am i falling for a tomboy?

[mynameisalexia]

I had a tomboy classmate/friend back in high school (Recently: Official H.S. Grad)

Since I went to an all-girls school, there were a lot of tomboys in our school. Although, I've never thought of having any "romantic relationship" with the same sex, and I don't actually like these bunch of tomboys in my school.

Among the toms, there was this one bird, who caught my attention. I became friends with her. He-She had a girlfriend when we became friends, I was kinda uncomfortable with their relationship. I tried to convinced her to change herself and be more like.. say.. a REAL GIRL. It never worked.

When they broke up, I actually though it was a SIGN that He-She will soon be a REAL WOMAN. I tried to help her to transform herself, we hang out very often. I even tried to set her up on a date with a real dude. Unfortunately, it didn't work.

He-She was really gentleman, she acts like as if she's a real dude. Several weeks later, I gave up on her. I lost hope.

I never realized that we're actually really close already. We text and call each other very often. We even went to bora just last week. And since I felt like I was comfortable with her already, I shared one bed with her (there was 4 people in our room with only 2 beds)

A lot of unexpected things happened during our vacay. She confessed to me. Although she never said she loves me, she said she LIKES me more than a friend. I was so shocked that I couldn't even answer her question "do you like me too?"

So when we got back to Manila, this question still bothers me. I don't know if I like her too, but I think I do? But I don't want to like her, it seems wrong to me.

I believe that there's no such thing as FOREVER in a same sex relationship.

[ttoy]

I had a tomboy classmate/friend back in high school (Recently: Official H.S. Grad)

Since I went to an all-girls school, there were a lot of tomboys in our school. Although, I've never thought of having any "romantic relationship" with the same sex, and I don't actually like these bunch of tomboys in my school.

Among the toms, there was this one bird, who caught my attention. I became friends with her. He-She had a girlfriend when we became friends, I was kinda uncomfortable with their relationship. I tried to convinced her to change herself and be more like.. say.. a REAL GIRL. It never worked.

When they broke up, I actually though it was a SIGN that He-She will soon be a REAL WOMAN. I tried to help her to transform herself, we hang out very often. I even tried to set her up on a date with a real dude. Unfortunately, it didn't work.

He-She was really gentleman, she acts like as if she's a real dude. Several weeks later, I gave up on her. I lost hope.

I never realized that we're actually really close already. We text and call each other very often. We even went to bora just last week. And since I felt like I was comfortable with her already, I shared one bed with her (there was 4 people in our room with only 2 beds)

A lot of unexpected things happened during our vacay. She confessed to me. Although she never said she loves me, she said she LIKES me more than a friend. I was so shocked that I couldn't even answer her question "do you like me too?"

So when we got back to Manila, this question still bothers me. I don't know if I like her too, but I think I do? But I don't want to like her, it seems wrong to me.

I believe that there's no such thing as FOREVER in a same sex relationship.

i am the real bird ... dito ka na lang samen hahaha






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[zid_08]

"how caaaan something so wroooong, feel so right all alooooong. Caaaatttcchh me, i'm falling for yoooouuu~"


nako, patay tayo diyan. follow what you think you should follow. baka naman kasi naging close lang kayo kaya feeling mo gusto mo din siya?

maybe you just have to wait. pagbukas ng sem na 'to at nagcollege ka na, nako! magsawa ka kakatingin sa madaming lalake diyan. if tingin mo, gusto mo parin siya, at siya dun gusto ka pa. tsaka ka na magassess ng bagay bagay.

[ttoy]

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baket tayo hinde naman tayo kLowze pero gusto natin ang isa't-isa hehehe


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[zid_08]

^ay! may ganon.

[ernmats]

parang nagtatanong ka TS na parang hindi mo alam ang sagot sa tanong mo pero alam mo naman ang sagot sa tanong mo...

[jssica_wabbit]

parang nagtatanong ka TS na parang hindi mo alam ang sagot sa tanong mo pero alam mo naman ang sagot sa tanong mo...

True that!

Another TS who wants to read confirmations of her own decision. Miss, type mo. Kasi if not, you wouldn't bother asking this question at all. Ikaw lang din isipin mong mabuti. Pompyang? Type mo? Nako hija! Masarap ang WANG!!!!!! Promise. Na try mo na ba? Try mo baka magbago isip mo.

[barelythere]

im quite positive that the feeling is mutual.why? because of this...

"I believe that there's no such thing as FOREVER in a same sex relationship"


the fact na gulo yung utak mo sa confession niya which made you create this dilemma thread,at yang pageentertain mo agad ng thought kung may future ba yung ganyang klase ng relationship is a crystal clear sign na you're considering her as your SO.

i say if she's making you happy then go for it.just don't forget your primary priorities,besides bata ka pa,wag masyado seryosohin.ang nakikita ko lang naman posibleng maging problema jan eh pag naapektuhan na yung studies mo and siyempre pag nalaman ng parents mo na malamang tututol yang mga yan...and you can't totally blame them if ever.

[ttoy]

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basta TS sa amin ka na lang na may tutuong BIRD talaga hahaha


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[Papichulo168]

TS, post ka nung pics niyo nung Bora vacay. I think it could help us give better advise.

[Mabuhey]

wag kang ma inlove sa tibo , mahihirapan ka lang.. minsan may mga tibo na sinasaktan gfs nila pag nakikipag break.. todo bantay ka pa at hindi ka pwede makipag friends sa mga boys ..

[youknowhatido]

I have girl friends back in high school na pumatol din sa mga tibo. Sobrang in love sila sa mga bfs/gfs nilang tibo to the point na they disobeyed their parents. Pero when they got in to college life na, and got more mature, they realized na being with "tibos" is not forever. They want to have their own family in the future, and hindi matutupad yun if papatol sila sa tibo. It's the fact na Girl + Girl is not equal to a baby.

Since bata ka pa naman, go for it muna. Just for fun, if gusto mo talaga sya. Pero eventually naman maghihiwalay din kayo at sa tunay na lalaki din ang bagsak mo.

Good Luck

[bobathai]

pwede naman mainlove sa tomboy (straight ako!! ). wala naman prob dun. kung ayaw mo makipagrelasyon sa isang tomboy, maybe you'll fall under MU. parang kayo pero hindi. maybe she's really a "gentleman", really sweet, caring and thoughtful na sana kung lalaki lang talaga sya ay masasagot mo sya.

if you think it's wrong to you, then you don't accept her as who she is. you only like certain traits about her but you don't accept who she really is.

[cura_cha]

Don't waste your time on a butch! Most are too serious in making themselves look like a guy (which is pathetic) and most are too demanding and over-protective! I don't really get it.
I'd rather spend time with a HOT looking bi. One that really looks like a girl. At least when you're together, people will just think you guys are 2 lovely women having a great time.

Seriously though, same sex relationships are kinda boring. Ayoko ng kiskisan ng scotchbrite! I want a man who can protect me, not a girl who will panic with me in times of trouble, I want a man who can make me feel like a goddess in bed, not a sleepover with another girl, I want a man who can complement my being a WOMAN and not be like me that it is suffocating already.

OH SORRY, to be on topic, yes I think you're falling for the butch, but really, maybe IT is the only person you see all the time. Go out and discover new shores!!!

[Nils]

TS, post ka nung pics niyo nung Bora vacay. I think it could help us give better advise.

+1

dapat laging may pics!

[Nelsito]

Baka kulang sa atensiyon ng guys si TS kaya nahuhulog loob sa tomboy.

[ernmats]

I had a tomboy classmate/friend back in high school (Recently: Official H.S. Grad)

Since I went to an all-girls school, there were a lot of tomboys in our school. Although, I've never thought of having any "romantic relationship" with the same sex, and I don't actually like these bunch of tomboys in my school.

Among the toms, there was this one bird, who caught my attention. I became friends with her. He-She had a girlfriend when we became friends, I was kinda uncomfortable with their relationship. I tried to convinced her to change herself and be more like.. say.. a REAL GIRL. It never worked.

When they broke up, I actually though it was a SIGN that He-She will soon be a REAL WOMAN. I tried to help her to transform herself, we hang out very often. I even tried to set her up on a date with a real dude. Unfortunately, it didn't work.

He-She was really gentleman, she acts like as if she's a real dude. Several weeks later, I gave up on her. I lost hope.

I never realized that we're actually really close already. We text and call each other very often. We even went to bora just last week. And since I felt like I was comfortable with her already, I shared one bed with her (there was 4 people in our room with only 2 beds)

A lot of unexpected things happened during our vacay. She confessed to me. Although she never said she loves me, she said she LIKES me more than a friend. I was so shocked that I couldn't even answer her question "do you like me too?"

So when we got back to Manila, this question still bothers me. I don't know if I like her too, but I think I do? But I don't want to like her, it seems wrong to me.

I believe that there's no such thing as FOREVER in a same sex relationship.

@TS there so many fish in the ocean... don't stick with the shokoys!!! Explore the wide ocean you will regret it..... ... kung bitin ka sa dagat pumunta ka sa ibang planeta maraming lalaki dun at ikaw lang nagiisang babae titingnan natin kung ganun pa rin magugustuhan mo?

[Ice Burn]

I just think you aren't exposed as much to guys yet which is why she's somewhat the next best thing to being with a guy.

It's a pretty common occurrence in all-girls schools. The butches are kinda the subs for guys. In fact yung mga ibang girls na pumapatol sa kanila are not necessarily lesbians...There are girls have crushes on the butches because they look and act like guys. Subs nga.

I went to an all girls school. I had girly hs classmates who had relationships with the butches of our school. It was common and nobody made too much of a big deal kapag nalaman na mag-on ang isang girly-girl and a butch. But it was a big deal kapag ang isang girl may boyfriend.

Anyway, those girly-girl classmates of mine who had relationships with butches, lo and behold, when they reached college, most of them dated guys. In fact most are now married with kids of their own. As for my butch classmates, they are still butches and have their girlfriends as well.

Unless you are going to an all girls university, you'll more than likely have a change of interest once you interact with your guy classmates later on.

[MaxDeepRed]

I approve of same-sex relationships only if it is limited to two hot females.

And after you are done with that phase in your life kids, be sure to take nothing but pictures and videos, and make the internet happy.