I had a tomboy classmate/friend back in high school (Recently: Official H.S. Grad)
Since I went to an all-girls school, there were a lot of tomboys in our school. Although, I've never thought of having any "romantic relationship" with the same sex, and I don't actually like these bunch of tomboys in my school.
Among the toms, there was this one bird, who caught my attention. I became friends with her. He-She had a girlfriend when we became friends, I was kinda uncomfortable with their relationship. I tried to convinced her to change herself and be more like.. say.. a REAL GIRL. It never worked.
When they broke up, I actually though it was a SIGN that He-She will soon be a REAL WOMAN. I tried to help her to transform herself, we hang out very often. I even tried to set her up on a date with a real dude. Unfortunately, it didn't work.
He-She was really gentleman, she acts like as if she's a real dude. Several weeks later, I gave up on her. I lost hope.
I never realized that we're actually really close already. We text and call each other very often. We even went to bora just last week. And since I felt like I was comfortable with her already, I shared one bed with her (there was 4 people in our room with only 2 beds)
A lot of unexpected things happened during our vacay. She confessed to me. Although she never said she loves me, she said she LIKES me more than a friend. I was so shocked that I couldn't even answer her question "do you like me too?"
So when we got back to Manila, this question still bothers me. I don't know if I like her too, but I think I do? But I don't want to like her, it seems wrong to me.
I believe that there's no such thing as FOREVER in a same sex relationship.