guys- which do you prefer, uneducated or moody

[vincex]

^ Agree.

Make something of yourselves. The more empowered the female is the more freedoms and hopefully, evolution, she can attain. Don't rely on "love" to answer your problems coz' guys are more pragmatic unless the guy himself is desperate, then he'll make patol any old *****.

There is a difference between attraction and respect.

[herolangsakin]

Thank God I'm working on my foreign licensure then! And more to come.

[Bigot3AtBalbas]

There is a difference between attraction and respect.

You think? Para mong sinabing, "there's a difference between apples and oranges"

[brian413]

[QUOTE=rickym;50260249][QUOTE=TTJed;50246983]baka naman gusto mo ng uneducated women kasi they're manipulable.
[QUOTE=TTJed;50246983]

a lot of people like uneducated women for that purpose. madaling utoin.



some kinds of moody girls can be manipulate also easily. just get a narcissistic one and treat her like god. the policy with these women is do everything which is expected of you and more.



depends on the girls. try googling 'narcissistic personality disorder' and 'histrionic personality disorder', i think these two disorders have strong tendencies to become moody.

quotes from wikipedia

"Histrionic personality disorder (HPD) is defined by the American Psychiatric Association as a personality disorder characterized by a pattern of excessive emotionality and attention-seeking, including an excessive need for approval and inappropriate seductiveness, usually beginning in early adulthood. These individuals are lively, dramatic, enthusiastic, and flirtatious.
They may be inappropriately sexually provocative, express strong emotions with an impressionistic style, and be easily influenced by others. Associated features may include egocentrism, self-indulgence, continuous longing for appreciation, feelings that are easily hurt, and persistent manipulative behavior to achieve their own needs."

"Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a personality disorder defined by the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, the diagnostic classification system used in the United States, as "a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration, and a lack of empathy."[1]
The narcissist is described as being excessively preoccupied with issues of personal adequacy, power, and prestige.[2] Narcissistic personality disorder is closely linked to self-centeredness."

also add people who are bitter with their past experiences. these people are like this not because there is a problem now, but there probably was a big problem in the past. something which is not the fault of the current other half.

saka yang uneducated,pinipigil lang nya ang pagiging moody nya,kasi alam nyang wala syang karapatan
[/QUOTE=TTJed]

sometimes that's true, sometimes it's because mentally challenged people don't know how to worry. they just live day by day. i once dated a one month pregnant girl about to be thrown out of the house. and she didn't act that worried.



sometimes that's true. but if the girl is from a simple family in the province where everyone is simple and not ambitious it won't be like that.

another thing is sometimes moody girls strive for attention and they get these by lavish spending by the man. so they can be equally guilty of gold digging.

to add, in your last statement. are you now saying that being moody is controllable? and that when money is on the table moodiness goes away. therefore women actually can control their moodiness? then why are they moody? kulang sa pansin? i just might agree on you there? is that why i haven't heard of filipinas making pakipot to a foreigner?

I'm an American male. I don't like either choice but I'd have to say I'd prefer the uneducated over the moody. If it's a little moody I say maybe moody. You can take an uneducated girl and hopefully she'd want to get a little education. Unfortunately I have to admit that I had a GF that was both. I paid for her to get an education and she was very smart and did well. She had more than just what I'd call moody. She had anger issues and "Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). I gave her a book on anger and I learned a lot about handling her to make things better. I don't think she learned much or I should say she didn't do a very good job putting what she learned into practice. But she has NPD and cannot change after years and to me has gotten worse. Mental illness is a not something you can easily change, even with an understanding BF or spouce. I didn't know NPD was a real condition. Is this common with Filipinas?

[vincex]

You think? Para mong sinabing, "there's a difference between apples and oranges"

I'm just stating the obvious coz' a lot of girls still have illusions.

[biancabee]

Dapat nga wag tayo mageng illusionado

On the topic of manliness.

I've been getting feedback over the last several months about my bouts of "manliness".

All positive. From girls and even lesbians.

Small instances from texting and looking serious while doing it, to being at the office ordering people around while doing docu, many girls who've never seen me in that environment have mentioned their "enhanced attraction" during those periods. One girl even mentioned to her friend na "nalilibugan siya"...

This impulsive attraction is exactly what I warned my stupid (girl) friends about and why they get in trouble for most of the time.

they would rather see me serious than see me jolly (which is my normal self) . What a joke.

[herolangsakin]

Excuse me, hindi po ako ilusyunada. Bordering pessimistic nga ako e. Who say's girls can have both? I know I'm attractive enough. Isama pa ang personal growth and future accomplishments. Girls don't be afraid to have it all. Looks, money, career, power, family etc. Kaya yan. You just have to believe you deserve them. Alas natin yan eh. Hehe just to even out the playing field. Minsan nga mas may b a y a g pa ang babae sa lalaki.

[freshbabe]

[QUOTE=brian413;61605516][QUOTE=rickym;50260249][QUOTE=TTJed;50246983]baka naman gusto mo ng uneducated women kasi they're manipulable.

a lot of people like uneducated women for that purpose. madaling utoin.



some kinds of moody girls can be manipulate also easily. just get a narcissistic one and treat her like god. the policy with these women is do everything which is expected of you and more.



depends on the girls. try googling 'narcissistic personality disorder' and 'histrionic personality disorder', i think these two disorders have strong tendencies to become moody.

quotes from wikipedia

"Histrionic personality disorder (HPD) is defined by the American Psychiatric Association as a personality disorder characterized by a pattern of excessive emotionality and attention-seeking, including an excessive need for approval and inappropriate seductiveness, usually beginning in early adulthood. These individuals are lively, dramatic, enthusiastic, and flirtatious.
They may be inappropriately sexually provocative, express strong emotions with an impressionistic style, and be easily influenced by others. Associated features may include egocentrism, self-indulgence, continuous longing for appreciation, feelings that are easily hurt, and persistent manipulative behavior to achieve their own needs."

"Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a personality disorder defined by the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, the diagnostic classification system used in the United States, as "a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration, and a lack of empathy."[1]
The narcissist is described as being excessively preoccupied with issues of personal adequacy, power, and prestige.[2] Narcissistic personality disorder is closely linked to self-centeredness."

also add people who are bitter with their past experiences. these people are like this not because there is a problem now, but there probably was a big problem in the past. something which is not the fault of the current other half.



I'm an American male. I don't like either choice but I'd have to say I'd prefer the uneducated over the moody. If it's a little moody I say maybe moody. You can take an uneducated girl and hopefully she'd want to get a little education. Unfortunately I have to admit that I had a GF that was both. I paid for her to get an education and she was very smart and did well. She had more than just what I'd call moody. She had anger issues and "Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). I gave her a book on anger and I learned a lot about handling her to make things better. I don't think she learned much or I should say she didn't do a very good job putting what she learned into practice. But she has NPD and cannot change after years and to me has gotten worse. Mental illness is a not something you can easily change, even with an understanding BF or spouce. I didn't know NPD was a real condition. Is this common with Filipinas?

^^ RACE is out of the question. With what you are experiencing with your current GF. Every person in the planet has their own FLAWS. And it's your call-if you can't BEAR or ACCEPT someone's FLAWS. The moment you get ABUSED BY SOMEONE's FLAWS-IS ENOUGH BIG REASON TO STAY OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP. IT WON'T BE HEALTHY AT ALL. Not unless you can see the person has efforts to change-but still it is still a gamble and risk that you take-all in the name of love.

[Bigot3AtBalbas]

Excuse me, hindi po ako ilusyunada. Bordering pessimistic nga ako e. Who say's girls can have both? I know I'm attractive enough. Isama pa ang personal growth and future accomplishments. Girls don't be afraid to have it all. Looks, money, career, power, family etc. Kaya yan. You just have to believe you deserve them. Alas natin yan eh. Hehe just to even out the playing field. Minsan nga mas may b a y a g pa ang babae sa lalaki.

Operada ka?

[herolangsakin]

^niliteral mo naman.

[HeavyLove]

which do you prefer an uneducated girl who has remained that way due to low finances, probably high school graduate, or an intelligent but moody and narcissistic woman who has finished college from a good school?

ok, let's not say as a gf because that would be tough. let's just say as a friend, a fubu or a woman who you respect?

Hi kuya ric. Ahm alam mo siguro before i would readily say yung uneducated woman ang pipiliin ko.. Pero ngayon based from my experiences mahirap pakisamahan din iyong mga walang pinagaralan lalo na kung ikaw nakapag aral ka. Hindi naman din kasi lahat ng uneducated woman mababait at minsan may limitation din *** extent kung hanggang saan ka lang din nila kayang intindihin.

Pagdating naman dun sa educted yet moody at narcissist mahirap din yan pakisamahan kasi nakakawala din ng gana kasama.

In short, kapag complicated person ka do not choose the uneducated, hindi lang sa kawawa sila kasi mahirapan silang intindihan ka kung hindi minsan hirap ka din makikisama sa kanila.

Kung moody ka din dont choose *** moody rin... Pero kung kaya mo naman intindihin ang moodiness nya PARA SA AKIN, based sa preference ko, mas prefer ko na ang moody.

[vincex]

I have a friend who got involved with a very moody girl. The guy is the head of a multinational corp. The girl is poor but hot.

He gets along well with the girl and was willing to support her and they have a great sex life. Unfortunately the girl is really moody and the only thing that prolonged their relation is the great sex. Eventually the guy gave up.

What is sad in the situation is that the girl was already "binahay", given a car, and other freebies. And the guy was even willing to give her a business. It never got to that and the girl will never know the opportunities she lost.

[may2]

I have a friend who got involved with a very moody girl. The guy is the head of a multinational corp. The girl is poor but hot.

He gets along well with the girl and was willing to support her and they have a great sex life. Unfortunately the girl is really moody and the only thing that prolonged their relation is the great sex. Eventually the guy gave up.

What is sad in the situation is that the girl was already "binahay", given a car, and other freebies. And the guy was even willing to give her a business. It never got to that and the girl will never know the opportunities she lost.

Did your friend love the moody girlfriend? I think its not about the opportunities. Does your friend propose to the mody girlfriend or have an intention to marry her?

[TTJ]

pwede palang gawing regular activity ang pagpo-propose.

[rickym]

I have a friend who got involved with a very moody girl. The guy is the head of a multinational corp. The girl is poor but hot.

He gets along well with the girl and was willing to support her and they have a great sex life. Unfortunately the girl is really moody and the only thing that prolonged their relation is the great sex. Eventually the guy gave up.

What is sad in the situation is that the girl was already "binahay", given a car, and other freebies. And the guy was even willing to give her a business. It never got to that and the girl will never know the opportunities she lost.

Did your friend love the moody girlfriend? I think its not about the opportunities. Does your friend propose to the mody girlfriend or have an intention to marry her?

normally guys who shell out that kind of money don't intend to marry the girl. some will think, "kaya nga binibigyan ng pera para hindi siya magpakasal eh, ba't nalang niya ako hindi gatasan, yun naman ang gusto niya eh."

[Romanticure]

uneducated/moody?
pareho babae yan, sa moody na ko, makakarelate ako sa kanya tiyak dahil nagpapalit palit din ako ng mood.

[rickym]

uneducated/moody?
pareho babae yan, sa moody na ko, makakarelate ako sa kanya tiyak dahil nagpapalit palit din ako ng mood.

do you agree that moody and unreasonable girls attract similarly moody and unreasonable men?

[vincex]

Did your friend love the moody girlfriend? I think its not about the opportunities. Does your friend propose to the mody girlfriend or have an intention to marry her?

Regarding the love, yes.

Regarding the marry? .. it never got to that. For obvious reasons.

The opportunities part is just the collateral damage. Unfortunately, the collateral damage would have been very crucial to the girl.

[vincex]

normally guys who shell out that kind of money don't intend to marry the girl. some will think, "kaya nga binibigyan ng pera para hindi siya magpakasal eh, ba't nalang niya ako hindi gatasan, yun naman ang gusto niya eh."

I agree. 70% of the time that is. (i've lowered it from 90+%)

Many guys still think that they are expected to shell out (buy?) for the girl and that this is the social norm. So even some of the serious guys compete (buy?) their love and relation.

ergo, they would know any better and expect to flash $$$ and think its ok.

[decent]

Lack of common sense kapag pagod tatawa ka na lang kapag kasama mo siya pero hindi mo alam ang dahilan.
Lack of common sense is personality. kaya pang turuan.

Moody kapag pagod ka kelangan mo parin magpakumbaba at pagbigyan siya.
Moody is attitude. ugali, mahirap na baguhin, ikaw dapat magadjust.