HELP..ABOUT CENOMAR (certificate of no marriage)

[haringdota60]

hello po....question lang about sa CENOMAR....accurate po ba yun?kasi kumuha ako ng CENOMAR... nung nakuha ko na siya...nakalagay dun "yielded one (1) most likely match(es) in our National Indices of marriages....parehong pareho ng name DOB,BIRTHPLACE,PARENTS NAME AND MOTHER'S MAIDEN NAME...kaso sa middle name nagkatalo....instead of letter N as the middle initial....nakalagay dun letter M.......nakalagay NAME of BRIDE/GROOM:full name nung GUY ...tapos yung name ng gf ko......middle initial nya is letter N ...pero nakalagay is M.......ayoko naman magalit agad....na nanloloko sya ...baka mamaya..hindi talaga sya yun.....na overlook ko kasi nung nakuha ko yung cenomar ...hindi tuloy ako nakapag tanong sa census mismo.... hope someone can help me..TIA

[sleepless105]

Masyadong maraming coincidences. I would be very suspicious on your girlfriend. Maraming may kapangalan. Kung kapangalan na tapos ay pareho pa ng birth information, kahit 1 in a million ay di mangyayari yun sa Pilipinas. What more kung pareho ang parent's name and mother's maiden name? Anong chance non, 1 in 100 million? Baka typographical error lang ang middle initial. By the fact na pareho ang parent's name, then masasabi mo kung ano ang dapat nyang middle initial. If I'm in your shoes, I'll show the document to her.

[haringdota60]

heya sleepless....actually when i filed the CENOMAR...u need to fill out the form and write the name of the parents, dob and birthplace...so parang sakin din nanggaling yung info's ....kaso yun lang talaga pinagtataka ko...pano lumabas yung name ng girlfriend ko...ang pagkakaiba lang talaga yung M.I ....ang pagkakaintindi ko pa...since nakalagay dun "most likely matches"im thinking...pinaka malapit na name sa girlfriend ko...i checked her goverment i'ds lahat single ang status pati yung tin and ss number nya...i verified it...single lahat ...and of course i also asked her ...kung kilala nya yung guy na "groom"'s name...di daw nya kilala....so im really confused

[kleenexlambot]

TS, i think what you wanted to hear is: NO, CENOMAs ARE SOMETIMES NOT ACCURATE. However, even this answer will not put you at peace.

So, if i were you i would check with the NSO. Mahirap kasi pag m.i. lang. mas Ok kung full middle name. And also check your gf's birth certificate

[Mickey2000]

hello po....question lang about sa CENOMAR....accurate po ba yun?kasi kumuha ako ng CENOMAR... nung nakuha ko na siya...nakalagay dun "yielded one (1) most likely match(es) in our National Indices of marriages....parehong pareho ng name DOB,BIRTHPLACE,PARENTS NAME AND MOTHER'S MAIDEN NAME...kaso sa middle name nagkatalo....instead of letter N as the middle initial....nakalagay dun letter M.......nakalagay NAME of BRIDE/GROOM:full name nung GUY ...tapos yung name ng gf ko......middle initial nya is letter N ...pero nakalagay is M.......ayoko naman magalit agad....na nanloloko sya ...baka mamaya..hindi talaga sya yun.....na overlook ko kasi nung nakuha ko yung cenomar ...hindi tuloy ako nakapag tanong sa census mismo.... hope someone can help me..TIA

simplehan mo na lang yung GF mo ng tanong kung may kilala syang *insert the guy's name here*?

[BertBaltazar]

talk to her.. why did ou search a cenmar?

[haringdota60]

I requested for cenomar coz we are planning to tie the knot before i leave for abroad

[haringdota60]

I called census cust service and they told me that accurate daw talaga yung nasa cenomar....magiging mali lang daw yun pag hindi nag match and parents name na nilagay ko sa application.....most likely daw ang nilagay sa marriage cert's middle initial is instead of letter N is letter M.....that made me really worried and anxious

[kleenexlambot]

I called census cust service and they told me that accurate daw talaga yung nasa cenomar....magiging mali lang daw yun pag hindi nag match and parents name na nilagay ko sa application.....most likely daw ang nilagay sa marriage cert's middle initial is instead of letter N is letter M.....that made me really worried and anxious

have you double checked the details (parents name, DOB, etc0 with those on the birth certificate?

[haringdota60]

yup i double check everthing and it matched...this cause us alot of stress already

[kleenexlambot]

So its time to discuss with the gf.

[sleepless105]

I called census cust service and they told me that accurate daw talaga yung nasa cenomar....magiging mali lang daw yun pag hindi nag match and parents name na nilagay ko sa application.....most likely daw ang nilagay sa marriage cert's middle initial is instead of letter N is letter M.....that made me really worried and anxious

Therefore, they are also cross-checking the parents' name, etc. and not just relying on the info that you are feeding them. Hmmm... is there any info when / where did the wedding take place? Maybe, you could start from there to dig more info?

[rokrok]

kausapin mo na kaya si gf, tutal future marriage nyo naman ang nakataya dyan. wala namang masama sa pagtatanong, you just want to clarify things. pag nagalit at di makasagot ayon na.

[Mickey2000]

kausapin mo na kaya si gf, tutal future marriage nyo naman ang nakataya dyan. wala namang masama sa pagtatanong, you just want to clarify things. pag nagalit at di makasagot ayon na.

korek! GF mo na lang ang makakasagot ng tanong mo, since you already have all the "evidence",mas mabuti na get it done and get it over with, remember, she is your (hopefully) future wife.

[ayahime]

any updates?

[Roasted Manok]

I agree with the others na possible magkapareho sa pangalan at DoB. Pero pati ba naman parents' name kapareho? Mahirap na yan.

Mag-usap kayo ni GF.

(May 2 akong kilala na previously married na nakapag-asawa pa uli dahil dati ay di naman uso yang CENOMAR.)

[Nils]

Weird ka TS.

Mother's Maiden name ---> GF's middle initial.

Kung ang maiden name ng nanay has a surname that starts with M, paano nagkaroon ng middle initial na N yung gf mo? LABO!

[adiposethoughts]

Iisa lang naman ibig sabihin nyan eh...

Kung naikasal na siya noon tas ikakasal kayo ngayon tas hindi pa niya na-a-annull yung marriage nya with that prev guy...


Eh kahit magpakasal kayo, eventually your marriage will automatically be null and void.

Yeah..ask her if she knows anyone like that (guy's name). Tas tignan mo reaksyon ng mukha nya.

[haringdota60]

thank for sharing all ur opinions guys.....ive talked to her several times and i even talked to her closest friends and her siblings ...hindi daw talga nila kilala ....anyway i'll better dig into this.....although minsan nagdududa na din ako

[kleenexlambot]

wag mo pakakasalan at mag a abroad ka kamo ng hindi mo alam ang katotohanan.