bakit kaya sha ganun???

[maldita2dmax]

gusto ko lang magtanong... kase ganito yun...

I am on my early 30's and has been married for 4 years now.. wala pa kaming baby ng husband ko.

So basically, work lang ako then house. Super late un working hours ko *** kung magkita man kami ng husband ko konting oras lang. Tulog lang ako then pagkagising pasok ulit sa work. Yun husband ko naman eh either tulog pa when i leave the house or nasa work na.

Si hubby di mashado showy sa feelings nya. If i want a hug, then i have to ask him to give me pa. Although i long for physical attention (hugs, embraces, massage etc.) tinanggap ko na lang na di sweet si hubby.

Then okay na sana yun ganun. Tanggap ko na yun set-up namin until may pumasok na bagong guy sa work namin.

Si Guy number 2 sobrang bata pa... 14 years my junior... pero sweet-sweetan sa akin.

Everytime makikita nya ako... he would ask me for a hug which i give him without any malice. Kase nga he's just a younger brother for me. Pero i noticed na sa akin lang sha sweet-sweetan. Never nya yun ginawa sa mga ibang workmates namin.. Tapos, fishing for information pa sha. Kase one time na nag-uusap kami, sabi nya na may nagsabi daw sa kanya na married na ako, on which i don't know why i couldn't admit to him. Ayun dahil nga di ko pa inaamin, sweet-sweetan pa rin sha. Pinagsasabi nya pa sa iba na may agreement daw kami na everytime magkikita kami eh we have to give each other a hug. Which wala naman talagang ganun agreement. Basta na lang na pagnagkita kami.. hingi sha ng hug which i willingly give... Wala naman kaseng meaning for me yun eh.

Pero may mga instances na si guy number 2 eh sobrang papansin..Pag nakikita nya ko na stress na sa work.. lalapit sha sa akin then would ask me to give him a big smile... Tas bigla nya sasabihin na " i love it when you smile"

Minsan nag-uusap kami ng isang friend ko and he was asking about my husband.. bigla narinig ni guy number 2.. Sabi nya " ASAWA? Why, are you married???" then when i said i have 4 husbands.. dahil di ko pa din maamin sa kanya.. for a reason i don't know. Then he repeated the same question again, on which i asnwered him the same answer. Until he just ignored what i am saying dahil nga he knows i am just saying b*llsh*t!

Pero nun nag-usap ulit kami ni guy number 2, super hug na naman sha... as in he pulled me over to give me a big hug...

Until one morning, nagising ako na magaan yun feeling. Parang kinikilig ako dahil i dreamt of guy number 2. I can't explain it pero ang saya talaga ng feeling ko... at dahil jan parang i realized that i am crushing guy number 2.

Pero dahil gusto ko maging honest kay hubby, inamin ko sa kanya na may crush ako. But i told him not to worry dahil the guy is very much younger than me... Si hubby naman deadma lang.. sabi nya nga eh crush lang naman yun.

But sa akin nagiging iba yun feelings ko. I think I am falling for guy number 2. Although alam kong walang patutunguhan dahil 1st, i am very much married, 2nd the guy is very young... and 3rd, alam kong may GF sha.

Nakakaines lang, dahil alam ko naman na hindi pwede.. pero nahuhulog talaga un loob ko kay guy number 2...

Ngayon gusto ko malaman kung bakit ganun si guy number 2. Kase nung minsan nag-uusap kami, nagulat ako na nare-remember nya yun mga small details about me. Di ko akalain na natatandaan nya yun mga sinasabi ko sa kanya... Tas may time pa na naglolokohan kami, sabi nya.. "look into my eyes and tell me you don't care for me"

Ano ba sa tingin nyo si guy number 2?? interesado or pa-flirt lang?? Naiines nga ako sa sarili ko dahil pinapaniwala ko ang sarili ko na interesado sha... at pinapayagan ko un sarili ko na mahulog ang loob sa kanya.

Ngayon.. kahit na alam kong walang mangyayari sa pagpapa-cute at pasweet-sweetan namin dalawa... di ko pa rin maamin na i'm married na... hay!

Sa tingin ko kinikilig lang ako sa kanya dahil nga i get the physical attention na di ko nakukuha sa sarili kong asawa. But
beyond that, sa tingin nyo bakit ganun si guy number 2???

[jerseyvixen]

wild guess out of nowhere lol - guy number 2 wants to f the living daylights out of you

[maldita2dmax]

wild guess out of nowhere lol - guy number 2 wants to f the living daylights out of you

so he's just egotripping??? hmm!

[tequilla_babe]

baka he wanted a sugar mommy and you are the best candidate for that.. and beside, hindi naman maggaganun *** mga guys kung hindi ka nagbigay ng motibo... baka sobrang nagpacute ka kay guy2 kaya ikaw na ang napili nya for sugar mommy

[tequilla_babe]

wala sa guy2 yung problema kundi sa iyo.. he will stop what he is doing if you will tell him the truth that you are married, does not have a happy sex life and you feel awkward whenever he do that to you..

[tequilla_babe]

better change the title of your post from "bakit kaya sha ganun" to "bakit kaya ako ganito "

[maldita2dmax]

baka he wanted a sugar mommy and you are the best candidate for that.. and beside, hindi naman maggaganun *** mga guys kung hindi ka nagbigay ng motibo... baka sobrang nagpacute ka kay guy2 kaya ikaw na ang napili nya for sugar mommy

bwahahaha natawa ko dun... nakalimutan ko sabhin na we are not in Philly. Una di ako nagbigay ng motibo, sha ang unang nagpasweet-sweet... hahaha.

tulad ng sinabi ko, una di ko binibigyan ng malisya. dahil nga bata ang tingin ko sa kanya. Hanggang sa dumating un punto na nahuhulog un loob ko sa kanya dahil nga sweet-sweetan sha.

At alam nyo naman siguro na dito sa abroad, mukhang batang tignan ang mga asians. Madami nag-aakala that i am in the mid 20's.

And i don't think uso ang sugar mommy dito... My husband is a caucasian din nga pala.

[rokrok]

Gusto lang umiskor non. Tapos.

[jerseyvixen]

so he's just egotripping??? hmm!

he's not egotripping girl friend. he's being a guy.

[jerseyvixen]

Gusto lang umiskor non. Tapos.

well done rokrok

[tequilla_babe]

if that's the case why didn't you tell him that you are married... sabi mo na hindi mo masabi na you are married for some reason you do not know... siguro naman alam mo na yun reason ngayon.. kasi you also like the guy..

[maldita2dmax]

Gusto lang umiskor non. Tapos.

hahaha could be...but of all people ako pa... hahaha. Dami mas pretty and younger girls sa work na obvious na obvious na may crush sa kanya.. kakatawa lang

[jerseyvixen]

stop hating on the sister.

a woman will find what we're lacking at home somewhere else, that's just human nature

[maldita2dmax]

if that's the case why didn't you tell him that you are married... sabi mo na hindi mo masabi na you are married for some reason you do not know... siguro naman alam mo na yun reason ngayon.. kasi you also like the guy..

hahaha probably yeah.. pero last time in-add ko na sha sa FB ko. hahaha na dati ay di ko magawa. Dahil ayoko makita nyang married na ko...

[jerseyvixen]

hahaha probably yeah.. pero last time in-add ko na sha sa FB ko. hahaha na dati ay di ko magawa. Dahil ayoko makita nyang married na ko...

lol sis in his eyes, you're hotter now that you're married

[maldita2dmax]

stop hating on the sister.

a woman will find what we're lacking at home somewhere else, that's just human nature

thanks jersey, that is actually what i have in my mind right now. Siguro kaya ako nafall sa kanya eh dahil he gives me what my own husband is depriving me..

The only thing that's bothering me is the fact that i am allowing myself to fall... kahit na alam kong mali at walang mangyayari.

Nagtataka lang din ako why of all the girls sa work, sa akin lang sha talaga sweet. Gulo ko no.. sensya na ha

[jerseyvixen]

thanks jersey, that is actually what i have in my mind right now. Siguro kaya ako nafall sa kanya eh dahil he gives me what my own husband is depriving me..

The only thing that's bothering me is the fact that i am allowing myself to fall... kahit na alam kong mali at walang mangyayari.

that kind of bothers me too lol feeling involved

I don't know what I'll do in our situation. I am what I am, but when it comes to choosing between my vows and my needs sis, I will respect the vows. It's good to be kilig, just have the presence of mind to make sure his advances - do not advance

Nagtataka lang din ako why of all the girls sa work, sa akin lang sha talaga sweet. Gulo ko no.. sensya na ha

because it feels good to think and feel that out of all the women around, he has the hots for you.

more power to you, just don't forget your vows

[#1 critic]

Agree with jerseyvixen here. There's a line. DO NOT cross it. Everything else is fair game. As long as alam mong lumaro.

Thing is, from what I can tell, you don't know the game and you can't play it. So unless you can teach yourself how, itigil mo na siya bago pa lumala. Ikaw lagi ang talo diyan.

[jerseyvixen]

galing ng #1critic

and it's not a game that you can learn overnight

[joseph971]

gusto ko lang magtanong... kase ganito yun...

I am on my early 30's and has been married for 4 years now.. wala pa kaming baby ng husband ko.

So basically, work lang ako then house. Super late un working hours ko *** kung magkita man kami ng husband ko konting oras lang. Tulog lang ako then pagkagising pasok ulit sa work. Yun husband ko naman eh either tulog pa when i leave the house or nasa work na.

Si hubby di mashado showy sa feelings nya. If i want a hug, then i have to ask him to give me pa. Although i long for physical attention (hugs, embraces, massage etc.) tinanggap ko na lang na di sweet si hubby.

Then okay na sana yun ganun. Tanggap ko na yun set-up namin until may pumasok na bagong guy sa work namin.

Si Guy number 2 sobrang bata pa... 14 years my junior... pero sweet-sweetan sa akin.

Everytime makikita nya ako... he would ask me for a hug which i give him without any malice. Kase nga he's just a younger brother for me. Pero i noticed na sa akin lang sha sweet-sweetan. Never nya yun ginawa sa mga ibang workmates namin.. Tapos, fishing for information pa sha. Kase one time na nag-uusap kami, sabi nya na may nagsabi daw sa kanya na married na ako, on which i don't know why i couldn't admit to him. Ayun dahil nga di ko pa inaamin, sweet-sweetan pa rin sha. Pinagsasabi nya pa sa iba na may agreement daw kami na everytime magkikita kami eh we have to give each other a hug. Which wala naman talagang ganun agreement. Basta na lang na pagnagkita kami.. hingi sha ng hug which i willingly give... Wala naman kaseng meaning for me yun eh.

Pero may mga instances na si guy number 2 eh sobrang papansin..Pag nakikita nya ko na stress na sa work.. lalapit sha sa akin then would ask me to give him a big smile... Tas bigla nya sasabihin na " i love it when you smile"

Minsan nag-uusap kami ng isang friend ko and he was asking about my husband.. bigla narinig ni guy number 2.. Sabi nya " ASAWA? Why, are you married???" then when i said i have 4 husbands.. dahil di ko pa din maamin sa kanya.. for a reason i don't know. Then he repeated the same question again, on which i asnwered him the same answer. Until he just ignored what i am saying dahil nga he knows i am just saying b*llsh*t!

Pero nun nag-usap ulit kami ni guy number 2, super hug na naman sha... as in he pulled me over to give me a big hug...

Until one morning, nagising ako na magaan yun feeling. Parang kinikilig ako dahil i dreamt of guy number 2. I can't explain it pero ang saya talaga ng feeling ko... at dahil jan parang i realized that i am crushing guy number 2.

Pero dahil gusto ko maging honest kay hubby, inamin ko sa kanya na may crush ako. But i told him not to worry dahil the guy is very much younger than me... Si hubby naman deadma lang.. sabi nya nga eh crush lang naman yun.

But sa akin nagiging iba yun feelings ko. I think I am falling for guy number 2. Although alam kong walang patutunguhan dahil 1st, i am very much married, 2nd the guy is very young... and 3rd, alam kong may GF sha.

Nakakaines lang, dahil alam ko naman na hindi pwede.. pero nahuhulog talaga un loob ko kay guy number 2...

Ngayon gusto ko malaman kung bakit ganun si guy number 2. Kase nung minsan nag-uusap kami, nagulat ako na nare-remember nya yun mga small details about me. Di ko akalain na natatandaan nya yun mga sinasabi ko sa kanya... Tas may time pa na naglolokohan kami, sabi nya.. "look into my eyes and tell me you don't care for me"

Ano ba sa tingin nyo si guy number 2?? interesado or pa-flirt lang?? Naiines nga ako sa sarili ko dahil pinapaniwala ko ang sarili ko na interesado sha... at pinapayagan ko un sarili ko na mahulog ang loob sa kanya.

Ngayon.. kahit na alam kong walang mangyayari sa pagpapa-cute at pasweet-sweetan namin dalawa... di ko pa rin maamin na i'm married na... hay!

Sa tingin ko kinikilig lang ako sa kanya dahil nga i get the physical attention na di ko nakukuha sa sarili kong asawa. But
beyond that, sa tingin nyo bakit ganun si guy number 2???

Batuhin mo ng iPhone
ang wirdo pala nung guy number 2 eh
may pa-hug hug pa, nalilibugan lang yun, kasi HOT ka
(ewan ko lang)