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    Long Distance Relationship Stories

    I just wanna hear your stories with regard to your long distance relationship. Like how ofter do you communicate? nanlamig ba relasyon nyo? namiss nyo ba lalo isa't isa? may mga na relize ka ba habang magkalayo kayo? sana you can share your stories kung ano naging resulta ng LDR nyo.

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    I am an OFW for quite some time..

    I communicate with my wife thru email, phone calls and sometimes text..

    nanlamig? after 18 years of marriage pag nakabakasyon ako ay parang honeymoon stage pa rin...hahaha

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    ayos yan welscua ah

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    ours started na two blocks away lang ang layo namin sa isa't isa then naging 40 mins then nag 4 hrs tapos ngayon different state na. We communicate thru phone and email. Now na deployed sya puro email lang minsan down pa ang connection nila kaya di narereceived yung email. Nakakaannoy pero nasasanay na rin so la na problema. We used to see each other na twice a year lang. Pero we always think na me mas worst pa sa situation namin. And yes, lalong nakakamiss pag di masyado nagkikita. There's something to look forward to. Tapos ang mga tampuhan di tumatagal kasi we just want to be ok and happy! We are almost 7years together and engaged to be married.

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    Quote Originally Posted by illeGal View Post
    ours started na two blocks away lang ang layo namin sa isa't isa then naging 40 mins then nag 4 hrs tapos ngayon different state na. We communicate thru phone and email. Now na deployed sya puro email lang minsan down pa ang connection nila kaya di narereceived yung email. Nakakaannoy pero nasasanay na rin so la na problema. We used to see each other na twice a year lang. Pero we always think na me mas worst pa sa situation namin. And yes, lalong nakakamiss pag di masyado nagkikita. There's something to look forward to. Tapos ang mga tampuhan di tumatagal kasi we just want to be ok and happy! We are almost 7years together and engaged to be married.

    great story, sana lahat ng couples ganyan...lapitin ba ng tukso pag magkalayo kayo?how do you handle it?

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    we didnt really have that kind of problem. our communication is very much open and we are very committed with each other. ano ba ang mga tukso? like other girls for him and other guys naman for me? I think kung gusto mo namang magpatukso lalapit talaga yun sa iyo. For us wala. He can never find another me as i will not find another one like him.

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    well as long as open yung communication at very much committed sa isa't isa makakayanan yung ldr, kaso more than a year lang kami nakatagal ng ex gf ko, sana yung iba makayanan yung situation nila, yun nga lang kakainggit when i hear a succesful ldr.

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    when we're still in college, sa manila siya nag aral and I studied in mindanao. through text and tawag lang, not everyday kasi busy siya adn so am I.. twice a year lang kami magkita and when he got job sa ibang city naman siya nagwork ,ngayon once a year lang kami nagkikta .. Pero ok lang naman, for 5 years sanay na ako and everytime we meet parang iba yung feeling, nakaka excite...hehe..

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    seni seviyorum OCEANNE's Avatar
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    I'm in an LDR as well. Actually, this is my second after a painful one. Based on my experience, communication, in any way that you both can, is a major key. If given na in-love talaga kayo sa isa't-isa, you will do anything within your power to take care of that relationship and inspire each other to hold on and hope. The distance is just the circumstance that you just happen to be in and it's not the whole relationship so you both always have the choice and the last say whether to be on it or not. If there's a way to cut the distance, then why keep it that way? But if, for a moment, you need to, then just be stronger for each other and just think about the future that you won't have to be away anymore. Sa aming dalawa, actually, ako yung palaging na de-depress due to the distance and he would always cheer me up and make me feel na we have better days in store for us. Yun na lang din ang pinag-huhugutan ko ng lakas ng loob. I love him so much talaga....

    Kanina lang I wrote a blog entry just out of terribly missing him... I know when he gets to read it, he'll feel so touched again because he really loves it when I write...he loves it when I do what I'm passionate about...lalo na when it's about him. So I think it's also good to really write to each other. Send something he/she can always look forward to read and re-read when he's/she's down.

    Let us all be string guys....

    Here's my blog, to at least share what's more between us...

    From my Island to your Mountain

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    Im in an LDR too..we are separated by oceans, 7hrs difference.it sucks eh? but the thing is, we always communicate with each other.either by chat, email, phone call, SMS and even snail mail.iba kasi *** old style letter,may kilig factor at hindi puro technology.sometimes, nakakasira rin ng ulo *** gusto kong mayakap siya, mka holding hands but i just cant.have to wait till we see each other again..but guess what? we can manage really well getting stronger on our 2 years, 2 mos relationship and still counting

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    I also belong to this club.. LDR for 8yrs and still counting. lol. we are bf/gf almost 11 years now. Long distance relationship works if both parties work to make the relationship work. I admit it's not a walk in the park. dami naming trials pinagdaanan. may time na busy yong isa tpos paranoid yong isa. dumating din kami sa point na nghiwalay.. it was brief.. i initiated the breakup. that time kasi sobrang sanay na ako na *** siya. parang *** na akong naramdaman. yon pala i built the wall a little bit thicker than what is necessary. defense-mechanism ko kasi yon *** hindi malamon ng longingness to be with him. He never gave up on me. Ako naman I realized my kalokahan.. we love each other now more than ever.. parang bago lang kaming bf/gf. kaya natin to!

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    LDR works only when both parties aim for the same goal; and fights all that may try to stop them from reaching said goal.

    Been through an LDR, and it failed. Love was not enough.

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    We were both still in college when we became textmates for 7 months, and napasagot ako sa kanya kahit na hindi pa kami nagkikita personally! :P It had a lot to do with our willingness to make our relationship work no matter what, and most importantly the quality and quantity of communication. 6 months pa after naging kami, dun pa lang kami nagkita. We only get to be with each other 3-4 months in a year kasi seaman siya.

    The first year was definitely the hardest, considering the adjustments sa mga ugali namin kasama na yung obligation nya sa work nya. We didn't see each other for 1 year after our first 3 months together dahil sa apprenticeship niya on-board (1 year kasi ang contract). The next 4 years naman, 9 months or 6 months nalang ang contract nya, and still 3-4 months lang kami nagkakasama talaga for each year. Nasanay na kami pareho sa set-up namin, but of course we're definitely not planning for this set-up to be a permanent thing. We're both saving up para we can just venture into business para magkasama na kami palagi. Sobrang hirap at pangit din daw kasi tumanda sa barko.

    After the very long wait, we finally got married last year. We've come a long way from being just textmates! It's amazing what two people can accomplish if both of you have the same goals and are truly loving each other in the process.

    Going through an LDR is truly a unique experience, very challenging, but requires 100% commitment from both parties to make it work. It's truly a test of true love! With this, I'm leaving everyone with this quote that people like us can personally truly testify to:

    "Love knows no depth until the hour of separation." - Kahlil Gibran

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    seni seviyorum OCEANNE's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by babekulet View Post
    LDR works only when both parties aim for the same goal; and fights all that may try to stop them from reaching said goal.

    Been through an LDR, and it failed. Love was not enough.
    Hi babekulet!!! It's nice to hear from you again....

  15. #15
    Long distance relationships are hard to manage.


    Laguna to manila nga lang kami eh, hindi pa nya kinaya.



    It takes a lot of maturity to make this kind of relationship survive..

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    kami rin long distance relationship. pag gusto ko siyang makausap at
    makasama... dudungaw ako sa bintana at isambit ngalan niya. ayos!

    aihihihi!!!

    baklits


  17. #17
    LDR doesn't really work..i've been there..

    When I migrated to USA..i didnt break up with my bf not until after 2 years of being a thousand miles away from each other..The first year was okay. I tried myself to be faithful at him by not going out because i know that once im out..hella temptations will be buggin' at me. We tried to communicate in some way every day, more than once if possible but the interaction over the phone became dull in the long run. There's DRAMA all the time..jealousy and ********. So i began hanging out with friends..until i met another guy. The break up was too hard for him to accept.

    When you start a long distance relationship, you must be realistic of the difficulties ahead. so goodluck..

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    *cough*slut*cough*

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    it will work if both of you are willing to do anything and everything to make it work!

    since we became bf/gf (2002) and before we got married (2004) we only see each other 2x a month and weekends lang. Sometimes I visit him and stay for 1 month. At first ok lang because within asia lang siya, but when he went to the US naging 1 1/2 months ang uwi nya.. sometimes 2 pa. So we maximize the internet by using skype, ym, msn and this was during the "dial up connection" era so ang bagal ng connection malabo ang voice but patience lang talaga. When we got married ayun it felt weird sabi ko pa mas sanay ako na LDR kesa magkasama! hahahaha!

    Basta gusto madaming paraan!

  20. #20
    Can I share my story din dito? My gf kasi just left for Canada last night and dun muna siya magwowork for a while. Di ko siya pinigilan kasi alam kong gusto niya rin magwork abroad at para din naman sa future niya yun diba? Kaya andito lang ako supporting her all the way. I miss her na and first time talagang mangyayari to after 3 years + kaming magkasama. Super sinulit ko na lang yung last few days namin together. Sumali pa nga ako sa Love Inasal promo ng Mang Inasal para makakuha ako nung limited edition couple shirts nila. Tag-iisa kami so at least we have a piece of each other. May ginawa din akong blog for her na parang countdown to the day she left which was last night. I super miss her pero naniniwala ako na we'll make it. For now, long distance relationship muna kami. If you have tips or insight tungkol sa mga ganitong situations, let me know.

    Sa mga gustong magbasa ng blog ko, eto yung link: http://bit.ly/hYwVx2

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