Is it Ok to steal someone else's partner? (gf/bf/wife/husband/mistress/mister/lover)

[vincex]

Let's face it.

Finding partners is like a sale in the store. Usually, the better ones are taken first, and the leftovers are left to the rest.

Assuming that some people:
1. have high standards, ergo such individual is probably "occupied".
2. feel that somebody else's partner is more appropriate for him/her,

wouldn't it be more prudent to woo/sulot the subject from his/her existing partner?

There are a lot of social/evolutionary hindrances to this kind of activity but the reality is, the good ones are usually taken first.

Are we content to feast on the leftovers?
Do we wait for them to become "unoccupied"?

I'd just like to hear what people here have to say.

[lancealmekian]

i'm with you. the best ones are almost always taken. steal ftw. all's fair in love and war.

exception lang is pag friend ko yung guy. i'll never steal a friend's girl.

[siyado]

define stealing?

pag kinindatan lang ng lalaki yung babae tapos sumama yung babae, hindi stealing yun

as for me personally though, i'll never try to 'steal' a woman from her man.

[baklita]

gusto mo rin gagawin sa iyo?

aihihihi!!!

baklits

[lancealmekian]

^others are welcome to try.

[vincex]

^ I concur. Regarding the friends... I will have to digress with you on that. I even had friends who were "stealing" my ex hehehe but they were welcome to try as well. I actually encouraged her to go out with them and I made it very clear that

1. people are individuals and don't own each other.
2. if you were smart, you wouldn't be exclusive (limit yourself). Ergo....

[lancealmekian]

^hindi friends mga yun chodes hehe

[intsik siomai]

Sabagay, if you wait for a break-up, it's gonna take forever. I think the ones who feel guilty with this is not the nagsusulot, but the one in a "committed" relationship.

I cheated on a bf once, and I felt guilty since my bf was nice and faithful... But on 2nd thought, I don't regret "cheating" because the relationship with the nangsusulot guy was also a "nice one while it lasted".

What's nice with cheating is you can appreciate what you've had all along more, what's not nice is you are also reminded of what your bf doesn't have or will never have...if you can live that...ulk!

[darmonx]

"If you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it".

Kung walang sing sing... eh di mag lasing!

"All lasengga ladies" x2.


Bf/gf is bs... with the exceptions already mentioned.

[lancealmekian]

syempre naman. asawa nga nasusulot pa eh. ano ba naman bf/gf?

[adiposethoughts]

"If you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it".

Kung walang sing sing... eh di mag lasing!

♫"All lasengga ladies" x2.♫


Bf/gf is bs... with the exceptions already mentioned.

haha. winner!!

[invi]

Ingat lang sa karma.

[adiposethoughts]

Let's face it.

Finding partners is like a sale in the store. Usually, the better ones are taken first, and the leftovers are left to the rest.

hindi totoo yan. yung ibang taken agad, those are the ones who just settled. kaya may rason kung bakit tinawag na 'settling down'.

the leftovers you're talking about either, 1) know what's their worth and they don't want to settle; 2) wala lang talagang nagkakagusto sa kanila.

pero kahit na sa taong walang nagkakagusto, madalas makahanap lang ng partner na may gusto sa kanila, gusto na din nila... thus, nagiging 'taken' na din sila. but hindi ibig sabihin nun they're the 'better ones'.


nagiging mas kabigha-bighani lang ang mga 'taken' na kasi taken na sila eh. kung ano ang bawal, kung anong hindi pwede, siyang gusto.

tignan mo na lang may ibang mga tao na kung kelan nagkaron sila ng karelasyon parang mas naging 'yummy' sila. there are even some instances that ones who are not in a relationship, parang feeling ng taong nakakakita from a 3rd pov, parang di ganon 'kasarap' aka ka-desirable. and the ones who are within a relationship not so much regarding who they really are, they're the ones desired. dahil... paanong nasa isang relasyon sila at may nakikisama sa kanila kung walang magandang bagay na meron sila para mag-stick dun yung tao, di ba?

[lancealmekian]

^ oh you're back. welcome!

tignan mo na lang may ibang mga tao na kung kelan nagkaron sila ng karelasyon parang mas naging 'yummy' sila. there are even some instances that ones who are not in a relationship, parang feeling ng taong nakakakita from a 3rd pov, parang di ganon 'kasarap' aka ka-desirable. and the ones who are within a relationship not so much regarding who they really are, they're the ones desired. dahil... paanong nasa isang relasyon sila at may nakikisama sa kanila kung walang magandang bagay na meron sila para mag-stick dun yung tao, di ba?

ahhhhh. the preselection switch. classic.

Ingat lang sa karma.

at para kanino naman to? karma is bull.

[ayaraine]

idealistic ako eh, so i still do believe in the sanctity of marriage, so if kasal na, hands off na dapat. but then, that's just me. however, i won't have any problems if the person na married pa eh divorced or annulled or widowed na, basta wala na yung other half...

as for my logical reasoning naman, no pa rin, kasi, if nasulot ng isang tao yung isa pa (whether bf/gf/asawa/lover/etc), it means na yung taong nasulot can be easily swayed by panunulot ng iba. if naiwan niya ang patner niya for you, chances are pag may ibang dumating na magaling din sa sweet-talk etc., pwede rin siya masulot from you...

[invi]

What if it's the other way around? Is it okay to look for someone else when you are attached?

[lancealmekian]

^eh kung gumagawa ka kaya ng bagong thread at hindi hina-hijack tong thread ni vincex?

[fraudsterilike]

People are not property, but if someone did manage to "steal" a husband, wife, bf, gf, etc... for me it just means the husband, wife, bf, gf, etc wants it to happen. Your partner was "Ok" with it.

Kung may rape with consent, meron din theft with consent.

[lancealmekian]

^ touche.

uhmmm do i know you?

[invi]

^eh kung gumagawa ka kaya ng bagong thread at hindi hina-hijack tong thread ni vincex?

LOL. Kontra nanaman si lancey. Nagtatanong lang naman. Hey, na-miss kita.