GUYS, any questions?? sasagutin naming mga girls...(Part Two)

[RationalAtheist]

How long should you befriend a girl and eventually asking her out to avoid being "friend zone"?

[carlene_613]

How long should you befriend a girl and eventually asking her out to avoid being "friend zone"?

sabi ng isang kapwa ko babae,

kapag siya daw kinaibigan na ng lalake, hindi na niya gugustuhin na pormahan pa siya nung lalake. in short, pag nasimulan na kaibigan, kaibigan forever. kung sakali raw pormahan siya nung kaibigan, iiwasan niya


sabi naman ni isang friend,

mas gusto niya na maging kaibigan muna ang isang lalake, para makilala at makapalagayang loob. saka niya titingnan kung magkakaron ng pagasa

samakatwid

iayon ang pagdiskarte sa babae sa kung anong ugali meron siya. kung talagang interesado kayo kay girlalu, alamin kung ano ba ang pananaw niya sa ganitong usapin. magtanong sa kanyang mga kaibigan o sa kanya mismo. ngayon, kung paano mo itatanong sa kanya , eh hingi ka ng payo sa mga kalalakihan, sila mas eksperto sa larangan na iyan

[whatthehey]

ano ba magandang brand ng pabango yung gusto niyo for guys? and why?

Kenneth Cole Black, Acqua di Gio Giorgio Armani, Chanel no 5 men, Bvlgari Blv. Lately yan gusto ko

Kungwari may nanliligaw sa inyo na guy, anong klaseng "effort" ang gusto niyo gawin ng guy para mafeel niyo na seryoso si guy?

Effort.. siguro if he goes an extra mile just to understand me, if he's really eager to know me a lot more you know my likes and dislikes, ofcourse yung hindi sya nagmamadali. Uy effort yon. Waiting. and i think yung gusto nya ako ihatid home kahit malayo ang bahay nya, i think thats effort.

How long should you befriend a girl and eventually asking her out to avoid being "friend zone"?

Oh dont befriend a girl. If you want her then go get her. unless naging friends muna kayo bago ka nadevelop.. Pero dont wait too long pag ganun yung case. Tell her to avoid being friend zoned forever and ever.

[beach_babe]

How long should you befriend a girl and eventually asking her out to avoid being "friend zone"?

ask her out na agad,wag mo nang kaibiganin pa

[jen_buga]

How long should you befriend a girl and eventually asking her out to avoid being "friend zone"?

you don't have to befriend when eventually you would wanna get out of the friend zone..i don't get the point

[RationalAtheist]

I'm guessing the proper term for "befriend" should "getting to know her"..

[neworld]

after 1 month pwede na yan goodluck RA

[freshbabe]

How long should you befriend a girl and eventually asking her out to avoid being "friend zone"?

sabi ng isang kapwa ko babae,

kapag siya daw kinaibigan na ng lalake, hindi na niya gugustuhin na pormahan pa siya nung lalake. in short, pag nasimulan na kaibigan, kaibigan forever. kung sakali raw pormahan siya nung kaibigan, iiwasan niya


sabi naman ni isang friend,

mas gusto niya na maging kaibigan muna ang isang lalake, para makilala at makapalagayang loob. saka niya titingnan kung magkakaron ng pagasa

samakatwid

iayon ang pagdiskarte sa babae sa kung anong ugali meron siya. kung talagang interesado kayo kay girlalu, alamin kung ano ba ang pananaw niya sa ganitong usapin. magtanong sa kanyang mga kaibigan o sa kanya mismo. ngayon, kung paano mo itatanong sa kanya , eh hingi ka ng payo sa mga kalalakihan, sila mas eksperto sa larangan na iyan

^^ RIGHT ANSWER.

-kung ako man nasa category #2 ako. Yung category #1 applies to me if di ko talaga type yung guy.

-A guy should really know kung kelan ang right timing para mag-damoobs hehe.. at mas okay pa rin maging "friends first" to get to know the girl muna. Around 2mos. siguro dun pwedeng mag-decide if popormahan na or stay in that level.

[jen_buga]

I'm guessing the proper term for "befriend" should "getting to know her"..

you can get to know more the person when you are in the relationship..most of the time pag ligawan pa lang pakitang tao ang drama..so along the course, you will get to know each other..
er ..
if you are to get to know naman, walang time frame for me..isang araw pa lang pwede mo nang malaman kung pang friend zone ka lang o hindi e

[freshbabe]

you can get to know more the person when you are in the relationship..most of the time pag ligawan pa lang pakitang tao ang drama..so along the course, you will get to know each other..
er ..
if you are to get to know naman, walang time frame for me..isang araw pa lang pwede mo nang malaman kung pang friend zone ka lang o hindi e

^^BOYFRIEND AGAD-AGAD?! hehe.... So girl walang getting to know stage, commitment agad??

[jtansanco]

Effort.. siguro if he goes an extra mile just to understand me, if he's really eager to know me a lot more you know my likes and dislikes, ofcourse yung hindi sya nagmamadali. Uy effort yon. Waiting. and i think yung gusto nya ako ihatid home kahit malayo ang bahay nya, i think thats effort.

Ahh... So kungwari ihatid kita pabalik na US, may chance nako? Haha joke.

Kidding aside, I guess yung problem ko is minsan nagmamadali ako. Nagiging fast-forward and medyo sinasakal ko siya sa sobrang kakulitan ko. Guess I really have to turn on the brakes next time. Thanks!

[jen_buga]

^^BOYFRIEND AGAD-AGAD?! hehe.... So girl walang getting to know stage, commitment agad??

im talking about in depth sorry
may getting to know stage na maiksi, usually pag gusto mo naman ang guy ang getting to know stage is just an addition to the kilig, kumbaga sa noodles sabaw lang yan

[greenandpink]

How long should you befriend a girl and eventually asking her out to avoid being "friend zone"?

I don't really understand being friend zoned. kasi nadadama ko agad if the guy is just being friendly or may gusto sa akin. wala nang chance para 'barkadahin' niya ko.

also meeting new guys, if hindi kita type off bat, friend-labelled ka na. well that's me.

[neworld]

bakit ganon, may mga babae n kilala ko sa fashion,showbiz,relationship topics lang nabubuhayan/nagshe-share... pero pag dating sa ibang bagay parang wala ng alam? bakit ganito mga babae ngayon? pano na pag nag asawa...parang ang babaw?(sorry ha) what can you say PEX girls..

[greenandpink]

^ well ganyan na talaga mga tao ngayon. blame it on the media and technology. also how the parents of those girls raised them.

baka wrong venue ka lang in meeting girls. meron pa rin naman diyan with good heads on their shoulders.

[bdm1211]

do things you think that would make the girl feel special. and do those things na bukal sa loob hindi yung dahil naiisip mong maiimpress ang girl kapag ginawa mo yun.

sincerity and spend time with her --- yun ang sa tingin kong importante sa stage na ganyan. di naman kelangan ng maraming regalo para masabing seryoso ka.

kahit ba sa una pa lang eh di mu type yung guy uubra pa rin ba yung effort na to?

[bdm1211]

For me, quality time and thoughtfulness matters. Big factor sa akin kung magpapakilala din sya sa family and friends ko, even sa family and friends nya. kasi if ever maging kami, may time na kelangan din na makasama namin sila.

But this is the rule, these efforts should be continually done when you're an "item" already. most of the time kasi guys tend to tone down kapag naging girlfriend na nila.

kahit ba sa una pa lang eh di mu type yung guy uubra pa rin ba yung effort na to?

[greenandpink]

kahit ba sa una pa lang eh di mu type yung guy uubra pa rin ba yung effort na to?

hindi ko na siya paeeffortin. kung di ko sya type. that would be a waste of both our time.

[jen_buga]

bakit ganon, may mga babae n kilala ko sa fashion,showbiz,relationship topics lang nabubuhayan/nagshe-share... pero pag dating sa ibang bagay parang wala ng alam? bakit ganito mga babae ngayon? pano na pag nag asawa...parang ang babaw?(sorry ha) what can you say PEX girls..

depends on how your were raised..siguro kung ipinanganak kang may ginintuang kutsara sa bibig natural puro ganun nalang ang alam..so if you don't experience say being responsible while being young, pagdating mo sa stage na mag aasawa ka na, mangangapa ka talaga..

besides, sa tingin ko naman hindi naman siguro lahat..it's just that when you are single you focus more on yourself, syempre nga naman walang kang iniintinding familya di ba? why would you even bother to talk about raising a kid when you dont have a kid anyway? masyado namang pa advance..i mean every phase in life is a cycle, so take it slowly..when you get to the bridge, that's how you learn your ways

[enaej426]

How long should you befriend a girl and eventually asking her out to avoid being "friend zone"?

It depends .... as long as you see that you enjoy each others company na hindi ka mao-awkward sa paghang-out with her. We like friendship first , mas magandang dun magstart , from there nga you can easily tell kung like ka ng girl o hindi . Samahan mo ng sweetness o extra effort ang pagbe-befriend mo sa kanya , yung sakto lang. Wag naman yung parang one of the boys kind of friendship but yung tipong you'll let her feel na babae siya pag magkasama kayo if even with friends or if kayo lang . Yung tipong you would treat her as you would treat other girl friends of yours . Now kung nakikita mong comfortable na kayo sa isa't-isa at good buddies na kayo , maging sensitive ka na sa bawat actions niya , kung ang treatment niya sa yo eh me extra caring or sweetness , those are signals na me puwesto ka na sa isip niya. Be careful lang in reading signals from us girls , wag masyadong excited pag positive na ang nakikita mo , tapatan mo lang kung ano yung pinapakita niya , ok na yun , and let both you and her feeling grow as your friendship flourish to the next level.
Kaya Wala talagang time frame kung kelan.
Yun Lang .