Breakup Stories: How did your last one happen?

[primera_clase]

Actually my feelings are fading, but I do miss him (for the reason that I don't know)..

[Imen]

I was in a relationship with this guy nitong december lang. We were very happy sobrang inlove sa isa't isa. Then he had to go to the province kasi his lolo passed away dun ibuburol.

When he got back I noticed medyo cold na sya halata ko talaga na may nagbago. I talked to him about it syempre dineny nya na may problema.

One night we got into a fight after nun wala nako narinig sa kanya di na nyako tinext. I remember calling all his 3 cellnumbers nagmakaawa ako na kausapin nyako pagusapan namin to pero wala walang reply.


So I tried to move on with my life. After some time I received a text message from him.. apologizing for what happened.

Inexplain nya sakin yung nangyari kahit di naman ako humihingi ng explanation. Apparently there's this girl na nagtetext sa kanya sinasabi na buntis at sya ang ama. It was her former fling (it happened before naging kami something like that i dont know). He didnt know how to deal with it daw kaysa naman daw sa magalit ako lumayo na lang daw sya.

Tanging nasabi ko na lang sa kanya kung inexplain lang nya sakin yung nangyari maiintindihan ko naman saka kami magtablahan kung talagang desidido sya panagutan yung babae kaysa naman sa iniwan nyako sa ere na ganun ganun lang.Natameme sya sa sinabi ko.

After nun naging friends kami friends na lang talaga text text ganyan minsan nagkikita kasi nasa isang group lang kami. We both moved on from what happened we never talked about it again.

Tapos lately di na kami masyado nagkikita e nabalitaan ko na lang from a friend na namatay yung baby na pinagbubuntis nung ex nya. I felt sad for him dapat kakausapin ko siya about it pero para saan pa? Pinagdasal ko na lang yung bata kahit siya yung rason kung bakit kami naghiwalay.

[Kitten_27]

Bad break-up because of my ex. But then, I am so thankful na nalaman ko ang kasinungalingan niya kahit after 5 years ng relationship namin. Now I know he's not worth it.

[quinone]

Thanks sa mga advice.

Actually I'm trying to be ok na and focuses on something to make me busy. Kaya lang yesterday evening will browsing FB, nagulat ako kasi nagchat yung mama nya sakin. Nangangamusta lang at tinatanong kung kelan ako pupunta ulit sa kanila. Hindi nya pala alam na nagbreak na kami. I just said, hindi na po ako makakapunta sa inyo eh. Nalaman nya agad na nagaway kami, she suggested me to talk to her son, kasi ganon lang daw talaga ugali nun kahit sa kanya, pero hindi ko alam gagawin ko.

Ang t@nga ko talaga.

pabayaan mo na yang mama nung ex mo. i guess siguro nakita niya na mabait ka, kaya gusto ka niya para sa anak niya. move-on na. maglaro ka ng online games, baka sakali makalimutan mo yang mokong na yan!

[fit_and_right]

Actually my feelings are fading, but I do miss him (for the reason that I don't know)..

same issue....do you think the cold weather condition adds on?

[mayonnaise]

MY LAST break-up was a few days ago. she came back from a retreat in tagaytay and had someone drop-off some saging na senorita and pineapple. others would think it's a sweet gesture but i found it alarming. we've only been dating for two months. so i sent her a text message saying that we can't see eachother anymore because i don't like where things are going. she replied with a winner. "normally i would be pissed but i've just been to a retreat and i feel good. ta ta." i felt relieved after that. that's one less chick i didn't hurt in my pursuit.

[compass42]

Breaking up is much painful than death. For the first few days, few weeks, few months, it feels like dying every second of it. I've lost so much tears. I lived a life of a zombie, dead yet still alive.

For the past 3 years, my life revolved around her. I did every single thing to show my love and affection. I gave up a lot of things, even my dignity and pride. These 3 years perhaps is the best relationship I've ever had yet it the most painful as well.

During the break up, she hugged me while crying. I hugged her back and kissed her on the cheek. She then told me that its not working. I became blunt and for a moment I'm lost. I asked her if she still loves me. She refused to answer. I told myself then, I will not show her a single tear. I've sacrificed my pride a lot of times so its about time for me to have it back. I told her, "go ahead. I don't care a sh*t." but inside, it hurts like hell. We've been living together for so long. My life was dull without her in it but this time, I have to accept it. Its done. Looking back, I saw it coming. Every time I kissed her, there was hesitation in her. Every time I hug her, she pushes me back at times. She even tells her company that she's not in a relationship. When I tell her I love her, she just smiles back. I don't know why it ended this way. Perhaps I've given more than what I'm capable of giving. I loved her more than myself. And she admits that. I devoted my life for her. I guess this made mo boring. If that's the case, should I have cheated? Should I have not not cared so much? Should I have treated her with disgust? There's a lot of question but I chose not to talk anymore afterall, it was futile.

Every time I was alone, I can't stop my tears from falling. I can act normal with her and other people but I can't lie to myself. I feel like committing suicide but my senses will not allow me.

I felt sorry. I had taken my family for granted. I had forgotten the responsibilities I have for them. I was selfish.

Looking back, she is just 'one' Ive lost. I still have those people dear to me left. It still hurts but I have no other choice but to accept it. I have life to live. I have a career to pursue.

Now, I haven't recovered that much but I'm better. She tries to befriend me and even telling me that she'll visit me and my family after a couple of months for somehow she was a part of it. I refused the idea for the reason that I don't eat my own sh*t. Let's just end it that way. No necessary connections needed. Lets just assume that we are like strangers. She doesn't need me, I don't need her as well.

this is sad.

I'm in the early stages of a relationship now and somehow it makes me feel jaded already. It's hard to give your all yet hold back at the same time. It's difficult to keep some for yourself when you want to give your all. I will surely learn from this. Thanks for sharing.

[SexyChinita77]

Buti pa mga ibang stories dito may mga ''Mabibigat'' na dahilan talaga kung bakit nakipagbreak o nagkahiwalay..

Yung sa akin...napaka ''BABAW'' Nagselos sya ng dahil sa may nagregalo sa akin ng perfume mula sa isang matagal ko ng kaibigan..

So ayun...ganun ganun na lang kung itapon nya ang lahat ng mga pangarap naming dalawa... napaka immature talaga

[Irie_Arabela]

MY LAST break-up was a few days ago. she came back from a retreat in tagaytay and had someone drop-off some saging na senorita and pineapple. others would think it's a sweet gesture but i found it alarming. we've only been dating for two months. so i sent her a text message saying that we can't see eachother anymore because i don't like where things are going. she replied with a winner. "normally i would be pissed but i've just been to a retreat and i feel good. ta ta." i felt relieved after that. that's one less chick i didn't hurt in my pursuit.

why? what does saging na senorita ang pineapple signify? isn't that just a pasalubong?

[Irie_Arabela]

Mine happened 2008. Through text. He's too fast, like someone desperate to get married and I wasn't. We've been only seeing each other for a couple of months and he was too..er...trying hard. I enjoyed his company but wasn't inlove with him. Maybe he felt that and started distancing himself from me. It happened when I was vacationing with my family in an island, and he rarely replied to my text messages, with lame excuses. So I asked what's wrong, he just said he was too busy. Then I replied, "Yeah, good luck with your life. Thanks for everything." Subtle but he got the clue.

He texted something sweet that night, but I just deleted him from my phone and we never spoke again.

Saw him earlier this year. It's like seeing an old classmate. No hard feelings. In fact, it was good to see him. Di naman malalim ang relationship, so parang wala lang....

[MAGE03]

Mine happened last Monday, Nov 7, 2011

Oct. 16 kami last ngkita ni ex-bf (di pa din ako sanay ), ng date pa kami nun, movie tas ngsnack tas hinatid ako sa bahay ng dinner pa kami together tas nun biglang kumulog ngdecide na ** umuwi.. ngkiss pa kami goodbye.. then pagkauwi nya ngtxt pa ** then i-love-you pa then goodnyt..

tas ayun 3 weeks syang missing in action … lahat ng ways ginawa ko na, ngmakaawa sa mga katrabaho nya, yun ate nya galit na din kasi pati sa kanila hindi ngpaparamdam, hindi umuwi ng bahay, nakapatay ang phone nya tas sabi ngpalit na din number.. iniwan nya ** ng alanganin.. lagi aqng kinakamusta ng family nya qng ngparamdam na ba..

tas nun monday, biglaan lang yun, dumaan ako sa haus nila *** kunin gamit ko, niready ko na rin kasi na iiwan na nya **, kutob ko babae sabi nmn baka hindi daw, tas ayun nagtxt sya sa nanay nya tinatanong kung andun pa ako sa bahay nila, tapos ako pinarweply ng nanay nya sabi ko asan ka bakla ka harapin mo ako.. ngreply sbi nya “ayaw na kita harapin, gusto ko ng makipaghiwalay sayo” tas ayun ng off na ng cp.. iyak ako nun, tas nakita ako ng ate nya, hindi na maipinta mukha ng ate nya galit na , lahat ng katrabaho ni ex tinawagan nya, tinakot na ni ate, tas nun hinatid na ako pauwi nun tatay nya sabi wag ka mag-alala kakausapin daw nya si ex..

tas nun nakauwi na ako ngtxt pinsan nya, pagkauwi ko daw, dumating si ex may kasamang babae . Sa galit ng ate nya sinigawan nya si ex napahiya sila nun babae, nakiusap si ex sa ate nya na wag daw sila ipahiya.. galit na galit buong family nya.. ang laking gulo ng ginawa nya.. pati mga kapatid nya pinagtanggol ako ng sorry saken mga kapatid nya..

lahat sila ayaw dun sa girl, sino daw matinong babae ang papatol sa lalaking may gf na.. sabi pa nun ate nya tutulungan nya ako *** bawiin yun ex ko , tas nalaman ko na lang yun babae *** ang ngtxt saken na break na kami at hindi **

walang balls .. 5 years ko syang bf tas gnun ginawa nya.. until now galit pa rin mga kapatid nya, subukan lang daw nya iuwi uli yun babae dun makakatikim sila ng hindi magandang salita.. mas gusto daw nila **..

nasaktan ako pero hindi na ako galit sa kanya… sa pagtanggol pa lang ng family nya saken para na rin akong nakaganti sa kanila.. oo, in pain ako ngayon pro atleast malinis kunsensya ko… kaya kong matulog ng mahimbing sa gabi, kaya kong maglakad taas noo kasi wala akong sinaktan.. oo miss na miss ko pa rin sya kasi 5 years din yun. Hayaan ko na lang sya kung dun sya masaya.. desisyon nya yun, dpat harapin nya ang consequences.. bahala na si Lord sa kanila…

best revenge, be beautiful..

[jhenpanget]

grabe sa mga stories neu .. heehe..
parang gusto ko din magshare .. ahe ..
but next time na lang..hehehe
i enjoying reading the other stories pa e..hehehe

[siberius]

sinabi niyang ayaw niya na. wala namang 3rd party kuno.
pero matapos ang ilang buwan dun ko nalamang may ibang kursunada. todas ang 5 taon naming relasyon! di man lang ako binigyan ng totoong rason kung BAKIT?!

tama ang sinabi ni MAGE03
just last december, last yr - nakipagkita ako sa kanya.
wala lang. curious sa buhay niya sinubukan niyang ibalik ang nakaraan. pero dedma na lang.

[malisyosa]

Makikiabasag:
My own was a roller coaster...
I was the oridnary girlalu, late bloomer, have graduated college with no BF since birth. I'm not ugly, it's just that i do not show-off my "goods" that much. I'm more into the comfort rather than the style. enough about me, let's talk about my roller coaster ride...
I met my ride from a friend, i needed help, he was the help. I knew we were different, he was the typical tall dark and handsome, looking for someone not like me. when the favor was done, he ended up telling me he liked me in the intimate sense of the word. According to him i was different (i know i'm different becuase i'm borederline weird, what could he possibly want from me). in short we kinda end up being a couple (well I thoght we were). But things turned around when we got to know each other a little better (like meeting the family, th elikes, the dislikes...etc-- good thing there was no S-thing) so it ended just like that, it hurt a lot for me, because i thought he was the perfect prince charming every girl dreamed of (heck it's not every day that a weirdo like me would be in the arms of a tall dark and hansome guy). I tried to stop the guy, but he's all set to go, he didn't even bother to look back. It turns out the ride was not a prince, it was a race, running as fast as he can, and stopping to every pittstop that his heart desires (and i was one of his pittstop). He was the player i prayed i would never meet. when i finally let go and accepted the fact that i was just one of his thing, i was devastated. he was not the first guy i liked, but he was the first everything for me except for the S-thing. No confidence, floating in the air most of the time, and when our path crossed i had to keep all my emotions in check. From there I began to learn how to go cold. We have the same set of friends but i never looked at him as a friend. I never looked at him at all, 2 years passed by quickly, I had to be at a friends bday/farewell, as much as dont want to, coz I know he'll be there, with the micking grin on his face everytime he looked at me, i had to. Good thing I knew most of the guest, and to top it all, i was the center of attention of the guys, even him (thanks to my corporate miniskirt), i never saw that i had changed a lot, somehow. I had transformed from a regular ugly betty to a typical long legged siren wearing miniskirt (i never believed it when people would compliment and stare at my legs before, not until on that day). He ended up trying to get my attention by force. As a bday wish and a farewell request from the friend, i had gave him his time. Alas, the conclusion was, i was, again, (stupid me) in a whirlwind realtionship with him, which didnt last long again, and again he left without looking back of what he did... I was completely destroyed, not only my heart but all of me, i was going through not just the break-up but it was simultaneous with my messy family life... (sabi nga nila when it rains it pours, mine was a super typhoon) the ride did not just left me in the middle of the road, this time it ran me over, and left me for dead. But i had to pick myself up, i did stand up eventually, but i was numb to the bones, i learned to be unscared, i learned not to be insecure, i learned to be unattached so that when they left i can always hook up with another. 1 year became 10. i was used to the routine hooking up when i just need it, then i would leave. One day i had a mysterious caller/textmate, he eventually introduced himself. my tall dark and handsome ride, i was shocked when i learned that he was looking for me. He was insistent that we get together, but i was hesitant. i ended up giving in to his request, but, i agreed to go with freinds. I thought this was a good time for me to have my final closure, to be able to treat him fianlly as a friend. we may never get that close at least i can say i am finally over the ride. but it turned out differently. again we became US again... he was different, well he said, and i thought he was or he has changed. it turned out he did change... and i was not ready for what i saw in him...he became the worst person that he was. I never knew that behind the prince charming look and those begging eyes, was a manipulative, self centered, opportunistic ***** I've ever met. again I was deceived, the worse part of it was after he got what he wanted from me, he left again, without looking back... today, i dont know if i am still fixable, no matter how manny times i tried to screw my life, i dont feel anything at all... i wanted to feel something,anything, but there's none...

[hANNEhathAWAY]

sa akin, we just didn't speak to each other na. siguro fed up na pareho at needed a break sa relationship. pero the silence lasted a looong time. 6 months, i think.

yun nga lang, mukhang all we needed lang is just a chance to really know each other's worth. after 6 months of not talking, he courted me ulit.

ayun we just celebrated our fourth year anniversary last april.

i hope ganyan din mangyari samin ng partner ko... im still nursing my broken heart

[hANNEhathAWAY]

I thought we're happy and inlove. I admit ours is never a perferct relationship. Most often than not, im the reason for our tampuhans...

My mood swing and my temper, aminado ako dun. He was so patient with me. Pero pag naging okay nmn kami, i make it a point na mabawi ko sa kanya *** mga kasungitan ko.

We lasted almost 4 years. Nakipagbreak sya one month ago. Nangyari yun kc one day, bigla na lang sya nanghingi ng space sakin. Alam nya, hirap ako sa mga space space na yan kasi feeling ko nakikipagbreak na. Pero ginawa nya pa rin.

And then, ayun, one day, bigla na lang nya sinabi sakin na (kasi magka office kami), "AYOKO NA! TAMA NA!".

Ang sakit guys... ni walang matinong explanation. Ganun ganun n *** niya ako iniwanan. Di ko b deserve ang explanation?

Hindi ko alam, wala naman ako nababalitaang third party... Ang hirap pala.

Im in fear na wala n tatanggap sakin after ng lahat ng nangyari samin.

Saka mahal ko pa rin sya at umaasa pa rin ako kahit konti.

[catch__]

Left me hanging... THE END.

[Jameaux]

Break-up sex lang talaga ang naalala ko.

[anthraxgal]

he wanted to end it without elaborating reasons....after 2 yrs of being together.

[erzascarlet]

he wanted to end it without elaborating reasons....after 2 yrs of being together.

Omg we're on the same boat! Me and my ex just broke up last week so yea lol.