guys- which do you prefer, uneducated or moody

[rickym]

Moody is attitude. ugali, mahirap na baguhin, ikaw dapat magadjust.

if the moody person also has a narcissistic personality disorder, i heard that she will be very difficult to change because she will not admit that there is anything wrong with her. so take it or leave it. last time i had a friend like that i left her, but i did learn quite a lot from her and i thanked her for it.

[Baldozer]

Yung moody nalang, turn off ako sa mga bobo.

[ty_kun]

Yung moody nalang, turn off ako sa mga bobo.

ditto.

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[may2]

Regarding the love, yes.

Regarding the marry? .. it never got to that. For obvious reasons.

The opportunities part is just the collateral damage. Unfortunately, the collateral damage would have been very crucial to the girl.

I think your friend values her moody girlfriend in bed but not in longtime commitment. Apart from it, the damage would be in his part, because the moody girlfriend was never consider an asset. But a liability in damaging his monetary income and his reputation.

Maybe, your friend wants to have a girlfriend with the same status as he is. Income is sustained and merging with his family corporation as dictated by the set of cultures that was ingrained in his mind since birth. And when the time comes, he'll be able to marry.

[vincex]

I think your friend values her moody girlfriend in bed but not in longtime commitment. Apart from it, the damage would be in his part, because the moody girlfriend was never consider an asset. But a liability in damaging his monetary income and his reputation.

Maybe, your friend wants to have a girlfriend with the same status as he is. Income is sustained and merging with his family corporation as dictated by the set of cultures that was ingrained in his mind since birth. And when the time comes, he'll be able to marry.

No. He really loved the person. But in the end, he couldn't stand it anymore. He appreciated many things about her aside from sex, like their interaction, activities etc... Her moodiness reached a point where he could no longer take it.

As far as the money issue. It is of no issue to the guy as he is filthy rich and is completely independent. Giving her stuff and providing for her is not even loose change for the guy.

The reputation part is not an issue since he is a foreigner and has no social cliques to influence his decision. He is in the philippines and doesn't expect people to be in his status.

I have also seen the evolution of his relation from day one and that he tells me stuff every step of the way (including the "how to's" and "what to do's") so I have a very lucid grasp of his relation. The bad and good.

In the end, he said "any person with any dignity and self respect wouldn't have to put up with that unless he was desperate or some kind of loser...."

I actually encouraged him to stick it out with the girl and hope she "comes to her senses" (for the benefit of the girl).

The guy is currently single and has resigned himself to prostitutes.

[rickym]

No. He really loved the person. But in the end, he couldn't stand it anymore. He appreciated many things about her aside from sex, like their interaction, activities etc... Her moodiness reached a point where he could no longer take it.

As far as the money issue. It is of no issue to the guy as he is filthy rich and is completely independent. Giving her stuff and providing for her is not even loose change for the guy.

The reputation part is not an issue since he is a foreigner and has no social cliques to influence his decision. He is in the philippines and doesn't expect people to be in his status.

I have also seen the evolution of his relation from day one and that he tells me stuff every step of the way (including the "how to's" and "what to do's") so I have a very lucid grasp of his relation. The bad and good.

In the end, he said "any person with any dignity and self respect wouldn't have to put up with that unless he was desperate or some kind of loser...."

I actually encouraged him to stick it out with the girl and hope she "comes to her senses" (for the benefit of the girl).

The guy is currently single and has resigned himself to prostitutes.

read the last line.

now here is the scandalous question. is he resigning himself to prostitutes indicative of his bad taste or is it indicative of the kind of women filipinas are or does he just not know where to look?

[vincex]

^ He actually has met ok locals but they didn't jive as much. Some rich, some poor. Some liberal, some square.

His taste is pretty normal as he doesn't pick the ugly katulong types and he definitely chooses lookers over others.

On the subject of prostitutes:
While money is of no object to him, the typical girls here make him spend anyway. So he might as well spend on a pokpok since they will have no right to get "moody" with him. unlike normal girls.

it's more convenient and he doesn't have to exert effort and TIME to "date", "befriend", "get involved", then get *****ed at.

Maybe if he looked and networked further he might get lucky. But I guess he just doesn't want to take the time anymore.

[may2]

^ He actually has met ok locals but they didn't jive as much. Some rich, some poor. Some liberal, some square.

His taste is pretty normal as he doesn't pick the ugly katulong types and he definitely chooses lookers over others.

On the subject of prostitutes:
While money is of no object to him, the typical girls here make him spend anyway. So he might as well spend on a pokpok since they will have no right to get "moody" with him. unlike normal girls.

it's more convenient and he doesn't have to exert effort and TIME to "date", "befriend", "get involved", then get *****ed at.

Maybe if he looked and networked further he might get lucky. But I guess he just doesn't want to take the time anymore.

Its not apt to call girls or tagged someone as protitutes, when they are not working in that industry. Just because the boyfriend is generous with his money, gives a house for a girlfriend, or buys a car for a girlfriend, or give expensive gifts, it does not give them the right to call a girlfriend as a prostitute. The truth is the boyfriend is merely looking for a ROI, and that is to bed the girlfriend. That kind of set-up, is for rich hookers who can afford to have a girlfriend to be one of this trophy, plus no stress to give commitment or marriage. He just uses the money, to make use of the girl in his mind. Like a robot or a pet, telling her what to do, what to expect nothing in return as long as their both enjoying their ways. In the end, when he finds another potential mate, he'll dump the girlfriend. As long as the guy is financially stable, and does not like to marry, the cycle is repeated.

The taste of saying 'katulong types', why, is your friend appearance are somewhat in the same level of celebrities in height and in face value?

[TTJ]

kakaaliw talaga tong si may2.

[rickym]

Its not apt to call girls or tagged someone as protitutes, when they are not working in that industry. Just because the boyfriend is generous with his money, gives a house for a girlfriend, or buys a car for a girlfriend, or give expensive gifts, it does not give them the right to call a girlfriend as a prostitute. The truth is the boyfriend is merely looking for a ROI, and that is to bed the girlfriend. That kind of set-up, is for rich hookers who can afford to have a girlfriend to be one of this trophy, plus no stress to give commitment or marriage. He just uses the money, to make use of the girl in his mind. Like a robot or a pet, telling her what to do, what to expect nothing in return as long as their both enjoying their ways. In the end, when he finds another potential mate, he'll dump the girlfriend. As long as the guy is financially stable, and does not like to marry, the cycle is repeated.

what can we call them? i personally call them 'professional girlfriends'. those who don't have jobs, will never look for jobs or will only work in a job in order to find a rich boyfriend. they are lots of fun. at least i know that when i hit 70 i can still have a girlfriend.

[may2]

what can we call them? i personally call them 'professional girlfriends'. those who don't have jobs, will never look for jobs or will only work in a job in order to find a rich boyfriend. they are lots of fun. at least i know that when i hit 70 i can still have a girlfriend.

I disagree with name branding as professional girlfriends or professional boyfriends. To each his own. Not all unemployed love to sit around and wait for their benefactor to provide for them. Some after having employed for years, are finished contract or did resigned or was force to resign because their employers cannot promote them as they deserve. It is a fact that, in example, in the government, Person A who did not passed a Civil Service Eligibility was highly promoted to be an officer, just because he/she has a 'backer', and the other person, Person B whom performs a job through the year with Civil Service Eligibility, plus acquired skills and relevant education, has been passed-over. What do you think Person B felt? Of course, she/he is demoralized and will resign. Why compete? When it is a double-standards. So after resigning, they find a job in the private sector, and the chances are somewhat slim. Yes, he/she is a professional. And there it go, luck finds love. Do you think, she/he is after the CEO or COO? I bet not, because applicants wanted to be employed. And it is not good to find a single bachelor in the company to be your boyfriend. Maybe, it is only secondary. But the priority is still work. After all, you cannot meet eligible if your not qualified. If that applicant has a choice, she/he wanted not to associate with singles in the company. If she had known from the start, that the person she met in the private sector was a CEO/COO, she could have avoided it. But how can you avoid, when your working in their company. And you cannot discount the fact that the CEO/COO choose her, Because she is naive and no idea. Its like a lion fell in love with the lamb, but the lamb is cluless that the lion he fell in love was a descendant of Simba and not the other tribe.

Good for you, because your positive that when you reach 70, you can still have a girlfriend. I bet the girlfriend's age is somewhat 60-69. We cannot defy age in our face in that criteria of 70 looking young fresh and vibrant, somewhat 30-40 years old.

[TTJ]

[vincex]

may2

On the subject of ROI, that was not even the question when he got involved with the girl. He really valued her, he just couldn't take it anymore.

On the subject of prostitutes, he really did get prostitutes. I'm not talking about professional gf's. More convenient. Although he's still looking around for a real relation.

The person involved is pretty decent looking and fit. He plays sport regularly and on a competitive level. He is in his 30's and is highly successful.

The relevance of looks in the greater scheme of things is somewhat minimal as far as males are concerned. After all, we have artistas and socialites who do get involved with so so or even butt ugly males.

[rickym]

I disagree with name branding as professional girlfriends or professional boyfriends. To each his own. Not all unemployed love to sit around and wait for their benefactor to provide for them. Some after having employed for years, are finished contract or did resigned or was force to resign because their employers cannot promote them as they deserve. It is a fact that, in example, in the government, Person A who did not passed a Civil Service Eligibility was highly promoted to be an officer, just because he/she has a 'backer', and the other person, Person B whom performs a job through the year with Civil Service Eligibility, plus acquired skills and relevant education, has been passed-over. What do you think Person B felt? Of course, she/he is demoralized and will resign. Why compete? When it is a double-standards. So after resigning, they find a job in the private sector, and the chances are somewhat slim. Yes, he/she is a professional. And there it go, luck finds love. Do you think, she/he is after the CEO or COO? I bet not, because applicants wanted to be employed. And it is not good to find a single bachelor in the company to be your boyfriend. Maybe, it is only secondary. But the priority is still work. After all, you cannot meet eligible if your not qualified. If that applicant has a choice, she/he wanted not to associate with singles in the company. If she had known from the start, that the person she met in the private sector was a CEO/COO, she could have avoided it. But how can you avoid, when your working in their company. And you cannot discount the fact that the CEO/COO choose her, Because she is naive and no idea. Its like a lion fell in love with the lamb, but the lamb is cluless that the lion he fell in love was a descendant of Simba and not the other tribe.

Good for you, because your positive that when you reach 70, you can still have a girlfriend. I bet the girlfriend's age is somewhat 60-69. We cannot defy age in our face in that criteria of 70 looking young fresh and vibrant, somewhat 30-40 years old.

the ones i call 'professional girlfriends' are not the unemployed women. they are the unemployed women who refuse to find work even as waitresses. i know several people like this. i told them to apply in a certain resto in mall of asia which used to hire waitresses to the tune of 900 pesos a day and they didn't want. now it's down to minimum wage and that is if you are regular. they have no requirements only that you are good looking with a thin waistline. you don't have to even be of college level.

later a woman told me why their kind won't work there. because they can't find boyfriends there, they would rather work in bars in malate where they earn 200 a day and get a boyfriend or get indecent proposals for one night stands.

they would also rather look for boyfriends on the internet in order to get sustento.

[rickym]

here are other professional girlfriends, but it seems that they leveled up, now they are called scammers.

http://www.pointmancebu.com/filipina...rs_in_cebu.htm

"Folks, meet one Miss Jackelyn (Lani) Cainday, our newest addition to the Rogue's Gallery at Pointman Cebu. She was slick enough to divest a man of roughly $8,000 USD, over the period of about four months."

[rickym]

Good for you, because your positive that when you reach 70, you can still have a girlfriend. I bet the girlfriend's age is somewhat 60-69. We cannot defy age in our face in that criteria of 70 looking young fresh and vibrant, somewhat 30-40 years old.

just the other day i dated a girl 30 years younger than me and i spent only around 500 pesos only. i think we were out around 4 hours or so.

i met another one today, hopefully she goes out with me, if so she will be 31 years younger than me.

[decent]

funny may.
hahaha,,

alam ko ang topic ay "guys- which do you prefer, uneducated or moody"

[Aizrith]

paano kung yung moody e kung umasta daig pa ang uneducated?

[juanito5354]

it depends:

yung un-educated kung madiskarte naman siya sa buhay hindi tamad panalo na rin yun,

kung moody ok lang pero mahirap spelengin sa simula mamaya mabait mamaya may topak na kadalasan sa mga babae to pabago bago isip (no offense sa mga babae ng PeX ha ) eventually masasanay ka na lang (ganito kasi si kumander before kaya nasanay na buti ok na sa pagdaan ng panahon)

[vincex]

^ so in the final analysis, mas type mo ang alin?