Paano ba Pakapalin ang mukha

[lancealmekian]

haha, ako 24 na, NGSB, mga 3 beses na rin nabasted...

i think i've been rejected all too many times kaya ayaw ko na... naisip ko na ngang magpalit nang market eh, baka hindi na ako mareject

kidding aside, hanggang ngayon, lalo na ngayon, after strike three, parang lalo akong nanliliit at hindi ko alam ang gagawin... parati kasi nila sinasabi sa akin, masyado akong mabait para sa kanila... i'm too good for them... good boy daw ako... hindi ba un ang hanap ng mga babae? gusto ba nila binabastos sila? angsty ba?

anyway, same problem kay TS... though on my part, pakiramdam ko naubos na guts ko... saan ba nakakabili nun?

i can coach you. you don't get laid, i don't get paid.

search mo na lang sa forums ym id ko.

[i_bleed_blue]

i can coach you. you don't get laid, i don't get paid.

search mo na lang sa forums ym id ko.

thanks, but no thanks... getting laid is not my point...

[lancealmekian]

getting laid makes a romantic relationship official. it is the crescendo, the point at which ALL relationships officially start. it is the means to your end, not an end itself.

the reason why you're an NGSB is you don't change the way you see things. then again you don't know any better. can't really blame ourself now can we?

consider this reply to your post a recalling of my previous offer.

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i_bleed_blue:

c'mon. just for fun, why dont you take some 'flying lessons'. it might change the way you look at things.

lance, discount kasi. baka mahal ang coaching. hehehe

[invi]

Ako gusto ko magpa-coaching. Kaya lang wala ako pambayad. Pwede ba 4-gives?

[lancealmekian]

i_bleed_blue:

c'mon. just for fun, why dont you take some 'flying lessons'. it might change the way you look at things.

lance, discount kasi. baka mahal ang coaching. hehehe

i've done it pro bono before. depende sa kliyente hehe.

Ako gusto ko magpa-coaching. Kaya lang wala ako pambayad. Pwede ba 4-gives?

cute cute mo.

[i_bleed_blue]

getting laid makes a romantic relationship official. it is the crescendo, the point at which ALL relationships officially start.

ganun na ba talaga ngayon? call me old-school, pero parang hindi ako comfortable sa ganung set-up...

[hardylaine]

TS,pagulpi ka na lang sa akin.. kakapal mukha mo..
tara, try mo.. hahahaha...

[lancealmekian]

ganun na ba talaga ngayon? call me old-school, pero parang hindi ako comfortable sa ganung set-up...

this is how it has always been, most people nowadays are just too naive because they have been programmed from childhood to adulthood to believe in bullshit like love at first sight, soulmates, romance, falling in love, forever et cetera., which are all hollywood gimmicks, nothing more.

let me ask you this: what do you call a person who does the SAME thing over and over expecting there'll be a DIFFERENT outcome after each time he does it? i don't know about the morons here in pex, but i think it's logical to say that, that person is stupid. uhm, engot sa tagalog.

i'd show you how my frame of mind works but i've already recalled my offer. google mo na lang attracting women. i refuse to help people who wouldn't help themselves.

[i_bleed_blue]

this is how it has always been, most people nowadays are just too naive because they have been programmed from childhood to adulthood to believe in bullshit like love at first sight, soulmates, romance, falling in love, forever et cetera., which are all hollywood gimmicks, nothing more.

let me ask you this: what do you call a person who does the SAME thing over and over expecting there'll be a DIFFERENT outcome after each time he does it? i don't know about the morons here in pex, but i think it's logical to say that, that person is stupid. uhm, engot sa tagalog.

i'd show you how my frame of mind works but i've already recalled my offer. google mo na lang attracting women. i refuse to help people who wouldn't help themselves.

well i dont believe in love at first sight, soulmates, romance, and falling in love... but i do believe in forever...

about your offer, again, thanks but no thanks... my only problem really is this fear of rejection... having been an achiever for most of my life, being rejected thrice is too much a blow to my ego and has crushed my confidence to bits... specially since they reject me for being "too mabait", which i think is a trait ive worked really hard to maintain... wala na bang babae ngayon na aalagaan ang sarili until she gets married? wala na bang babae ngayon na gustong ang unang relasyon nila ay ang huli na rin?

and this goes beyond romantic relationships... kahit new friendships, hirap ako to establish kasi takot akong ireject ang friendship ko... lahat ng friends ko ngayon, sila *** unang nag-approach sa akin...

ok, now i feel like im such a loser...

[lancealmekian]

that's called social anxiety disorder (and i've had that before too -- i practically went through a self-initiated psycho-emotional-behavioral overhaul more than half a decade ago). you're not alone. go to the ffs boards, there's a thread there about that. can't be certain if posts there could help you but you may as well try.

and as i said, i have recalled the offer. sorry but you'll have to go through stuff on your own now.

[i_bleed_blue]

that's called social anxiety disorder (and i've had that before too -- i practically went through a self-initiated psycho-emotional-behavioral overhaul more than half a decade ago). you're not alone. go to the ffs boards, there's a thread there about that. can't be certain if posts there could help you but you may as well try.

and as i said, i have recalled the offer. sorry but you'll have to go through stuff on your own now.

ok, thanks... i think i can help myself...

[yakumochan13]

wala po bang place dito sa philippines where we can train our social communication? may social anxiety din kasi ako