ka sigurong cheerful na nahihiyang sumama sa yo ang isang taong may problema.baka pati ikaw maging malungkutin.malamang may iba pa syang friends na mas close sa kanya.

[shadow_dancer]

Guys, when you say to a girl you're sort of interested in , "Gosh, you're just like my mother," with a bemused smile on your face, is the girl automatically categorized to the 'friend zone' nalang. Meaning, you guys don't see a future with the girl who reminds you of your mother, right?

[popsky]

Guys, when you say to a girl you're sort of interested in , "Gosh, you're just like my mother," with a bemused smile on your face, is the girl automatically categorized to the 'friend zone' nalang. Meaning, you guys don't see a future with the girl who reminds you of your mother, right?

No, I think it's the opposite.

[ka_deniz]

eh ikaw ba naman... from close friends to complete strangers with just a snap of a finger, kahit sino magtataka bakit nagkaganon.

ok, let's say he's depressed and everything. pero what if sakin lang siya nagkaganon, sakin lang siya nagbago pero sa ibang mga kaibigan nya walang pinagbago yun pakikitungo nya sa kanila?

kung ganoon may ginawa ka na ikinasama ng loob nya. and chances are you don't even think it's that important kasi hindi mo alam.

[ka_deniz]

Guys, when you say to a girl you're sort of interested in , "Gosh, you're just like my mother," with a bemused smile on your face, is the girl automatically categorized to the 'friend zone' nalang. Meaning, you guys don't see a future with the girl who reminds you of your mother, right?

binobola ka lang nun.

[ChenesKayo]

hija, mali ang pagkakaintindi mo ng rebound. a rebound necessitates that the person rebounding was so seriously hurt and traumatized by his previous relationship, that he got so emotionally crippled by what happened, he needs to enter into a relationship that will heal him, teach him to walk again.

example, popoy and basha. popoy got so hurt, his life got messed up, he only learned to walk again after getting into another relationship which taught him to walk again.

so kung ikaw ang nangiwan, ikaw ang nanakit. hindi ikaw ang nagrerebound. yung iniwan mo. ang tawag lang sa iyo kups.

and possibleng mahgit sa isa ang rebound. nung panahong iniwan ako ng girlfriend ko na mahal na mahal ko, siguro naka sampung rebound ako sa loob ng dalawang taon bago ako muling nakabangon. nung naging kami na ulit. siya yung asawa ko.

ay oo nga pala... hahaha~ ako pala yung nag-rebound dati... toinks~
hindi pala nila kelangan mag-rebound pag sila yung nang-iwan or something. damn~ so wala lang ganun na lang pag pinagpalit niyo yung gf niyo sa iba? hwaw...

>> naks labs na labs mo pala misis mo... waw naman~ haha. iwas baril ba? XD

[tealike]

Guys, when you say to a girl you're sort of interested in , "Gosh, you're just like my mother," with a bemused smile on your face, is the girl automatically categorized to the 'friend zone' nalang. Meaning, you guys don't see a future with the girl who reminds you of your mother, right?

feeling ko hindi lang yan pambobola kundi mama's boy ang lalakeng magsasabi ng ganyan. red flag yan.

[unknown_SM]

Tanong -

Kunwari, si guy and girl nagkaka text, siste eh, si girl laging huling reply, tapos si guy di na reply. At ang relationship nila eh hindi platonic ha, hindi usual na magkaibigan lang, you know what I mean. Ano naiisip ng guys bakit di na kayo nagrereply? At anong naiisip ninyo pag iyong girl eh laging nasagot sa texts ninyo, YM or what have you?

Tenchew!

[redheart]

Anong ibig sabihin pag nagtanong kayong guys ng "Mature ba ako?". He just popped that question out of nowhere.

[Romanticure]

Tanong -

Kunwari, si guy and girl nagkaka text, siste eh, si girl laging huling reply, tapos si guy di na reply. At ang relationship nila eh hindi platonic ha, hindi usual na magkaibigan lang, you know what I mean. 1. Ano naiisip ng guys bakit di na kayo nagrereply? 2. At anong naiisip ninyo pag iyong girl eh laging nasagot sa texts ninyo, YM or what have you?

Tenchew!

1. baka may ginawa lang.
2. gusto rin nung girl makilala si guy.

[ka_deniz]

Tanong -

Kunwari, si guy and girl nagkaka text, siste eh, si girl laging huling reply, tapos si guy di na reply. At ang relationship nila eh hindi platonic ha, hindi usual na magkaibigan lang, you know what I mean. Ano naiisip ng guys bakit di na kayo nagrereply? At anong naiisip ninyo pag iyong girl eh laging nasagot sa texts ninyo, YM or what have you?

Tenchew!

yapos na yung convo. walang tanong na kailangan sagutin. walang hanging message.

[ka_deniz]

Anong ibig sabihin pag nagtanong kayong guys ng "Mature ba ako?". He just popped that question out of nowhere.

immature sya at naghahanap sya ng taong mnagsasabi otherwise.

[shadow_dancer]

No, I think it's the opposite.

binobola ka lang nun.

feeling ko hindi lang yan pambobola kundi mama's boy ang lalakeng magsasabi ng ganyan. red flag yan.

LOL, mejo na- confused ako sa various response. I was asking if the guy is no longer interested in a girl that reminds him of his mother. Is it actually a compliment or an indication that there is no chance he could see me as a potential gf, because horror of horrors, he does not need another mom in his life. Or is it actually a sort of good thing that he finds familial comfort in a girl that reminds him of his mom?

Still a little confused there. Oh well.

But yeah, the guy is spoiled ( i don't deny it) because he’s from a prominent and well-off family anyway and the mum really is a tiger mum who made sure her children excel in academics, sports, the arts (i.e. musically inclined and knows at least four languages), are cultured, well-travelled etc... Oh and he’s an investment banker now too. So even if he’s not interested in me romantically and binobola lang niya ako, at least I consider it sort of a compliment in being perceived to be a tiger mom. Thanks.

[ka_deniz]

ok, let me explain kung bakit binobola ka lang nun.

obviously, mama's boy. mama's boy lang ang lalaking, consciously mag compare ng babae sa nanay nya. may oedipal complex. red flag na yan. masyadong maraming issues yan and usually hindi nagtatagal ang relationships nyan, unless ikaw yung tipong babaeng magiging subservient sa kanya at nanay nya.

and the thing about mama's boys, they are great suitors, however they will tell you what you want to hear. and obviously huli ka nya kasi kinikilig ka pa habang tinatanong mo dito.

now, whether you really are like his mother or you only remind him of his mother, pambobola pa din yun. magaling nga eh.

so dapat di ka ma confuse. kompletuhin mo lang yung mga sinasabi namin.

[artemisX]

masyado ka sigurong cheerful na nahihiyang sumama sa yo ang isang taong may problema.baka pati ikaw maging malungkutin.malamang may iba pa syang friends na mas close sa kanya.

2 Ways: if he is close to his mom this is a good thing and a positive comment.

if he is not close to his mom then it is a bad comment.

Either way i think its a weak thing to say to a girl.

[F-A Soldier]

Depends on the voice he used. Here when someone say "You sound like my mom" or the sarcastic "Thanks mom!" he's either flirting or annoyed, either because you exhibited a domineering or bossy attitude.

[shadow_dancer]

ok, let me explain kung bakit binobola ka lang nun.
obviously, mama's boy. mama's boy lang ang lalaking, consciously mag compare ng babae sa nanay nya. may oedipal complex. red flag na yan. masyadong maraming issues yan and usually hindi nagtatagal ang relationships nyan, unless ikaw yung tipong babaeng magiging subservient sa kanya at nanay nya.
and the thing about mama's boys, they are great suitors, however they will tell you what you want to hear. and obviously huli ka nya kasi kinikilig ka pa habang tinatanong mo dito.
now, whether you really are like his mother or you only remind him of his mother, pambobola pa din yun. magaling nga eh.
so dapat di ka ma confuse. kompletuhin mo lang yung mga sinasabi namin.

LOL. Okay thanks ka deniz. Actually flattered nga ako pero di ko alam kung seseryosohin ko ba talaga. I think nga he might see his mum in me because I tend to spoil my guy friends by looking after them, cooking for them or being nagging at them regarding their health (reminding them to eat, go on a diet, take their meds) or being a kunsintadora on their vices and hobbies and choice of women. Hey that’s what I get for being a nurturing sister to a male-dominated household, though I am rather tomboyish as well.

2 Ways: if he is close to his mom this is a good thing and a positive comment.
if he is not close to his mom then it is a bad comment.
Either way i think its a weak thing to say to a girl.

He’s close to his mum. He treats her like a kabarkada. Or an older female colleague that he could charm or could joke around. No wonder one of the heads here who is near the age of his mum totally adores him because he knows how to turn on the charm. But yeah, that’s why I got confused if being compared to his mum is a good thing or a bad thing.

Depends on the voice he used. Here when someone say "You sound like my mom" or the sarcastic "Thanks mom!" he's either flirting or annoyed, either because you exhibited a domineering or bossy attitude.

He was bemused and was shaking his head, as if he couldn’t believe that there is another girl like his mother. He goes on to follow it up with, “Magkakasundo kayo ng mum ko.” So yeah indeed a spoiled brat who knows the right words to say to a girl. Thanks for the tip.

[IwantTObreathe]

Kunwari magkaaway kayo ng gf/asawa/ex niyo. Close kayo ng cousins mong girls, at syempre kampi sa inyo yun. Hahayaan niyo bang sumali sila sa away niyo at i-bash si girl?