R u gonna stay w/ the one who loves you? or w/ the one you love?

[cleng_q5]

I'm really confused! I'm inlove with somebody right now but he doesn't give me enough security the way he
loves me....At the same time there is this guy who loves me so much butmI'm not sure if I love him as much as he loves me...
Pls. I need your help! I need to come up with one definite decision asap!

[Lord_Voldemort]

you should stay with the one you love. if you choose the one who loves you, parang sigurista ang labas mo. if you really love the person you should stick with him. maybe he's just not that showy of his affections, some guys are.

[incognito_15]

i totally agree with Lord_Voldemort. you should stay with the one you love 'coz settling with someone you don't love would only cause much hurt not only to the person who loves you but also to yourself...

ope you'll be able to solve your problem soon... take care!

[w e h (",)]

you should stay with the one you love kc if you choose the one who loves you you're not only being unfair to the person but you're also being untrue to yourself.in loving naman ksi you shouldn't expect anything in return coz if you are that isn't really loving.i know its hard lalo na when you feel na your love is much greater than that of the other person but that's whats so great in loving coz despite the fact that your love isn't reciprocated fully and that you hurt a lot u still continue to love unconditionally.

if you choose the one who loves you kasi there's this big possibility na maging panakip butas lang siya.pwede rin na while you're with this person you're imagining na you're with the one you love and the one you love is the one who's making you feel so loved....basta parang ganon its kinda hard to explain...

based from experience....i chose the one i love though i know that the other person loves me so much.it didnt feel right kasi i always felt guilty for not feeling the same way and minsan i get the feeling na naabuse ko na yung pagmamahal nya.something like that....

pero sympre its all up to you basta all i'm saying is that i never regretted and i never will regret the time i chose the one i love and though it may hurt it was all worth it

hope i helped you out somehow!good luck!listen to your heart

[sniper0098]

i think you should wait for the guy whom u love and will love u back! bacause the 2 options that you are trying to choose from is a win-loose situation. if you choose the person you love and doesn't loves you back, odds are you mights end up hurting urself and look like a jerk. on the other hand, if u pick the one who loves you nd you don't love him...you might end up hurting him.

just wait for the person who will put you in a win-win situation and that is both of you feel the same way for each other!

remember: life is too short to be wasted on the wrong person!

gud luck!!!!!!

[anwarlorenzo]

syempre to the one you love

[gladys]

the one you love syempre! can you really imagine staying with someone you don't really love but who loves you dearly? it's sooo selfish!

[winterswirl]

i'll stay with...
the one i love...

[crazy_fool_22]

Originally posted by cleng_q5
I'm really confused! I'm inlove with somebody right now but he doesn't give me enough security the way he
loves me....At the same time there is this guy who loves me so much butmI'm not sure if I love him as much as he loves me...

uhmm.... i see myself very much in you.... but even though its kinda hurting inside and masakit sa ulong isipin, i'll stay with the one i love rather than the one who loves me.. Kasi, when you are with the one who loves you, you're not happy and you're just fooling yourself and fooling the person too.... mahirap na, baka makarma ka pa..
atleast, staying with the one you love, although you are uncertain with the security thing, you are happy and atleast you know na wala kang niloloko coz you are true to yourself and sa kanya... (yun nga lang we look stupid infront of everybody...)
hai....... ang tao nga naman kapag inluv....

[sweet_taz]

if i were to choose... i'd stay with the one who loves me... mahirap kasi *** i'll stay with the one i love pro i'm really quite sure kng baka bkas ndi na nya ako love... it would drive you crazy girl...believe me...this is speaking from experience... it's wonderful na *** love mo love ka rin pro kng insecure ka sa pagmamahal nung guy na love mo... it would be better not to hope/wish kasi masakit malaman na one day sbra ka nyang mahal na sinasabi nya he can't live without you kaya papakasalan ka na daw nya but the next day or a few weeks after, treat you like you don't exist... it really sucks...