Breakup Stories: How did your last one happen?

[jecjaburns]

mine just happened march 18, 5 am yata when she sent me offline message.. eto sabi nya.

05:01] baby******: .. sorry.. ..im already going out with *****.. but we're still not good .. ganon *** **** pag nwalan n ng trust.. and same thing happened to us..


may karugtong pa sana yan eh..yung asterisk i have to erase the name for her protection.. funny is walang bearing...walang pain..if ever mabasa nya to..she knows who she is.. see you when i see you na lang uli..

[changes1]

It was January 26 of this year, my Ex-GF broke up w/ me .. But before that day, like a few days ago we we're so happy pa.. I want to share my story and as well hear some advices po sana.. We've been together for 3 years and 9 months And our love story can be compared to One more chance, by bea and john lloyd.. Somewhat ganon ang nangyari samen..

It's been really hard for me, talagang nag strive ako just to get over her. But I still can't deny the fact na I'am still missing her.. I don't know with her.. It came to a point that, Pumapasok ako sa work while drunk, etc... It was really so hard for me, and right now I'am really trying my best to be okay.

The thing here is that, My mom talked to her a few weeks ago cuz uber close talaga ang family namin sa isat isa.. So my Mom asked if she still loves my, my GF told the truth and sinabing hindi naman kagad kagad mawawala yon, my mom asked again if she's missing me, and she replied ang sabi daw hindi nia daw alam... and last but not the least my mom asked if galit ba daw siya saken.. hindi naman daw.. By the way she's in singapore for 3 weeks back then, so I can feel na medyo na hohomesick siya and depressed.

I tried PM'ing her via facebook, and I acted cool na parang walang nangyari.. and she was like BITTER mga bro, like this.. ME: Ano naman ang pinagkakaabalahan mo dyan? HER: It's none of your business.. *** mga ganong sagot? so what the hell?? ano bang nasa isip ng babaeng to?

Well for me, I don't have any intentions na magkaayos kami and to be back w/ each others arms again.. Gusto ko lang i-maintain namin *** friendship or etc.. so help naman po, specially sa mga girls out there, na medyo nakaka relate sa topic.. thanks po!

[jecjaburns]

kung nagkikita pa kayo at lumalabas just act casual, parang barkada lang walang commitment walang restriction, nang sa ganun walang pressure sa inyong dalawa. retain the friendship and hope it will lead to something better again.

[changes1]

kung nagkikita pa kayo at lumalabas just act casual, parang barkada lang walang commitment walang restriction, nang sa ganun walang pressure sa inyong dalawa. retain the friendship and hope it will lead to something better again.

the problem here dude is that, hindi nia ako pinapansin.. bitter kami sa isat isa, we are ignoring each other like each of us is not existing.. parang ganon.

[peachypeach]

i also have a story to share...

my bf went abroad to work last 2006, he asked me if i can wait for 2, 3, 5 years? of course i said yes... since 2006 since nasa abroad naman siya i started traveling here in the philippines para hindi ko siya ma-miss and para ma-aliw ko sarili ko... kasi sabi ko go with the flow lang.

he went home 2007 and last year 2010 august...

to make the story short i just learned last thursday from his friend na he got married pala last 2010 august and his wife will be giving birth na next month, if i got pregnant din pala sabay pa kme manganganak ng wife nya, kaloka ... and hinatid ko pa siya sa airport when he went back, that was august 29.

nakakaloka diba? last night something made me think lang tapos i asked his friend yun boom...

pinanghihinayangan ko is the time i waited, i was only 26 last 2006 and now i'm turning 31 na, imagine 5 years waisted...

actually hindi ko pa ito ine-emote hindi pa ako umiiyak

so thankful mabait si Lord sa akin, alam ni Lord that he is not worth it...

[Kent_210]

^Atleast may baby

Pero saklap nun. Sana makunsensiya yung guy.

[doomed365]

Happened last year lang. We've been together for 2 years. I loved him so much, halos sa kanya umikot mundo ko, pinagseselosan siya ng mga friends ko kasi pinagpapalit ko sila minsan sa kanya, my too much love and affection for him backfired kasi nasakal siya masyado, naging possessive ako. Naging madalas pag aaway namin. Nagbreak kami before ang 2nd anniversary namin, pero we gave it a second chance. It went well for the next few months but eventually naging magulo na ulit. Hindi nga rin talaga siguro totoo na love is sweeter the second time around. He decided to put an end to our 2yrs relationship habang ako, in denial pa din. Mahal na mahal ko siya during that time. Pinanindigan na niya yung decision niya, gusto niya sana we remain friends kahit wala na kami pero di ako pumayag. Hindi naman ako ipokrita para pumayag na maging mag kaibigan na lang kami knowing na mahal na mahal ko pa rin siya. Hanggang sa we lost communication, and later found out, mga 1 month after namin mag break, na may girlfriend na siya, na nililigawan na pala niya while on the rocks na ang relationship namin. Kaya pala atat na atat na din siyang makipag break nun..

Ok na sana ko nun eh, 1 month without a word from him tapos nung nalaman ko yun talagang hindi ko matanggap, gusto ko siyang sumbatan pero para san pa so kahit gano kasakit tinanggap ko na lang. It took me 4 months to finally move on until someone dared to knock on my close door once again...

[iloveyouMHINE]

My First

Masarap umibig at ibigin, masaya at 'di magkamayaw ang ligaya, lagi kang in love at maganda at sa tuwing nakikita mo ang taong mahal mo parang nasa langit ang pakiramdam mo ngunit kapag ika'y nasaktan at nabigo sa isang iglap mundo mo'y guguho

Ganyan ang naranasan ko parang isang magandang panaginip na nauwi sa isang malupit na bangungot. ang pag ibig na ibinigay sa akin ay agad din namang binawi.

Ako si Vamp, isang student sa isang magandang paaralan sa aming nayon, isang simpling dalagita, anak at kapatd ngunit lahat ay nagbago dahil sa isang binatang nagpatibok ng aking puso, sya si Rio ang una kong pag ibig.

[blu_singer]

mine happend oct 26,2001. we've been together for almost 10months (2days to go before our monthsary). she was 15 i was 18, she broke up me with me over the phone. tinext nya muna ko na cool off daw muna kami, sabi ko "bakit? eh di ba pag nag cool off parang nag break na rin tayo non?" so sabi nya...o sige break na tayo!

ganon natapos ang relationship namin, though after that eh friends pa rin naman kami, parang walang nagbago. so dahil sa mahal ko pa rin, lahat ng hilingin eh ginagawa ko, he asked for my help to get the number nung crush nyang football player, so ako naman si tanag ginawa ko. So magka text na sila. What i did (kasi nga mahal ko x ko) i texted the football player, sinabihan ko sya na pare kung lolokohin mo lang si _____ wag mo nang itext. So si football player di na nagrereply sa xgf ko. Then she called me up asking kung may sinabi daw ba ko don sa football player, sbi ko oo (which is kung lolokohin mo lang si ___ wag mo nang itxt). After hearing that pinagmumura ako ng xgf ko, she was furious, gusto nya raw ako sampalin kung asa harapan nya lang ako. After that wala na kaming pansinan.


Fast forward....

we still see each other from time to time kasi we have a lot of common friends,tito nya conductor ko sa choir. Binabati ko naman sya. Now she's turning 26 and i just turned 29..may ilangan factor pa rin ng kaunti...she's currently in a relationship and i'm also in a relationship...pera parang may something pa rin (sa tingin ko lang)...

ayun..sorry kung mahaba

[saveitforlater]

^ tingin mo lang yun dre.. respeto lang sana sa current gf mo.

[iloveyouMHINE]

My First

Masarap umibig at ibigin, masaya at 'di magkamayaw ang ligaya, lagi kang in love at maganda at sa tuwing nakikita mo ang taong mahal mo parang nasa langit ang pakiramdam mo ngunit kapag ika'y nasaktan at nabigo sa isang iglap mundo mo'y guguho

Ganyan ang naranasan ko parang isang magandang panaginip na nauwi sa isang malupit na bangungot. ang pag ibig na ibinigay sa akin ay agad din namang binawi.

Ako si Vamp, isang student sa isang magandang paaralan sa aming nayon, isang simpling dalagita, anak at kapatd ngunit lahat ay nagbago dahil sa isang binatang nagpatibok ng aking puso, sya si Rio ang una kong pag ibig.

Nakilala ko si Rio sa aming paaralan, kaklase ko sya sa isang subject. Nung una ko syang makita I felt something inside me pero binalewala ko lang ito sa kadahilanang suplado, napakamisteryoso at parang laging may sariling mundo. But all my thought was wrong when I really know who is he, he was a very caring, funny and super sweet guy. At sa mga simpleng titig at ngiti nya mararamdaman mong importante ka sa kanya kaya naman hindi ko napigilan ang aking sariling mahulog sa kanya.

Everyday my love for him ay lalong tumitindi pero ‘di ko naman maipagtapat sa kanya dahil natatakot akong masira ang friendship namin, until one day sinabi nyang mahal nya ako. He start courting me, lagi nya akong pinapasyal gamit ang kanyang motor, hindi ko narin naman sya pinahirapan at sya’y sinagot ko din.

October 26, eksaktong araw ng sagutin ko sya. Nagkataon sa buwan ng aking kaarawan. Malambing at maalaga syang boyfriend, lagi akong hatid – sundo at lagi kaming namamasyal. Mahal na mahal ko sya at alam kong ramdam nya iyon, but every relationship has a problem to face para lalong tumatag ang kanilang pagsasama, but it’s up to them how they handle and face it.

One day before our first monthsary, I gave him my gift for him; it was a red polo shirt. Para sana suotin nya sa especial day namin, and in that same day hinatid nya sa bahay ang regalo nya sa akin. It was a cute white stuff toy na may suot na pink dress, it has a brown circle eye katulad ng kay Rio. Nilagyan nya ito ng pabango nya so that I can remember him every time I hug it.

November 26, it was our first monthsary, nagkasundo kami na magkikita sa aming tambayan ng ala-sais ng hapon nang araw ring yaon. Napakabagal ng oras sa mga panahong iyon at ako’y hindi na makapaghintay.

Eksakto 6 ng hapon ng tumungo ako sa pinag-usapan naming lugar, ngunit wala pa sya doon. Naghintay ako ngunit walang Rio na dumating, tinatawagan ko sya ngunit out of coverage sya, hindi ko alam ang gagawin ko. Kinakabahan ako lalo na ng halos dalawang linggo na syang hindi nagpaparamdam, tinatanong ko mga kaibigan at bakada nya ngunit maging sila ay bihira lang textan nito.

Hanggang isang araw nakatanggap ako ng text galing kay Rio, laking tuwa ko at halos lahat ng pangamba at agam-agam ko ay napawi, ngunit biglang nanlamig si Rio sa akin, para syang isang estranghero sa akin at ganun din ako sa kanya.

“Sorry kung ‘di ako nakapunta nung monthsary natin at hindi ako nakakatext.” Hinggi nya ng tawad sa akin, kahit sa text lamang yun ramdam ko na sincere ang mga sinabi nya sakin

“Ayos lang yun, ano bang nangyari sa’yo ha?”

“May problema lang.” Maikli nyang sagot

Kwenento nya sakin ang problema nya at nagpaplano syang umuwi sa lugar nila upang makasama na nya ang magulang nya.

“Kahit naman umuwi ka, tayo parin naman diba?” Tanong ko sa kanya

“Hindi ko alam.” Maikling reply nya sa text ko.

Sa mga oras na iyon ‘di ko na napigilang tumulo ang luha ko habang yakap - yakap ko ang regalong bigay nya, masakit isipin biglang bigla na lang syang bibitiw kahit na ipinaglaban ko sya. Madaming tumatakbo sa utak ko ng mga oras na iyon, totoo ba ang mga sinasasbi nya? Minahal nya ba talaga ako o pinaglaruan lang. May ginawa ba akong hindi nya nagustuhan kaya iiwan nya ako. Ako ba ang may mali?

Ngunit ganun talaga ang buhay, may sarap at ligaya meron ding lungkot at pighati para nga daw balance ang life. Pinaniwala ko ang sarili kong pinatawad ko na sya but that was all a lie, one of my teacher said “ If you still feel the pain and you cry as if the wound is fresh then hindi mo pa sya na papatawad.”

Maybe she was right, maybe it was only my way para mapaniwala ang sarili ko na hindi ko na sya mahal, pero kahit ganun nagpapasalamat ako sa kanya dahil marami din akong natutunan. Natuto akong magtira para sa sarili ko, natuto akong maging matatag sa mga problemang darating at higit sa lahat natuto akong MAGMAHAL.


And now masaya na ko, ang nakakatawa pa dito ang current boyfriend ko ay best friend ni Rio

[pravnik]

@iloveyouMHINE ayos ah, para kang nagsusulat sa Maalala Mo kaya ah! Anyway, ganyan talaga mga ibang lalake, parang may mga saltik. One day okay sila, the next, parang ibang tao na. At least, bago pa lang nakita mo na agad *** bad side nila and yan, may BF ka pa na bago

[saveitforlater]

^ hindi lang lalake dude, kahit babae, bakla, tomboy, bata, matanda.

[aryzk]

Hmm. Tinext ko siya sabi ko ayaw ko na. Ganun lang. Haha

[enaej426]

just recent lang ...

I had a BF whom I met online last Oct 2005 . We chatted for awhile and then went into a romantic online relationship. He came into my life the time that I was recuperating from my painful separation with now ex-husband . He's a very good conversationalist , there were no dull moments and discussions with him . I found myself looking forward to chat with him everyday .

We've experienced a lot of ups and downs in our relationship , had a small fight , petty fight , big fight but we were able to reconcile and make up , these made our relationship deeper as I get to know him more and more about his personality , good and bad.

(that was I thought...)

til last Saturday night when some girl texted me using his yahoo account and spilling me these revelations that I didn't expected nor thought he will do to me. I was on my way home and while inside the car , my hands went cold and I almost palpitated as she flooded my phone with hurtful revelations about them . Teary eyed I was , I got off the car and texted her that I'm getting online so that we can talk better .
There she told me about their relationship and that she's already living in with him and they are together for over a year . Tears flowed as she told me these and I am getting madder and madder at him , at them , at myself , at the situation . I feel so helpless , betrayed , lied , used and all . Iwasn't contented with what she told me , I wanted it to come from him directly . To tell me the truth , the reasons , I need my Whys & Hows be satisfied . My heart was crushed , beat up , torn apart by him , and I need an explanation ! I was waiting for him to call me but to no avail. It's because this woman had kept his phone and he's using her phone instead . He was caught and now he doesn't have a choice but to obey what she wants . I waited another day but still he didn't call . It was so UNUSUAL of him , because I know him as a person that won't let an argument pass a day without talking . He's a persistent guy that won't take no for an answer til the issue is resolved , no matter who made a mistake . And actually his good in turning the situation the other way around too if your not keen on the details and can't make up with his pace in the argument . Good thing I have a good memory on all things that we do together . Anyway , so what I did was call him and he answered but he hang up the phone after some reasons he said which I didn't accept , because he had told the woman that I am ex that won't go away and we broke up a long time ago .. DUH! Reasons ! I rebutted that because we were just talking couple of days ago even saying I love yous to each other and he said we broke up ??? And another thing was a week before this incident he told me that someone installed a keylogger in his computer cus he found out that one of his email were deleted and he said this is a Guy He know but now an enemy to him cus of what he did . Lol - truth is it's the woman ( i assume & believe ) who done that . He was caught and he was attempting to escape and hid all his "secrets" from this woman by making a new account . And that includes me .. LOL. Unfortunately this woman is clever , she blew his cover ups and now he can't get out and don't have a choice but ADMIT all his net escapades. A sweet talker he is , he won her approval ....and forgave him .

Anyway ... I know my online relationship is a Stupid one because I let it last for 5 Years . Yes , I wasted 5 years of my life with this Jerk . He manipulated the situations so that his deceit will not be uncovered, he's good at that .
It was painful for me , that it shattered my heart but now I am so thankful that I got out of this relationship . Thanks to the woman ! It's in her hands now how she would be able to live with this guy . Well as she claims , I know only "a part" of him because she's there personally and I am here . I only know what He lets me know of him Online. She has a point but I'm still not convince . if you really wanted to know a person , 6 months dating ( online? ) and 6 months ( living together ) doesn't give you the assurance that you know this person very well. Oh well Up to her now .

Anyway again .. LOL .. this is my Stupid Online Relationship Break Up Story .
I am mending my broken heart right now .. but I will get over this soon ... and it's a Lesson Learned for me ...

I will end my post with this quote :

"What doesn't kill you only makes you Stronger."

[hapeeism]

It was January 26 of this year, my Ex-GF broke up w/ me .. But before that day, like a few days ago we we're so happy pa.. I want to share my story and as well hear some advices po sana.. We've been together for 3 years and 9 months And our love story can be compared to One more chance, by bea and john lloyd.. Somewhat ganon ang nangyari samen..

It's been really hard for me, talagang nag strive ako just to get over her. But I still can't deny the fact na I'am still missing her.. I don't know with her.. It came to a point that, Pumapasok ako sa work while drunk, etc... It was really so hard for me, and right now I'am really trying my best to be okay.

The thing here is that, My mom talked to her a few weeks ago cuz uber close talaga ang family namin sa isat isa.. So my Mom asked if she still loves my, my GF told the truth and sinabing hindi naman kagad kagad mawawala yon, my mom asked again if she's missing me, and she replied ang sabi daw hindi nia daw alam... and last but not the least my mom asked if galit ba daw siya saken.. hindi naman daw.. By the way she's in singapore for 3 weeks back then, so I can feel na medyo na hohomesick siya and depressed.

I tried PM'ing her via facebook, and I acted cool na parang walang nangyari.. and she was like BITTER mga bro, like this.. ME: Ano naman ang pinagkakaabalahan mo dyan? HER: It's none of your business.. *** mga ganong sagot? so what the hell?? ano bang nasa isip ng babaeng to?

Well for me, I don't have any intentions na magkaayos kami and to be back w/ each others arms again.. Gusto ko lang i-maintain namin *** friendship or etc.. so help naman po, specially sa mga girls out there, na medyo nakaka relate sa topic.. thanks po!

It seems that you still love the person. Stop communicating with the person as simple as that. Kung yung ordinaryong tao na gusto mo i-friend at ayaw di ba dapat iwasan mo rin?

Wag na mag justify. Former lovers can only be friends if both have forgotten the feeling coz if not you could still hurt one another

[blaiziergear]

Breaking up is much painful than death. For the first few days, few weeks, few months, it feels like dying every second of it. I've lost so much tears. I lived a life of a zombie, dead yet still alive.

For the past 3 years, my life revolved around her. I did every single thing to show my love and affection. I gave up a lot of things, even my dignity and pride. These 3 years perhaps is the best relationship I've ever had yet it the most painful as well.

During the break up, she hugged me while crying. I hugged her back and kissed her on the cheek. She then told me that its not working. I became blunt and for a moment I'm lost. I asked her if she still loves me. She refused to answer. I told myself then, I will not show her a single tear. I've sacrificed my pride a lot of times so its about time for me to have it back. I told her, "go ahead. I don't care a sh*t." but inside, it hurts like hell. We've been living together for so long. My life was dull without her in it but this time, I have to accept it. Its done. Looking back, I saw it coming. Every time I kissed her, there was hesitation in her. Every time I hug her, she pushes me back at times. She even tells her company that she's not in a relationship. When I tell her I love her, she just smiles back. I don't know why it ended this way. Perhaps I've given more than what I'm capable of giving. I loved her more than myself. And she admits that. I devoted my life for her. I guess this made mo boring. If that's the case, should I have cheated? Should I have not not cared so much? Should I have treated her with disgust? There's a lot of question but I chose not to talk anymore afterall, it was futile.

Every time I was alone, I can't stop my tears from falling. I can act normal with her and other people but I can't lie to myself. I feel like committing suicide but my senses will not allow me.

I felt sorry. I had taken my family for granted. I had forgotten the responsibilities I have for them. I was selfish.

Looking back, she is just 'one' Ive lost. I still have those people dear to me left. It still hurts but I have no other choice but to accept it. I have life to live. I have a career to pursue.

Now, I haven't recovered that much but I'm better. She tries to befriend me and even telling me that she'll visit me and my family after a couple of months for somehow she was a part of it. I refused the idea for the reason that I don't eat my own sh*t. Let's just end it that way. No necessary connections needed. Lets just assume that we are like strangers. She doesn't need me, I don't need her as well.

[iloveyouMHINE]

@iloveyouMHINE ayos ah, para kang nagsusulat sa Maalala Mo kaya ah! Anyway, ganyan talaga mga ibang lalake, parang may mga saltik. One day okay sila, the next, parang ibang tao na. At least, bago pa lang nakita mo na agad *** bad side nila and yan, may BF ka pa na bago

tama ahe actually story sya naginawa ko at hindi naman talaga nym namin *** sinulat ko ahe

Sad to say wala na akong BF ngayon hirapan mang aminin pero pagmagbestfriend talaga minsan pareho ng ugali at parehas kung pano ka saktan haha

[ROUZ]

Nakipag break sakin yung Ex-GF ko nung May, dahil marami daw obstacles like Family,Studies and Friends, sabi niya mahirap daw pag sabayin lahat ng yun, sabi ko "Hindi ko naman hinihiling na lagi kita makasama eh, kahit sa text/call lang tayo tapos kapag weekends dun tayo mag kita" hanggang sa gumulo na isip nya sabay sabi nya bigla "Hindi ko na alam, Mahirap talaga yung situation ko ngayon, nahihirapan ako hatiin ang oras ko, mahirap pala pumasok sa relation ng hindi ka pa talaga ready" Tapos yun naiisip ko gumagawa sya ng sarili nyang problema, maliit na bagay lang yun kung tutuusin, hindi naman ako demading sa kanya... Pinag laban ko sya pati sa parents nya, kinausap ko parents nya na sabi ko " Sir and Ma'am hindi po ako yung tipo na lalake na makakasira sa pag aaral ng Anak nyu, Kailangan ko lang po ng pag titiwala galing sa inyu" Pero mismo yung Ex-gf ko na talaga yugn may ayaw, Magulo talaga siya, Dinelete nya pa ako dati dun sa isa nyang private account, after ilang months, Ito na August na, Marami sya suitors pero hinahanap nya yung ugali ko dun sa mga suitors nya, nag kakausap na kami ngayon and yun friends na lang kami. Until now kahit Dinump nya ako, still yung feelings ko di parin nawawala. Pero alam ko soon mawawala din to.

[quinone]

^mahirap talaga minsan kahit gaano mo kamahal kapag immature pa at hindi handa, parang bato lang na ipinukpok sa ulo.